Yes, I was thinking the same thing.
We've been brainwashed to have kids when we're younger and marry a woman the same age in the West.
Marry a younger woman and have kids when you're older, have savings, and can semi-retire to spend a lot of time with them in the most important years of their lives and development . As opposed to when you're younger and have to work all the time.
And really, it's ok if you croak when they're 16. They don't need you anymore.
I don't particularly like you, but on this issue we're on the same page.