Private Investigator For Tg

[The Gentleman Scamp]

- on-going and always up to date .........

If you have already "invested" in a girlfriend but want to keep an eye on her while you are away, before you leave next time buy her a surprise gift ......... a Computer!!

She'll be soooo grateful (she won't have to go to the local Internet Cafe to keep in touch with you    ) - but first install Software which can record her keystrokes, copy all her outgoing or incoming Emails etc., and Email the records to your Email Address.

Some great Software out there - reliable and a once off investment ... well, per girlfriend / computer!! 

If you ever need to do this, you might as well call it a day.

I second that comment.

However, if you still want a PI then there is a service advertised on a sticker on the soap dispenser in the toilets at the Nana branch of Subway/Coffee World.

[MadFrankie]

- on-going and always up to date .........

If you have already "invested" in a girlfriend but want to keep an eye on her while you are away, before you leave next time buy her a surprise gift ......... a Computer!!

She'll be soooo grateful (she won't have to go to the local Internet Cafe to keep in touch with you      ) - but first install Software which can record her keystrokes, copy all her outgoing or incoming Emails etc., and Email the records to your Email Address.

Some great Software out there - reliable and a once off investment ... well, per girlfriend / computer!!  

If you ever need to do this, you might as well call it a day.

I second that comment.

However, if you still want a PI then there is a service advertised on a sticker on the soap dispenser in the toilets at the Nana branch of Subway/Coffee World.

lol.. it sounds like a top class operation

[simon43]

Oops - sorry for late reply to Eric1000 and Maerem post - I was in the UK for a week

A quick comment re this bar-girl. She did not continue to work in the bar. She simply visited the bar to meet her friends. Sure you say!! That's what I thought but the PI proved me wrong. That was over a year ago. The girl is not my GF (she was too focused on money!). But I still see her now and again. She has remained true to her word (I can happily say this based on PI evidence and the fact that it doesn't really bother me if she is still working). What is the important point in all this is that this BG made a promise and (apparently), stuck to it. (Which is far more than what some of the so-called 'decent' girls that i met did).

[stroll]

You've made this up, haven't you?

[davethailand]

why are'nt people grown up enough to look after their own affairs.

as said before, if you feel the need to hire a pi then you might as well give up now!

[simon43]

Hi Stroll, was your comment directed at my post? and if so, then please explain what you mean!

[stroll]

I got an inkling that what you say is not entirely true, but told to make a point, Simon. My apologies if I am wrong, but I find it hard to believe.

Sorry, I should have kept my mouth shut in the first instance, I realize this is not productive.

[simon43]

Stroll tell me more The only reason why I posted was to try to respond to the original question about PIs.

[stroll]

Ok, I had the sense you made up these stories to make the point that the result of the PI's work was the opposite of what one might have expected:

'nice' girl lied, BG was truthful

This I do not find hard to believe, it happens.

What I find hard to believe is the story that the ex-BG spent a substantial part of her leisure time socialising with her former work colleges without actually 'working' herself. And that you hired a PI who found nothing wrong.

Assuming you are not the naive sort, and the PI wasn't a complete idiot, my sense is the story is madeup, sorry.

My observation is that ex-BGs will go to see their friends in the bar occasionally, not everyday, unless they are still working there.

[simon43]

Stroll, I take your point. As I said, it actually doesn't bother me one way or t'other if she is still working in the bar, because she is not my GF. But in all honesty, the PI could never get her to 'cheat'. And I have been to her bar on many occasions (always unannounced). If she is there then she is never working, just chatting with her friends. (I get the idea that she is a little lonely without all her working friends...).

The bottom line on all this is that sometimes the girls you least expect to be honest, are actually really honest and more trustworthy that the 'decent' girls. That's what surprised me about this girl. And it did cause a real headache for me! Do I go with the 'decent' but dishonest girl or do I go with the honest BG??

In the end I solved this issue by kicking out both of them

[swain]

I have a friend who "may" have gotten a young lady pregnant but wants to hire a P.I. to go and get a blood sample and take it to be cross checked to see if he is the daddy. He is in the USA but wants someone professional and is willing to pay for it. He should have references and preferably be a Frang. Please message me here...

A word to the flamers ...its NOT me it really IS a friend and he wants to do the right thing and support the child if it truly is his.

