See, you failed on the first one, but you knowledge is amazing. Breathtaking!
I guess he did read that 😉
However, I am married and we have 2 kids. None of us really planned any of them, but neither had anything against it. They are lovely and we take care of them. Also I am only in my middle 50s, and my wife middle 40s, so no more kids for us. 😉
What I find strange is not the pressure to have a kid more, as that can be a strong wish. What I see is a woman that takes things for granted and do not understand very well. She want to leave land to her parents, but they will most surely be dead before her. That´s just sick. She seems like she do not appreciate her kid nor you, and only treat you as tools to get what she want.