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Thailand Move Gives Australian Father New Start

A divorced Australian father-of-four has revealed why he left Australia to start a new life in Thailand, citing rising living costs, job insecurity and frustration with life back home. Former media producer Jeff Asselin said he now lives comfortably in Thailand on about $1,500 a month after years of financial and emotional strain in Australia.

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Jeff, 56, spent 25 years working in the education sector before becoming disillusioned during the Covid era. He said choosing not to get vaccinated left him feeling isolated and excluded from society, while being made redundant twice in two years pushed him towards financial uncertainty despite decades of experience and completing a master’s degree.

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Over a two-year period, Jeff said he applied for more than 50 jobs but struggled to secure work. He claimed age may have become a factor during interviews, despite being a strong match for many positions on paper.

At the same time, Jeff said Australia’s soaring cost of living was becoming impossible to manage. Despite living what he described as a modest and frugal lifestyle, he said he was spending close to $7,500 a month while renting alone after his divorce.

Jeff blamed government mismanagement and mass immigration for worsening the housing crisis and making stability unaffordable for ordinary Australians. Although he had worked hard enough to own two properties, one remained with his ex-wife after their divorce while the other was tied up in his self-managed super fund.

He said taxation, housing costs, utilities, insurance and power bills left him feeling as though there was little financial reward for decades of work. Jeff eventually decided to relocate to Thailand, where he now runs the YouTube channel Aussie Nomad Life documenting expatriate life in Southeast Asia.

Jeff currently lives with a Thai woman in a two-bedroom cabin costing about $106 a month, with power bills around $21 monthly and high-speed internet that he said outperformed Australian services. He insisted he was not living a luxury lifestyle, saying he remained focused on business, health and his relationship rather than spending time drinking in bars.

Jeff admitted the biggest downside of leaving Australia was being away from his children. He said no lower cost of living or lifestyle change could replace being close to family.

He also said his relatives were initially sceptical about his decision to move to Thailand, believing it was linked to stereotypes surrounding middle-aged men relocating there. However, he said their views changed after seeing the life he had built overseas.

The Daily Mail reported that Jeff plans to settle permanently in Thailand when he reaches 60 and gains access to his superannuation. He said many Australians had contacted him expressing similar concerns about affordability, housing and job insecurity, suggesting more people were considering moving overseas for a cheaper lifestyle.

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GammaGlobulin Star Member

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27 minutes ago, Screaming said:

Another monger with a wife beater tee shirt, tats and gold necklace. Nothing new here, move along.

Clothes and lack of sartorial elegance always make the man.

Where do these guys get their style choices?

From blue-collar bums?

I really doubt he has an MA in anything useful.

flaming dragon Gold Member

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On 5/10/2026 at 11:27 PM, robert2 said:

same entitled people who ridicule those who wear surgical face masks on public.

What does ridiculing people who richly deserve it have to do with entitlement? I'd venture a guess that the people who are labelled 'anti immigrant' are, in fact, opposed to migrants and the lavish lifestyle handed to them by the governments who disdain the native populace.

If the currency used in the story is USD it would equate to 48k baht/month. That's certainly enough to cover shelter and food costs for 2 people living an ordinary life. Perhaps the woman is still working.

advancebooking Gold Member

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On 5/12/2026 at 8:32 PM, JamesPhuket10 said:

I find it funny how so many comments on this article is related to income and what type of Thai woman can be found depending on a farangs income in other words bought.

It just shows the type of woman many farangs end up being with, probably a bar girl from Isaan seeing that is where most of them come from, with sick parents and a buffalo to support.

What about those of us who are with a woman long term who have their own money, income and property and have already made it in life on their own and are with us out of mutual happiness.

There are many women like that, but they can not be found hanging around bars and thus the majority of farangs never meet them.

And the big thing which makes the gold digger type totally obvious is the fact they are with a guy old enough to be their father, that is one big giveaway.

Why do theses guys have such a woman full time, they stand out like a sore thumb as they walk together in public, they are not fooling anybody, why not just hire one now and then I am sure that is a lot less expensive?

im married to a normal thai girl. She is the breadwinner in our family. Im the house husband and taxi for my child taking her to school and tutoriing. its a good life. i could not be with a P4P girl

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3 hours ago, advancebooking said:

im married to a normal thai girl. She is the breadwinner in our family. Im the house husband and taxi for my child taking her to school and tutoriing. its a good life. i could not be with a P4P girl

That is good to hear, good luck to you all, but be prepared for a set of thumb down comments as we anti bar-girl, pro-normal-Thai-Girl get thumbed down all the time as we have hit many guys too close to home and think their setup is the norm in Thailand, it is in their small circles but is definitely not the norm Thailand-wide.

But they do make me laugh. 😃

Rockyroad Platinum Member

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2 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

That is good to hear, good luck to you all, but be prepared for a set of thumb down comments as we anti bar-girl, pro-normal-Thai-Girl get thumbed down all the time as we have hit many guys too close to home and think their setup is the norm in Thailand, it is in their small circles but is definitely not the norm Thailand-wide.