[JacknDanny]

to all those who are sending money over to your povery stricken little tilaks in thailand in the belief that you can buy fidelity as easily as you can buy sex.

you poor deluded lovestruck fools!!!

sending money over to support bar girls (i am assuming that they are bar girls or sex industry girls), get a life.

my wifes family own an apartment block just off sukhumvit,36 small bed-sit type apartments with a little convenience store attached. most of the apartments are rented by bar/massage girls,sometimes 3 to an apartment.the girls are vivacious,fun and mostly beautiful.they lead an envious lifestyle.

they can afford to.

the girls come down to the shop,literally on a daily basis to get letters and e-mails translated from english into thai,and then to formulate suitable replies to the poor suckers who have made the fatal mistake of "falling in love" with these girls.

these girls,or a very high percentage of the ones that we write letters for,have three,four,five or more guys on the go at one time,the money comes rolling in on a monthly basis,supposedly to support children,family,pay the rental on the apartment,build a house etc.

in all cases the guy thinks he is the only one.

in all cases the girl makes him think he is the only one.

in 90% of cases the money is used to pay off gambling debts,buy gold,pay the bills on the three or four mobile phones that each girl has.etc.etc.etc.and buy vast amounts of alcohol from the shop.

very little money goes to support the family back home.

i sometimes get to meet you guys as and when you make your yearly/twice yearly pilgrimage to bangkok.some of you seem quite rational and intelligent,we watch football together and pop out for a drink together sometimes.

but i find it hard to keep quiet sometimes.knowing what i know, if i am asked for an opinion about the girl in question i will tell you. but you dont believe me because its not what you want to hear, and after you have left the money orders still keep coming in.

on the days that the guy leaves, the airport trip ceremony occurs takes place.

a sad day indeed,the heavy suitcases,the lightened wallet,the sad farang face,the warm clothing draped over the cases,ready for the arrival home, the "weeping" girlfriend left behind to suffer the pangs of loneliness whilst the hard working boyfriend flies back to the snowy lands of europe to toil away for another 6 months or so.

before the guy has settled into his economy class seat the girl will be back in town,dressed up and ready to party.

a new boyfriend will appear in the shop next morning,bleary eyed and bow legged buying his ciggies and an iced coffee for his squeeze.and on it goes.

these girls are brilliant at what they do,absolutely fckucking brilliant.

there may be one or two genuine ones out there who fall in love and form relationships based on love,but for 90% of you,

i'm afraid you are making a big mistake in thinking that love enters the equation.

unless you are in the country on a permanent basis,forget it.

a lot of these girls are earning 30k baht upwards from abroad alone,thats before what they get from guys for short time and long time. these girls are money mad and as busy as rabbits

so, all you kevins,helmuts and brads, the next e-mail,or letter that you receive could well have been translated by me.

and may i take this opportunity to thank you all for contributing to the continued success of the in-laws business.

work hard lads,get some overtime in,and keep sending over those ££,$$,EE.

see you for a beer in december.

some of you,you are paying for fun and you know it,no problem,

the rest of you ,you're paying for love, but getting taken for a painful and expensive and possibly heartbreaking ride.

would you form relationships with such girls back home?

Hey TaxEXILE.

This is a very very old thread, but this post should be stamped on every new arrivals forehead

It is so true and put in a very frank and honest way. I think that the next poster that writes "What should I do...." or "I have fallen in love but...." should be directed to this post

[Donz]

Why would you waste your money on a PI?

Go find out for yourself. Because what if the PI gets it wrong and reports on a different girl?

[taxexile]

i think most thai girls , if comfortable in a relationship , would be 100% faithful , whatever their working background .

if their customers / boyfriends could accept their infidelities or work whilst they are away then a lot of the jealousy and insecurities that only serve to intensify the "love" would disappear and everyone would be much happier.

[dgoz]

Have to hand it to the bar owners out there who know what's going on but keep their mouths shut. Fortunately, I'm still on this forum incognito so I'll be able to share just a couple of the more interesting stories from my bar without having a revolt on my hands.

I was looking at my best girls little black book a few nights ago and she showed me the email addresses of 17 boyfriends. I couldn't see the names of the 2 guys who've been talking to me lately about buying her out of the bar (of which she keeps telling me to make up excuses why they can't, but what am I supposed to say?). It also didn't seem to have any of her regular short-timers neither. So that's 19 "boyfriends" on the hook and I would never had thought it on first meeting her. She's quiet, reserved, I would say trust-worthy, definitely not trashy, but there you go, 19 suckers in the loop.

The other classic was a girl who had an English punter that was sending her a monthly salary. When he came over to see her she was juggling 2 other regulars. The 2 other punters knew of her "boyfriend" being in town and so knew the score. Her "boyfriend" was a big drinker who would keep going 'till 4am and would sleep 'till the afternoon everyday, so she had appointments with the other punters from 11am-12pm and 12pm-1pm (said she was shopping, doing chores etc). Then she would go back and snuggle up to her teeluk for a good morning kiss.(hopefully, after cleaning her teeth). She admitted she couldn't have done it without the help and understanding of the other 2 punters, god love em.

