NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 On 8/30/2021 at 5:05 PM, Will B Good said: Playing loud music, smoking in non-smoking areas, talking loudly in public, disobeying simple rules for the common good......I find many people are totally inconsiderate of others. The most frustrating ones are the people who defend the above and say it is their right to do what they want to do.....the very definition of selfishness. "disobeying simple rules for the common good...". Simple rules by who exactly? Could you please give an example of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 16 hours ago, EricTh said: The other day I saw a foreigner smoking inside a Thai eatery and sitting there for more than 1 hour almost everyday. If I came in, the cigarette would be put out, forcibly if necessary. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 15 hours ago, EricTh said: No, the eatery was owned by a Thai person. Sometimes, I dine there. Owner or not, who wants to dine in a restaurant with the smell of smoke around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 13 hours ago, steven100 said: Thailand is ok .... it's just the uneducated folks that were born here .... lol What's happened to the avatar of the unelected PM Steven? Sobered up have we? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 12 hours ago, Tanomazu said: It's actually not "totally unacceptable". Most civilised Western countries tolerate loud music from 10 am to 10 pm. It's only after that threshold that it would be seen as a problem and you could get any Western authorities to do something about it. Unless the music were so loud as to significantly impair reasonable enjoyment of your residence. Otherwise you'd have to accept the music from 10 am to 10 pm in most Western countries. If you are having a conversation with someone in your condo between at any time, and the music next door is interfering with that conversation, then it is too loud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 This should have been quite a good topic, but it seemed mostly that it was a topic about kids rather than about selfishness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 57 minutes ago, possum1931 said: "disobeying simple rules for the common good...". Simple rules by who exactly? Could you please give an example of this? Simple rules by whom? Residents associations, juristic management, local authorities, condo residents committees,......???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
actonion Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 On 8/30/2021 at 5:05 PM, Will B Good said: Playing loud music, smoking in non-smoking areas, talking loudly in public, disobeying simple rules for the common good......I find many people are totally inconsiderate of others. The most frustrating ones are the people who defend the above and say it is their right to do what they want to do.....the very definition of selfishness. Deaf and Hard of hearing people talk loud in public 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 Just now, actonion said: Deaf and Hard of hearing people talk loud in public Pardon? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 2 minutes ago, Will B Good said: Simple rules by whom? Residents associations, juristic management, local authorities, condo residents committees,......???? Well, now I know. but I will decide myself whether I obey them or not, but I promise one thing, I will never be selfish, or do anything to the detriment of ordinary people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 3 minutes ago, possum1931 said: Well, now I know. but I will decide myself whether I obey them or not, but I promise one thing, I will never be selfish, or do anything to the detriment of ordinary people. Well that is very pleasing and reassuring to hear. Obviously not everyone shares your sense of civic responsibility and some need guidance.....hence the rules for the common good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Will B Good said: Well that is very pleasing and reassuring to hear. Obviously not everyone shares your sense of civic responsibility and some need guidance.....hence the rules for the common good. If you live in Thailand, then surely you must know that a part of Thai culture is most people with any sort of authority enjoy going on power trips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 5 minutes ago, possum1931 said: If you live in Thailand, then surely you must know that a part of Thai culture is most people with any sort of authority enjoy going on power trips. Yes. Fortunately we don't have any people like that in the UK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Will B Good said: Yes. Fortunately we don't have any people like that in the UK. Not to the extent in Thailand anyway. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Tip people Nonsense, uneccessary American rubbish. 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Be kind To a reasonable extent and don't allow people to take advantage of you or to put you in a lower position. On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Tip people In cultures where tipping is expected. Otherwise you are just giving people free money for no reason. Up to you, but it shouldn't be expected. On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Give compliments Sure. On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Drive safe Absolutely. On 8/30/2021 at 2:59 PM, Sparktrader said: Help people Again, good to do, but not to your own detriment or to the point where people take advantage of you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 3 minutes ago, BangkokReady said: To a reasonable extent and don't allow people to take advantage of you or to put you in a lower position. In cultures where tipping is expected. Otherwise you are just giving people free money for no reason. Up to you, but it shouldn't be expected. Sure. Absolutely. Again, good to do, but not to your own detriment or to the point where people take advantage of you. A clear case of "Do unto others......."...........unless of course you're a masochist, then that doesn't work. