Three suspects in the case of an unnamed woman from Sa Kaeo Province who was raped three times on Thursday night have now been apprehended by police in Chonburi who have initiated legal proceedings based on rape and drug charges after the 27-year-old hostess filed a complaint with Sattahip Police Station on Friday following her harrowing ordeal at the hands of three men.

 

by James Morris and Son Nguyen

 

The latest case highlights the dangers of ‘hostessing’ for young women in Thailand seeking to earn short term cash by serving drinks and performing a PR function at get-togethers where drinks and drugs are often available to party-goers.

 

Police in Chonburi have detained a final suspect following the arrest of two others on Friday after a young woman claimed to have been raped by three men on Thursday night in the Sattahip area of the province while hostessing for a party.

 

The 27-year-old woman, named by police only as ‘Ms Ple’ or ‘Ms B’ is from Sa Kaeo Province in eastern Thailand, bordering Cambodia.

 

Full story: https://www.thaiexaminer.com/thai-news-foreigners/2021/10/24/police-probe-rape-chonburi-party-hostess/

 

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oh dear   !    if your hosting at a party,  ensure you have your security team on hand.

18 minutes ago, steven100 said:

oh dear   !    if your hosting at a party,  ensure you have your security team on hand.

Or better yet, dont be a rapist

young girls, drinks drugs young men, party atmosphere... a situation that can get out of control in a blink of an eye...

1 hour ago, WEBBYB808 said:

Or better yet, dont be a rapist

She wasn't.....she was a victim. 

2 hours ago, webfact said:

‘hostessing’

Is  that the more  polite way of saying it?

2 minutes ago, Rampant Rabbit said:

Is  that the more  polite way of saying it?

It is now

That is a risky job .

Every woman wanting to be a ' hostess ' , should know at least some basics of self defense . ( and how to stay sober ) 

Just like a ' bodyguard ' .

There should be a protocol for these 'Pretties' phone/SMS  every hour to a contact person, it would be easy to set up a password of some sort for "Get me 'outa here"

2 hours ago, nobodysfriend said:

( and how to stay sober ) 

And what if her drink was 'spiked'?

2 hours ago, petermik said:

That is why they are `hired` for such events to look sexy and provocative....but it does not give men the right to maul and rape...and as on previous occasions kill.

I thought sex for extra pay was implied as part of a 'hostess' duties.

(for small private parties obviously)

 

Sad fact is that many guys want girls to look good and sexy but then when they uphold that expectation blame them for getting raped because they look sexy. 

 

Its not that hard to not force yourself on a woman. Unless doing it in a toilet with a woman refusing is normal these days. 

 

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I thought sex for extra pay was implied as part of a 'hostess' duties.

(for small private parties obviously)

Do you also think that a hostess does not have the right to refuse ? AFIK a lot of these hostesses pretties do NOT always have sex. Everyone has the right to refuse even a hostess. 

I wasn't guilty your honour,..... the brakes failed.

1 hour ago, Rampant Rabbit said:

Wifes  niece  is  one, she'll  screw  anything for  money  to keep  up her "look at me  hi so" lifestyle that she cant  afford

So what that is her choice, not sure why some guys come for the sex to Thailand but look down on those who sell it.

 

(not saying your one of those)

 

Seems your at least looking down on her. At least she is providing for her own income

 

5 hours ago, WEBBYB808 said:

Or better yet, dont be a rapist

In most of these cases involving alcohol , drugs and partying, there are grey areas. People are drunk and high and deciding to have sex. Sometimes women feel like they were manipulated after they sober up. And the guy thinks he's a rockstar because he "got laid".

 

This is why you are better off just paying for ST sex. To avoid all of these problems. Even celebrities run into these problems all the time.

3 hours ago, petermik said:

That is why they are `hired` for such events to look sexy and provocative....but it does not give men the right to maul and rape...and as on previous occasions kill.

No. But this wasn't a violent ambush style rape. It was a drunk and high people making bad decisions.

15 minutes ago, Harsh Jones said:

No. But this wasn't a violent ambush style rape. It was a drunk and high people making bad decisions.

The woman told police that after three rounds of drinks, the house owner, Mr Tung, attacked her and forced her into a bedroom where she was raped two times by him.

Her police statement said the two other men in the house then followed him into the bedroom, one at a time, and raped her after Mr Tung was finished.

