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Does anybody know the exact details if a boy wants to leave at 15, to go live somewhere else? IV posted about my issues so wojt go through the whole lot but if I have full custody and my is 15 can he just decide to leave, some have said yes, some have no 18, so have said 20. I do know if a custody hearing is set and the boy is 15 then the judge will take Into account his views, but that's not the same thing as it's already set.

Women, just go for it without understanding the consiquences

Completely irrisponsible to being out a line like that

It seems they are not no, shame really. The paperwork I had to show was for him anyway, photos round the house with both of us, copy of ID, copy of birth certificate, copy of house book, copy of divorce and papers showing full custody. No need for school reciepts or any proof what school he is at. Changing the blue book doesn't matter either as the one I showed wasn't even for the house we are living. The only really concern for them is who has custody of him and that's me and that won't change unless she wants to take me to court to see if it can be changed and I don't think she got the time or money to do that. Fortunately when the passport does come back as it's at immigration currently waiting after the 30 day consideration but next year I will be 50 so of I'm still here then I can get a retirement visa which doesn't need any paperwork about family stuff.

Not that IV bothered checking but I would imagine that they all got 30 years together not each and the media run with that. That's way to extreme sentence.

She is breaking the law as I am saying he cannot stay with her unless I say that's it's OK and I know he is actually there. Yes, I do want the police to drag him back and if necessary at least give her a warning, if she continues to flaunt the law have her charged. Like I said as much as I want to, I respect the decision about my daughter.

I already told you she is not allowed without my permission. And no I don't see my daughter if she doesn't want me to, which is becoming more frequent

Mate, sometimes I wonder about the stupidity of people. What law is broken is she is not allowed to have him, simple

The only cards she holds is she is Thai. In an ideal world we could sit down for a coffee and discuss why he is doing this and what we can do to resolve this for his best interest but she won't, so that then becomes an issue. For example he turned up in-between this post the other day, and he done another runner when I asked him to have a shower and go to sleep, he refused then ran off, I assumed after trying to find him he gone back mum's, 4am she said he isn't back so where he gone, it's this thing that then becomes a danger to his safety. But still no anwser Kinda strange but I thought police are there to uphold the law

I have asked, but get the "I'll do it 2mw" , I leave it for fear of this exact thing happens.

Thanks for all the advice good and bad. I would like to say this. 1. I have a visa so that's not a problem, the people who write it's all about a visa are just cruel. 2. I do not go to the school as that would be a problem which I could get done for if anybody complained, I have been speaking to the teachers, director and police and it's obvious through dialogue they are not 1 bit interested. 3. It's very easy for me to just go Arr sod it let him do what he wants but than then sets the stage for worse to come. I have full legal control and that should be regonised by authorities but it's not. 4. I have said many times it's not about what I want, it's about what's the right thing to do, at 14 you are not allowed to just do what you want that's why there are laws specifically saying that, so while my son wants to live with his mum and I fully understand, he cannot do, nor can the mother do what she is doing, but as everyone knows the police are somewhat sloppy nothing gets done unless you fight for justice.

Living standards.ok..id say

Yes , I agree, so stick it in

Man, I know what I'm doing after all I'm the Dad

I'm casual wirh muppets

Let me explain for the norms, my daughter will phone me ask for an new ipad, I say no, I'm gonna just start handing out ipads when you being naughty, then just gets a cob on.for 5.days and won't answer the phone, then literally phoned me a min ago and asked for 500 baht to get snacks, ok , it's in. It just doesn't seem.to resolute how naughty they being, it's like let try Daddy again.

Probably rebellious lol

Thank.you sir, shows some.get it

Rant is cool, but again I'm skool, your mum is setting an example making her bed, it's not your space is yours and mine is.mine. It's sloppy, now I agree when I was 14 I didn't see that but at 49 I see the importance of cleandiness on all levels, as the great jocko.wilko.says, make.your bed in the morning starts you off to a good day, don't make your bed your lazy all day

I have it coming, crap loads of paperwork 3 weeks ago which was just me and my son , last week of consideration, dunno why you need 30 day consideration but how it is

A bicycle ???? Ride probably better word, sorry

This is not really your normal situation Dr Jack, at this moment in time me and her live not far although I don't know where but my son has to drive past the soi to get to school, he could go back there every night on his way home and have his tea, could even stay there every night if he asked no problem, but the base must be with me is all I'm asking. It's not clear cut, right you take her I'm having him and never the 2 shall meet, or you won't see him again.No Also they are getting to the age 15 soon and 13 where they get on each other's nerves, I'm pretty sure living in a studio is actually getting on mum's nerves with both lol, but she is so stubborn she trying to one up me. It was only last month we signed the papers

Common practice when both want full custody of both, what they meant to do, meet in the middle.

But the ones that do my kids will get 5x because it's automatic assumed they ain't thick as

I stupidly throughout I could get some advice off people who have been In similar situations, but that would be to easy, so I got to dust off the battle armour