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanada Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 3 hours ago, canthai55 said: Re: kids throwing tantrums. I have done this - and it worked. Get up, go to the child, and tell them in a loud voice to "Shut the Hell Up" This gets the parents into the act, and they get told the same thing. Control your children. Unable - then leave. At times I have even received applause. Peace and Harmony restored. Well we don’t have to wonder why you left your country???? I hope you left your attitude and bad manners back there and came here with a smile! Holleeeee???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanada Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 hour ago, possum1931 said: Well, now I know. but I will decide myself whether I obey them or not, but I promise one thing, I will never be selfish, or do anything to the detriment of ordinary people. Good for you! You'll sleep better…you’ll be happier and healthier than some of these nasties writing here (and someone might even like you). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kanada Posted September 1, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 1, 2021 11 hours ago, Tanomazu said: No, actually, sorry, I'm not responsible for my 4 year old throwing a tantrum. They can throw a tantrum for the most ridiculous of reasons. Just earlier today she threw a tantrum because she wanted to wear her special puppy shirt. It was in the washing. Result, half an hour of loud protests. This is my responsibility, my fault, how exactly? Dude….we’ve been talking about “in public places”…..not your kitchen???? You sure seem to endure a lot of these tantrums tho’….back to the mirror for you! Whos responsibility would it be if it isn’t yours?? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 11 hours ago, Tanomazu said: No, actually, sorry, I'm not responsible for my 4 year old throwing a tantrum. They can throw a tantrum for the most ridiculous of reasons. Just earlier today she threw a tantrum because she wanted to wear her special puppy shirt. It was in the washing. Result, half an hour of loud protests. This is my responsibility, my fault, how exactly? u impregnated the mother 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 11 hours ago, Tanomazu said: How old is this miracle child? No, how you handle a tantrum does not have a "huge impact on behaviour". Not even a little. I have actually tried every possible way to handle it, told her to be quiet, comforted her, nothing works. You know why? It's just character. I have one other child, who behaves like an absolute angel. No issues at all. This other one just has that very expressive character. It's just the way it is. A bluddy good whack when I was a kid worked, molly coddled springs to mind. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanada Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 11 hours ago, Tanomazu said: Nature significantly trumps nurture. It's easy to boast of well behaved kids if you were lucky enough to have ones with a docile character. One of mine happens to have a real fire in nostrils. It obviously has nothing to do with "<deleted>ty parenting" because like I said, one is an absolute angel at all times, and regularly gets compliments on her behaviour. It's purely nature, ie the character of this other one. Kids can be taught, but only up to the level their cognitive development allows. Even your "bike bike" miracle child would have been unable at 2 years old to be "taught" and understand certain things. You're clearly overestimating yourself. I think kids at two-four years old are a lot smarter than some of you give them credit for…. Any idiot can have a child but it takes work, time and patience to prep. one to go out into the world and be appreciated and successful. Being a “yes man/woman is not being a good parent….that’s just the easy way out???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanada Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Rampant Rabbit said: A bluddy good whack when I was a kid worked, molly coddled springs to mind. Doesn’t sound like that worked very well for you at all???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 7 minutes ago, Rampant Rabbit said: u impregnated the mother He thinks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post Rampant Rabbit Posted September 1, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 1, 2021 12 minutes ago, Kanada said: I think kids at two-four years old are a lot smarter than some of you give them credit for…. Any idiot can have a child but it takes work, time and patience to prep. one to go out into the world and be appreciated and successful. Being a “yes man/woman is not being a good parent….that’s just the easy way out???? 2-4 years olds know exactly how to "play" their parents, I see these days many idiot parents let them do exactly what they want,,,,,,,,,, the lil dears are just "expressing " themselves 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sudarut Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 18 hours ago, Sparktrader said: Control the population- IQ test to be a parent. If failed abortion. Then who is going to clean the toilets? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Rampant Rabbit said: 2-4 years olds know exactly how to "play" their parents, I see these days many idiot parents let them do exactly what they want,,,,,,,,,, the lil dears are just "expressing " themselves Kids need clear boundaries to be set very all on in their lives and these need to be continually reinforced, not through giving them a leathering, but firm instruction and sanctions. I was a single dad after the fourth was born, never smacked any of them and they always knew how too behave, particularly in public. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will B Good Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 Just now, Sudarut said: Then who is going to clean the toilets? IQ 100 to 110 I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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