I could go on and on for pages and so could other bar owners, but you get my drift.

So fellas, for the millionth time, if a girl is working bar, she's doing just that, working bar.

Don't kid yourself, you're a customer and only that. Enjoy it for what it's meant to be; a short romance with a sexy young girl who made a good holiday a great holiday, and leave it as that. Maybe even see her again when you come back to Thailand.

[dgoz]

I have a friend who "may" have gotten a young lady pregnant but wants to hire a P.I. to go and get a blood sample and take it to be cross checked to see if he is the daddy. He is in the USA but wants someone professional and is willing to pay for it. He should have references and preferably be a Frang. Please message me here...

A word to the flamers ...its NOT me it really IS a friend and he wants to do the right thing and support the child if it truly is his.

I'm laying odds of 33/1 that it's not his kid if any of you punters want to have a piece of the action.

[The Philosopher]

Hi All,

A friend (yes a friend) is starting to think he may need a Private investigator to check up on his girl friend. I am of the opinion if he thinks he needs a PI, he already knows the answer, but he has a lot of emotion and some Bath invested in this girl. He goes to Thailand about every 2 months to meet with her for a week to ten days.

Have any of you used a PI to check out a girlfriend? What was your experience with the PI. Was it expensive?

Have a Happy…

DeDanan

If you think you/or your friend need a PI to check on a girl my advice is dump her get a girl you feel you can trust. This is no way to conduct a relationship.

[Cpt_M0ney_Sh0t]

to all those who are sending money over to your povery stricken little tilaks in thailand in the belief that you can buy fidelity as easily as you can buy sex.

you poor deluded lovestruck fools!!!

sending money over to support bar girls (i am assuming that they are bar girls or sex industry girls), get a life.

my wifes family own an apartment block just off sukhumvit,36 small bed-sit type apartments with a little convenience store attached. most of the apartments are rented by bar/massage girls,sometimes 3 to an apartment.the girls are vivacious,fun and mostly beautiful.they lead an envious lifestyle.

they can afford to.

the girls come down to the shop,literally on a daily basis to get letters and e-mails translated from english into thai,and then to formulate suitable replies to the poor suckers who have made the fatal mistake of "falling in love" with these girls.

these girls,or a very high percentage of the ones that we write letters for,have three,four,five or more guys on the go at one time,the money comes rolling in on a monthly basis,supposedly to support children,family,pay the rental on the apartment,build a house etc.

in all cases the guy thinks he is the only one.

in all cases the girl makes him think he is the only one.

in 90% of cases the money is used to pay off gambling debts,buy gold,pay the bills on the three or four mobile phones that each girl has.etc.etc.etc.and buy vast amounts of alcohol from the shop.

very little money goes to support the family back home.

i sometimes get to meet you guys as and when you make your yearly/twice yearly pilgrimage to bangkok.some of you seem quite rational and intelligent,we watch football together and pop out for a drink together sometimes.

but i find it hard to keep quiet sometimes.knowing what i know, if i am asked for an opinion about the girl in question i will tell you. but you dont believe me because its not what you want to hear, and after you have left the money orders still keep coming in.

on the days that the guy leaves, the airport trip ceremony occurs takes place.

a sad day indeed,the heavy suitcases,the lightened wallet,the sad farang face,the warm clothing draped over the cases,ready for the arrival home, the "weeping" girlfriend left behind to suffer the pangs of loneliness whilst the hard working boyfriend flies back to the snowy lands of europe to toil away for another 6 months or so.

before the guy has settled into his economy class seat the girl will be back in town,dressed up and ready to party.

a new boyfriend will appear in the shop next morning,bleary eyed and bow legged buying his ciggies and an iced coffee for his squeeze.and on it goes.

these girls are brilliant at what they do,absolutely fckucking brilliant.

there may be one or two genuine ones out there who fall in love and form relationships based on love,but for 90% of you,

i'm afraid you are making a big mistake in thinking that love enters the equation.

unless you are in the country on a permanent basis,forget it.

a lot of these girls are earning 30k baht upwards from abroad alone,thats before what they get from guys for short time and long time. these girls are money mad and as busy as rabbits

so, all you kevins,helmuts and brads, the next e-mail,or letter that you receive could well have been translated by me.

and may i take this opportunity to thank you all for contributing to the continued success of the in-laws business.

work hard lads,get some overtime in,and keep sending over those ££,$$,EE.

see you for a beer in december.

some of you,you are paying for fun and you know it,no problem,

the rest of you ,you're paying for love, but getting taken for a painful and expensive and possibly heartbreaking ride.

would you form relationships with such girls back home?

