How do Thai women compare with Western women as a wife?

[amexpat]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

How long is a piece of string? How on earth could anyone know that?

How long can a tired old cliché hang around?   

[Henk Langeweg]

4 hours ago, notmyself said:

Problem for me is that I don't watch TV and spend much of my time following my interests which are outside of the norm. Advanced math, particle physics, cosmology, psychology, anthropology, geopolitics, to name a few. Nobody on Samui to engage with so it's all online. When Covid hit and people where advised to avoid close contact with others, nothing really changed. That being said, I'm happy nevertheless. 

Go to Pattaya and you will experience your interests in the real world ... Bookwisdom is just a blurred view on reality.

[amexpat]

They started to fight when the
Money got tight
And they just didn't count on
The tears

Billy Joel Scenes from an Italian Restaurant.

 

Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house.

Rod Stewart

 

I don't think they were talking about Thai women. 

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Why would I care what a 50+ year old woman looks like.

I ain't gonna bang one.

 

Although Thalia doesn't look too bad at age 50, but that might just be her $50M net worth ............

Each to his own, I prefer older women. No starfishes, they like getting laid as much as I do.

Permit me to doubt Thalia is going to share with you.

[thaibeachlovers]

22 minutes ago, Henk Langeweg said:

Go to Pattaya and you will experience your interests in the real world ... Bookwisdom is just a blurred view on reality.

No idea what that means

Edited February 19, 2022 by thaibeachlovers

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

How long is a piece of string? How on earth could anyone know that?

I see plenty of extremely unattractive western women around and they ain't anywhere near 50 yet. Amazing what a lifetime of eating bad food, smoking and boozing can do to one's appearance.

No question the Western diet is unhealthy. The last time I was in Australia, I hit 100 kg. Now 88 kg on 90% Thai food. Smaller portions, less saturated fat.

Prior to World War II, breast cancer was almost unknown in Japanese women. They have caught up now, on more Western food. I guess Thai women are trending that way as well. The obsession with having larger breasts comes at a price.

[Henk Langeweg]

12 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

No question the Western diet is unhealthy. The last time I was in Australia, I hit 100 kg. Now 88 kg on 90% Thai food. Smaller portions, less saturated fat.

Prior to World War II, breast cancer was almost unknown in Japanese women. They have caught up now, on more Western food. I guess Thai women are trending that way as well. The obsession with having larger breasts comes at a price.

I am 117kg but not because I want larger breasts. Have them anyway without asking for it.

Japanese breast cancer cases before WW II, how was that compared to other nations?

Nukes played a role in it?

Edited February 19, 2022 by Henk Langeweg

[Hummin]

44 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Each to his own, I prefer older women. No starfishes, they like getting laid as much as I do.

Permit me to doubt Thalia is going to share with you.

A  guy I ride with frequently, described a fantastic agogo dancer with the perfect sensual sexy body showing off big time on stage. Teasing and showing what she got, to finely find himself in the bed with her, and it was his worst nightmare he had experienced. Expectations built up during the whole night, looking, drinking, fantasy about her and paying drinks for her and her friends, and finely paid her off duty, she was a complete starfish when came back home. Locked the door when shower, towel around her body when came out, lights off, and dead in the bed. He decided to send her home without having sex with her pisse off and complained to us later on about the akward situation. 
 

what did he do wrong? Or where did it go wrong? 
 

I told him she he should have understood she is playing a role on the stage and she feels safe, back home with you, she is naked and scared, just a human reaction. Is that so hard to understand? 
 

Sorry a bit off from your post, 

[4MyEgo]

15 hours ago, mberbae said:

Thais seem to appreciate the little

things more.

I don't know about that, my Thai wife says if I didn't have a big .... she wouldn't be with me, so I would say she appreciates the big things more.

[spidermike007]

2 hours ago, balilauent said:

There's good & bad in all people. These beautiful Thai ladies can be quite sneaky. All women want money. If you're paying a monthly salary for a Thai wife - maybe its the wrong lady. I've had 4 long term relationships in Thailand over the past 22 years. NowI  stay alone with my poodle. I know she loves me:)

I'm tired of buying ladies houses and new cars. I only have a motorbike now and happy with that ????.