 

Right, that you call this a grey area says a lot about you.

 

FORCED HER into a bedroom and later  two other men then did the same after the fist was done. Not sure what is rape in your mind. But in my mind this is 100% rape. 

 

 

3 minutes ago, robblok said:

The woman told police that after three rounds of drinks, the house owner, Mr Tung, attacked her and forced her into a bedroom where she was raped two times by him.

Her police statement said the two other men in the house then followed him into the bedroom, one at a time, and raped her after Mr Tung was finished.

 

Right, that you call this a grey area says a lot about you.

 

FORCED HER into a bedroom and later  two other men then did the same after the fist was done. Not sure what is rape in your mind. But in my mind this is 100% rape. 

 

 

That's her side of the story. If all of that is true as stated by her than its clearly rape. But the men probably have a far different recollection of what happened.

 

Remember that Filipino airline stewardess who was allegedly raped and killed by 5 or 10 men ? The CCTV footage shows her forcing herself on guys. And then she drank so much she passed out and somehow died.

There is a reason that when in the U.S. and Canada you hire a few girls for a party that the girls usually have an escort with them and or never go alone.

 

While I agree that girls should not have to worry about this it is unfortunately a fact of society that when boys/men have a party where alcohol is present and pretty girls are that the BIG head cedes all thought to the little head. 

 

Also when you look at the way that Thai girls are normally treated and portrayed both in life but on TV that it is never a sae environment for a girl/lady to be in a group of men or boys alone.

 

As has been stated drinks can be drugged or inhibitions lowered.

 

While I do not agree with what happened and feel that the boys should be charged for a girl to dress sexy, act sexy and go alone to a party like this is not what i would call the smartest thing.  While we males tend to think with our small head girls tend to think with their pocket books which has even less brain power.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I thought sex for extra pay was implied as part of a 'hostess' duties.

(for small private parties obviously)

She would have to agree, in this case it appears not to be the case, so she was raped

22 minutes ago, robblok said:

The woman told police that after three rounds of drinks, the house owner, Mr Tung, attacked her and forced her into a bedroom where she was raped two times by him.

Her police statement said the two other men in the house then followed him into the bedroom, one at a time, and raped her after Mr Tung was finished.

 

Right, that you call this a grey area says a lot about you.

 

FORCED HER into a bedroom and later  two other men then did the same after the fist was done. Not sure what is rape in your mind. But in my mind this is 100% rape. 

 

 

It's amazing this sort of thing doesn't occur more frequently.  Sexy women around a bunch of drunk men in a private residence.  Like a frat party in the US.  These women should never go to these type of parties without a male escort. 

2 minutes ago, kingstonkid said:

There is a reason that when in the U.S. and Canada you hire a few girls for a party that the girls usually have an escort with them and or never go alone.

 

 

Does the escort sit outside in the car waiting or does he/she follow them around inside the venue ?

6 hours ago, steven100 said:

oh dear   !    if your hosting at a party,  ensure you have your security team on hand.

Sickening post. 

4 hours ago, nobodysfriend said:

That is a risky job .

Every woman wanting to be a ' hostess ' , should know at least some basics of self defense . ( and how to stay sober ) 

Just like a ' bodyguard ' .

Yes, how dare the victim allow herself to be raped. 

 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I thought sex for extra pay was implied as part of a 'hostess' duties.

(for small private parties obviously)

It is very generous to call that view as “thought”

There is far too much of these sexual abuse & rape cases, Thailand should look at Singapore in regards to penalties for these offenders. A lady should be able to perform any task she chooses from hostessing to even topless dancing and not be subjected to sexual abuse and rape, obviously many men need to be further educated and subjected to harsh penalties for these crimes. Guys just imagine if this was your sweet young daughter or sister, you would be horrified and feel like catching these offenders and castrating them!!! 

55 minutes ago, Harsh Jones said:

No. But this wasn't a violent ambush style rape. It was a drunk and high people making bad decisions.

Christ almighty…you think there are degrees of rape? Some are worse than others in your view? You call three men raping a woman a “bad decision”? 

Reported post "victim blaming" has been removed along with responses to it.

 

If you do this it will be regarded as Trolling ! And removed.

12 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

Sickening post. 

if working at these sorts of places, especially someone's house,  they should have escort/security with them.