sanemax Posted February 24, 2018 Share Posted February 24, 2018 6 hours ago, robertthesculptor said: Well I don't know, however in my experiance, 38 year old American men don't just hang themselves from the bedpost.......much more to this story.....but he made it easy to ignore... Just some guy alone and depressed... In a place that fights for more babies and disregards the needs of the living. Happy Trails, lost boy.... Well , 38 year old american men do commit suicide , are you stating that they do not ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F4UCorsair Posted February 24, 2018 Share Posted February 24, 2018 No need to come half way across the world to hang yourself, you can do that at home. I would guess loneliness or a broken heart was the key factor. Perhaps he thought he had a girl here but it didn't turn out that way or perhaps he thought he would have a good time but somehow he just couldn't meet up with any people he could relate to. A deserted dormitory after several days of loneliness may have been the last straw, overwhelming him. On the other hand he could have been suffering from depression he couldn't take anymore.Or all of the above, plus five mostly empty bottles. Poor guy.Dormitory living at 38?? Just awful.Sent from my [device_name] using http://Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 15 hours ago, F4UCorsair said: Dormitory living at 38?? Just awful. That could drive anyone to despair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 Expat killing himself ................... maybe. Tourist killing themselves .......... unlikely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Weird Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 On 2/24/2018 at 9:17 AM, robertthesculptor said: Well I don't know, however in my experiance, 38 year old American men don't just hang themselves from the bedpost.......much more to this story.....but he made it easy to ignore... Just some guy alone and depressed... In a place that fights for more babies and disregards the needs of the living. Happy Trails, lost boy.... What experience do you have? Do 38-year old non-Americans have more of a tendency to commit suicide? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anon789561 Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 RIP fella. depressions a terrible thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussieroaming Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 RIP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 Expat killing himself ................... maybe. Tourist killing themselves .......... unlikely.I've just looked at the website, Farang-deaths, interesting stats.Sent from my SM-G920F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Russell17au Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 RIP I would like to know how tall he is? Also I would like to know how high the bedpost is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 2 hours ago, Russell17au said: RIP I would like to know how tall he is? Also I would like to know how high the bedpost is? It doesnt matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 So sad when people have to die alone,seems to happen with older farangs ,drink,drugs,bad health,Viagra,or just old age. If they had been other guest's in the hostel,he could have talked to them,and not been in such despair to end it all. RIP. regards worgeordie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 On 2/24/2018 at 1:22 PM, sanemax said: Although, does the alcohol intake contribute to the suicide , or do they drink a lot in order to relief the suicidal tendencies ? it can be alcohol used to medicate pain or primary alcohol addiction that in of itself can lead to depression, despair, self loathing and suicide or be a mixed bag of both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gk10002000 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 On 2/23/2018 at 9:25 AM, bannork said: No need to come half way across the world to hang yourself, you can do that at home. I would guess loneliness or a broken heart was the key factor. Perhaps he thought he had a girl here but it didn't turn out that way or perhaps he thought he would have a good time but somehow he just couldn't meet up with any people he could relate to. A deserted dormitory after several days of loneliness may have been the last straw, overwhelming him. On the other hand he could have been suffering from depression he couldn't take anymore. yeah. check his phone records, texts, emails, etc. He may have thought he had something good there. But still, I am amazed at the number of apparent suicides over alleged partner issues. I would naively expected more violence against the partner? Or maybe they just can't find them and give it all up, completely embarrassed, ashamed, broke, etc. Add an overdose of booze and other things and some crazy things can go through one's mind I guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briggsy Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I see the standard Thai forensic examination was carried out 1. Count the empties and identify type of alcohol. (I see a foreign brand perplexed the cops here. Beer or 'whiskey'?) 2. Poke around in the ashtray and count the butts (More difficult nowadays with all this no smoking everywhere) 3. Scan the room and see if it qualifies to be described as "signs of a struggle". JOB DONE. No need for gloves or anything. All finished in 5 minutes. Draw a conclusion and announce it definitively to the waiting press. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 (edited) Perhaps people suffering from depression do not [always] cross the line to suicide when in their homelands, as some can have a bit of lucidity and may not want to burden their relatives, friends with the issue of finding the dead body ??? Being far from one's homeland, with no close friends or waypoints of life, may ease the issue and make it easier for the depressed to cross the line and commit suicide. IMHO of course. Consequently, fleeing a gloomy country with hopes but also with one's despair, to a distant sunny land may not always be a cure for rootened pathological issues. Unless one has the cash to burn with superficial distractions or patterns that could keep the mind distracted ?...who knows... RIP to the victim. Edited February 27, 2018 by observer90210 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Djw6 Posted March 1, 2018 Share Posted March 1, 2018 On 2/23/2018 at 9:25 PM, bannork said: No need to come half way across the world to hang yourself, you can do that at home. I would guess loneliness or a broken heart was the key factor. Perhaps he thought he had a girl here but it didn't turn out that way or perhaps he thought he would have a good time but somehow he just couldn't meet up with any people he could relate to. A deserted dormitory after several days of loneliness may have been the last straw, overwhelming him. On the other hand he could have been suffering from depression he couldn't take anymore. Or maybe, he ran out of money and had no job prospects back home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bannork Posted March 1, 2018 Share Posted March 1, 2018 1 hour ago, Djw6 said: Or maybe, he ran out of money and had no job prospects back home. Possible. When the proverbial hits the fan some folks become desperate when abroad. Back home they may have family or friends to turn to, but alone, far from home , things just seem so much worse. And then when there is nothing to go back home to, it just seems to be the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanemax Posted March 2, 2018 Share Posted March 2, 2018 On 2/24/2018 at 9:33 AM, sanemax said: Wonder whether it was my previous neighbour ? Had a huge argument with his GF last week because she never came home that night , got told to leave his Condo by the owner , asking to borrow 100 Baht and said that he was moving somewhere cheaper because he had no money and would be asking his Family to send some money over . Wonder whether its the same guy ? Jut seen the guy drive by , so, it wasnt him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeLubThailand Posted March 3, 2018 Share Posted March 3, 2018 Man with 7 stab wounds and gashes found dead. Police conclude as suicide without a pathologist and closed the case. One would never think human intelligence could be this low.http://www.samuitimes.com/russian-tourist-found-dead-in-phuket-hotel-with-7-stab-wounds-police-conclude-it-was-suicide/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruffian Dick Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 Probably due to reading too many depressing news items on TV... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted March 28, 2018 Share Posted March 28, 2018 A post containing profane and offensive comments has been removed: 7) You will respect fellow members and post in a civil manner. No personal attacks, hateful or insulting towards other members, (flaming) Stalking of members on either the forum or via PM will not be allowed.8) You will not post disruptive or inflammatory messages, vulgarities, obscenities or profanities.9) You will not post inflammatory messages on the forum, or attempt to disrupt discussions to upset its participants, or trolling. Trolling can be defined as the act of purposefully antagonizing other people on the internet by posting controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HLover Posted March 28, 2018 Share Posted March 28, 2018 The last time I had to stay at a dormatory room next to hippie brain dead 20 something's....well, lets just say I sympathize with the Yank from Oklahoma and weep for the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anon789561 Posted March 28, 2018 Share Posted March 28, 2018 i saw that there is a campaign in the UK where they say around 84 men commit suicide every week. I think if it's clearly suicide then it shouldn't really be in the news IMO anyway. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/itv-male-suicide-awareness-sculptures-building-roof-mental-health-project-84-calm-a8274326.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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