This forum and its people. The hatred is unbelievable. Amusing how upset they get though.
You don't spend the equivalent of 10k a month for the next 5 years on a visa, to only live in a 12k month condo, eh genius? Well i don't anyway.
Sorry you are 3m down, i know its a lot for you at your age.
On the bright side, you will never crystallise that loss cus it'll probably never sell.