But they do make me laugh. 😃

With 300,000 expats you would not know the percentages.

flaming dragon Gold Member

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14 hours ago, advancebooking said:

im married to a normal thai girl. She is the breadwinner in our family. Im the house husband and taxi for my child taking her to school and tutoriing. its a good life. i could not be with a P4P girl

A gogo dancer offered me that role nearly 20 years ago but I didn't want to quit my secure job with a pension. It was very tempting though. She got into another line of work and ended up with an American guy her own age.

Old Croc Star Member

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On 5/11/2026 at 7:32 PM, camper star said:

Can you educate me why they do that I have no idea.

I have observed it, I cannot explain it.

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On 5/11/2026 at 8:07 PM, GreasyFingers said:

Not many on here would even know where that is.

You may be surprised how many people actually know how to do research (google?) to advance their knowledge without having someone explain everything they don't know.

To help you out, the Daly River in the NT is full of large, old crocodiles.

fredwiggy Star Member

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On 5/12/2026 at 8:51 PM, Screaming said:

Another monger with a wife beater tee shirt, tats and gold necklace. Nothing new here, move along.

You do realize that people who wears those type of shirts have nothing to do with being a wife beater right? Tattoos of course mean nothing either, as many good people have them,and a gold necklace is worn by millions , so I'm not sure what you're getting at here. Is his wife here a P4P? If not, then he's not a monger right?

The only thing I would question about his choice is were all his kids out of the house when he left. Old enough to take care of themselves and not still need their dad around.

Old Croc Star Member

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On 5/11/2026 at 6:08 PM, CallumWK said:

I have a few for you as well.

These two vids are from one company, Nomad Elite. It may be worth checking out what their business model is, to see if they have a balanced viewpoint.

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On 5/11/2026 at 4:26 PM, Fat is a type of crazy said:

Can get rent for $2000 per month easy in a big city and less elsewhere. Other expenses no where near $7500 in total. Bit suss on the story as the education sector is crying out for staff too in Australia so either he's not good or maybe he had a specialist role - then he needs to look for jobs further a field.

In Sydney you may be able to rent something for 2k 50-70km from the CBD. Typical 2 bedroom unit northeast of Parramatta river would be around $3500 pm. Nicer 2-3 bedroom terrace house in the inner west would fetch up to 6000 pm. I got a punctured tyre fixed yesterday $66. Not that difficult at all to spend $7500 per month.

Old Croc Star Member

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On 5/12/2026 at 8:28 PM, still kicking said:

Perth Western Australia

I'm from Perth, as is the subject of this thread. I'd love to hear a bit more detail about your very low-cost rental. Is it a nursing home or block of flats?

The 2026 average rental in Perth is around $700 pw; you seem to have a bargain.

Fat is a type of crazy Platinum Member

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10 minutes ago, gearbox said:

In Sydney you may be able to rent something for 2k 50-70km from the CBD. Typical 2 bedroom unit northeast of Parramatta river would be around $3500 pm. Nicer 2-3 bedroom terrace house in the inner west would fetch up to 6000 pm. I got a punctured tyre fixed yesterday $66. Not that difficult at all to spend $7500 per month.

I do know Melbourne better but it seems there's a fair few 1 bedrooms in that 30 to 50 km area from Sydney CBD. In terms of budget I think you can live on a lot less than that if a bit careful - limit eating out etc. I suppose we can agree that Sydney is definitely expensive and harder to have a good life there but I think you can get by ok on a lot less.

I do have an associate though who has found himself in a difficult situation - sold up for the thai dream at 49 - and now at 61 not sure what to do going back and forward - money low - hard in the short term to find a place to live in Australia - earn money - and get on your feet - but if committed to long term Australian life you can do it - support is there. Better for costs in Thailand - but no work and you need dollars - but if this guy is happy then good for him.

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GreasyFingers Platinum Member

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43 minutes ago, Old Croc said:

You may be surprised how many people actually know how to do research (google?) to advance their knowledge without having someone explain everything they don't know.

To help you out, the Daly River in the NT is full of large, old crocodiles.

Don't worry mate, worked the NT for a few years out of Darwin, mostly east of the highway. Only went to the Daly River on a fishing trip.

Old Croc Star Member

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On 5/16/2026 at 8:54 AM, GreasyFingers said:

Don't worry mate, worked the NT for a few years out of Darwin, mostly east of the highway. Only went to the Daly River on a fishing trip.

Stood well back from the edge, I hope.

I've swum in Katherine Gorge while waiting for an overdue boat to link up. Went back in the dark, croc eyes shining everywhere. Freshies, fortunately.

Have also swum in the Ord, below the diversion dam. We were later told a large salty had been spotted around the bend from where we were. Have seen crocs from boats several times in places like Cairns and the Adelaide River.

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