Please re-read my original post (slowly) as well as the one you replied to. Here, I'll quote it again for you,
"..........unless some IOs are different than others"
I included that statement because it amazes me how some allows Immigration to walk all over them. Like I said, if an IO states something different then show them facts (the laws and rules).
13 years 3 different IO and never anything different than what the rules state. I guess I am lucky!