how do i  tell a thai girlfriend that i don't want her 18 year son living with us.any longer . been 3 years, with out stiring up trouble with her .  by tell the boy to leave . or better still F*** O**

I don't want your 18 year old son living with us. 

Encourage him to join the army.

Get a new Girlfriend with no kids

A subtle hint  like packing all his stuff a up and leaving it on  outside then handing him a bus ticket to Nakorn Nowhere. ????

6 minutes ago, yeahbutif said:

how do i  tell a thai girlfriend that i don't want her 18 year son living with us.any longer . been 3 years, with out stiring up trouble with her .  by tell the boy to leave . or better still F*** O**

Could be worse ...... could be her brother living with you.

If she has an 18 year old son, she's probably way older than the 25 years old she pretends to be...

 

Time to check her ID card...

Edited July 29, 20205 yr by Brunolem

10 minutes ago, yeahbutif said:

or better still F*** O**

Depens your status against your GF! You know there is not even one Thai woman who want to be only GF!

BE MAN IN HOUSE! That what Thai woman want MAN!

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Could be worse ...... could be her brother living with you.

"Brother" hope he sure it's son LOL. Maybe "son" is really 27. "Sleep" whit mom when im not home.

Edited July 29, 20205 yr by 2 is 1

4 minutes ago, ChipButty said:

Get a new Girlfriend with no kids

Indeed. 

 

You either accept your GF with her son or you don't. Forcing her to choose is not going to work. 

 .. I wouldn't go down the F O route that will be incendiary .. you would be better off trying the persuasion road and even possibly get him into a place of his own which will cost .. you need to handle this with care , the son is her own flesh and blood don't forget .. 

12 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

I don't want your 18 year old son living with us. 

ฉันไม่ต้องการให้ลูกชายอายุ 18 ปีของคุณอาศัยอยู่กับเรา

Encourage the 18y/o son to get a girlfriend - flirt with her... 

..... your GF will take care of the rest !

4 minutes ago, 2 is 1 said:

"Brother" hope he sure it's son LOL. Maybe "son" is really 27. "Sleep" whit mom when im not home.

Yes the old Brother story is almost epic like the buffalo.

My dear friend told me he went at this Thai girl house (not bar girl) and they were going to get in bed then he goes "but, I don't have a condom" so she goes and pulls one from the drawer and he's like "oh you always keep condoms ready?" And she is like "no, it's my brother's!!!!"

3 minutes ago, Sundown said:

ฉันไม่ต้องการให้ลูกชายอายุ 18 ปีของคุณอาศัยอยู่กับเรา

Tam sabai 

How about explaining that the son is now a man at 18 years old and he needs to make his own way in the world?

If he works, does he help with the upkeep of the house, i.e. utility bills etc.  If not, and as suggested previously, find a new girlfriend.

17 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

I don't want your 18 year old son living with us. 

you should say it while wearing an knight armor or similar, and hold a fire extinguisher just in case to put the fire she is going to unleash on you...

You shouldn't marry her in the first place if you don't like her son. 

6 minutes ago, Sundown said:

Yes the old Brother story is almost epic like the buffalo.

My dear friend told me he went at this Thai girl house (not bar girl) and they were going to get in bed then he goes "but, I don't have a condom" so she goes and pulls one from the drawer and he's like "oh you always keep condoms ready?" And she is like "no, it's my brother's!!!!"

Opposite our house live "old" (50+) woman . Have live in Pattaya whit huge silicon lol. He have UK boyfriend who visit there 2 times /month. Have buy her pickup car etc. after every visit woman's thai huspend come in house and they drink lao khao few days and fight lol. Im not going to tell that guy nothing coz don't want even say hello to me. So he can do what he want! Maybe know sitiation my i think NOT!

Edited July 29, 20205 yr by 2 is 1

I wasn't joking about the army, I know someone who's son has just signed up. He starts his training in a couple of months time.

 

Something about doing 1 year on a voluntary basis or risking 2 years by 'picking the ball'.

You don't tell her that - you just get rid of her and find a new girlfriend.

Edited July 29, 20205 yr by varun

12 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Encourage the 18y/o son to get a girlfriend - flirt with her... 

..... your GF will take care of the rest !

This is a Bingo!

Edited July 29, 20205 yr by Sundown

is he lazy .

NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!! 

 

 

5 minutes ago, KarenBravo said:

How about explaining that the son is now a man at 18 years old and he needs to make his own way in the world?

To explain this to the Thai mother is not going to work

the situation is like this since 3 years already, then everybody

consider Thai style that it's a ''de facto'' situation and don't see any valid reason to change it.

 

For the OP, if you are obviously the only one who are not ''at ease'' with this situation

it's time for you to move, even for a ''holiday''. Move to another location, for example Pattaya

of course don't say where you go to the GF and the son, don't give any money for the two of them

just explain clearly that you can not handdle anymore this situation, then you will be back when

the son will be gone to another place, then see how it goes.

 

If you GF don't contact you saying you can come back the son moved

then you will know you was the one stiring up trouble in the family.

If you are the money provider, i have no any doubt the son should move quick

and the GF should call you very quick for you come back.

 

Good luck

 

29 minutes ago, ukrules said:

Encourage him to join the army.

thought he had to be 20 years old to do that ?

21 minutes ago, robblok said:

Indeed. 

 

You either accept your GF with her son or you don't. Forcing her to choose is not going to work. 

We are talking about an 18 year old.

 

And if she disapproves, she has the option to leave

Walk away.... from all this headache. Find someone younger, more fit, and no kids. Simple as that 

29 minutes ago, ChipButty said:

Get a new Girlfriend with no kids

do you compleatly know if they have kids had heard they turn up out of the blue ,,, like meet my son ..or my sons got a job near by and moving in ,,,,,,