Brilliant Post, I lived in Pattaya for many years and have seen this secnerio literally dozens of times, more even... And it really doesn't matter what you look like or how old you are. I have been in the bed with girls when their crusty old sugar daddy calls up, and they don't even have the decency to stop fondling me. Meanwhile I hear his voice on the other line like "Oh I love you terak, I miss you and I come see you again soon. You get the money I send you? this money ok for you???" I felt like saying "Yeah it was ok for me!!! we had a great time at Xzyte! on your bread, Thanks Granpa!!!"....

At the same time I remember a 18yr old Marine suckered by some bar hoe, sending what he could of his meager lil pennies to her, thinking she was no longer working. She said "I still take man because if not he have to send me more and I know he no have good money"...

If you got a bar girl or a girl whom in your heart you don't 100% trust. When you are away, BE AWAY. Let her go and if she is meant to be with you she will be there when you get back..if not 100 more that look just like her will be. It's not rocket science people, really.

And if you do trust her, then still be in contact with her DAILY for atleast an hour. I trust my fiance' but STILL I average well over a hour a day video calling her at home. Simply because she needs the attention and it keeps our bond fresh and strong.

Is it full proof, no nothing is, but the trick is getting to a happy place were your not wondering whats going on when your not there.

[grapetable]

Hi Op,

You have heard from the so called experts, ah's, and affiliated dh's...............there is a chance she may just be genuine!..........employ a reliable PI and find out for yourself. Sorry I cant give advice as to relaible PI's ........maybe TV can help you out there.............

[JacknDanny]

Hi Op,

You have heard from the so called experts, ah's, and affiliated dh's...............there is a chance she may just be genuine!..........employ a reliable PI and find out for yourself. Sorry I cant give advice as to relaible PI's ........maybe TV can help you out there.............

You are about 18 months too late pal

[Beavis and Butthead]

Stickman See Here

Was advertising such a service about a month back, go the the link above and send him an email, he should be able to help your friend out.

But I'm with you on the 'if you think you need a PI then it is time to move on'

I met a newlywed (to a farang) bank teller last year. Her husband was in his country for a few weeks and she made love to me the whole time. I still see her from time to time. This is pretty normal in Thailand.

[grapetable]

Jackndanny.........................mai kao jai?

You are a top bloke B&B.........simply tops...............a top a...hole!

[JacknDanny]

Jackndanny.........................mai kao jai?

You are a top bloke B&B.........simply tops...............a top a...hole!

Ho Humm!!!

I W I L L T R Y T O E X P L A I N

the OP to whom you referred to posted way back in 2005 18 months ago. So any advice that an upstanding and knowledgable chap like yourself could offer would be redundant

Khao jai mai?

[Livinginexile]

Hi DeDanan, I employed a PI to check up on my (potential long-term) Thai GF. This was not because I did not trust them, but had more to do with me wanting a long-term relationship, and not wanting to waste time with girls who were just looking for fun/money.

The first girl I met seemed quite decent, not a BG. I employed a PI to check her out when I nipped back to the Uk. He approached her and suggested sex in his hotel room. she said yes . . .

The next girl I met was a BG who promised me that she would stop working in the bar, but would still go to the bar to meet her mates Yea sure!! I paid her a monthly 'salary' (not so much), and engaged this farang PI to chat her up in the bar. He saw her on many ocasions in the bar and each time tried to chat her up and get her into bed, offering a very high rate!! Much to my amazement, she turned him down on every occasion!! He watched her for some time and never saw her go with any guy. I have to say that her honesty humbled me.

So, I've had good experiences with PIs, but you need to use experienced and well-established companies. They are not that cheap, but only you know how much you value the sort of information they can uncover.

Jezuz, am I missing something here?

You pay her a monthly salary for what???

[grapetable]

Thanks for the update Jackndanny.................Pom kao jai!

[grapetable]

So Jackndanny..........since this happened 18 months ago....................y dont u update us to what happened?

[JacknDanny]

So Jackndanny..........since this happened 18 months ago....................y dont u update us to what happened?

You are either not reading this post properly, else you are confusing me with someone else!!

To answer your question, I havent got the foggiest!!

I saw the post on the most recent topics and made one post on something that TaxExile had posted 18 months ago

[grapetable]

Jacjndanny..........yep I think I misunderstood your post..............but not clear to me