I have a number of single friends. Two in particular have made conscious decisions to remain single. Their lives are simpler, and they can get TLC whenever they want or need it, from either semi pros or civilians. Women here do not make a big deal about sex. One friend of mine has several lovers he rotates. They are all very successful women, who do not want, nor have time for a relationship. They just hang out and have fun. 

[bbbbooboo]

On 2/18/2022 at 11:03 AM, hotchilli said:

A good one is a good one, a bad one is a bad one... this applies worldwide.

yes this is so true

[micmichd]

14 hours ago, orchis said:

I can't understand this is allowed to be published.

This is completely on topic. Why shouldn't it be allowed to be published? 

[NoshowJones]

On 2/18/2022 at 7:41 AM, Isaan sailor said:

Sure, Thai women have strong family values, and can make a loyal, fun-loving wives.   But they have something else—a lower standard of living (especially in places like Isaan).  Who wants to live in a hut when you (and your family) can live in a mansion?  Age gap marriages are common.  And you see some real stunners here.  
If you’ve got some Baht—you might get lucky…

From what I have seen and heard of, in a lot of cases, where there is a wide gap in the age difference, the Thai women are mostly with the well off, overweight, much older farang guy for financial reasons, and will get from a younger Thai guy what she can't get from her farang husband.

[GinBoy2]

38 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

I have a number of single friends. Two in particular have made conscious decisions to remain single. Their lives are simpler, and they can get TLC whenever they want or need it, from either semi pros or civilians. Women here do not make a big deal about sex. One friend of mine has several lovers he rotates. They are all very successful women, who do not want, nor have time for a relationship. They just hang out and have fun. 

Maybe I'm just a little simplistic, stupid, old fashioned or whatever it might be characterized as.

 

But I've never been particularly interested in casual sex, I can satisfy myself, and God Bless porn for that!

 

But have always wanted someone to just be with me, talk to, sleep with, just kinda hang out with, without it being a different body in my bed every night.

 

I've been pretty lucky with both my wives that they did all those things for me. 

 

At this point in my life both my ex and Thai wife tick all the boxes, well with the exception of my ex and sex! But you get my gist

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, Henk Langeweg said:

I am 117kg but not because I want larger breasts. Have them anyway without asking for it.

Japanese breast cancer cases before WW II, how was that compared to other nations?

Nukes played a role in it?

No, just the growth of Maccas and KFC.

[Lacessit]

46 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

I have a number of single friends. Two in particular have made conscious decisions to remain single. Their lives are simpler, and they can get TLC whenever they want or need it, from either semi pros or civilians. Women here do not make a big deal about sex. One friend of mine has several lovers he rotates. They are all very successful women, who do not want, nor have time for a relationship. They just hang out and have fun. 

"Women here do not make a big deal about sex". Exactly. In the West, there is the pressure of expectation the woman achieves satisfaction as well. Here, no.

I'd say I get my GF over the top about 60-70% of the time. Sometimes, she will murmur in my ear "For you". She knows there is always a next time, no big deal.

I suspect Western women are unaware their insistence on mutual satisfaction gives rise to a Law of Unintended Consequences.

[GinBoy2]

17 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

From what I have seen and heard of, in a lot of cases, where there is a wide gap in the age difference, the Thai women are mostly with the well off, overweight, much older farang guy for financial reasons, and will get from a younger Thai guy what she can't get from her farang husband.

Well you won't get many 'likes' from that post!

 

I'm 5 years older than my Thai wife, and I'd have to say the wide age difference of many I've seen can be a little disturbing.

 

But I've been slammed enough on here for those views, so each to their own, but head back to farangland and I guarantee it'll raise eyebrows

[NoshowJones]

On 2/18/2022 at 8:26 AM, RocketDog said:

As generalizations go, how about this one:

Western women demand /expect money monthly and later take the balance upon divorce

 

"and later take the balance upon divorce".

My wife back in the UK tried to but never succeeded. In selling the house, she got £500, I got the house, thousands of £s which I used to put down in a much larger one, the car, and all the belongings, I worked, she did not, apart from the very odd part time job. This was over 12 years, but there were no children.

[Lacessit]

26 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

From what I have seen and heard of, in a lot of cases, where there is a wide gap in the age difference, the Thai women are mostly with the well off, overweight, much older farang guy for financial reasons, and will get from a younger Thai guy what she can't get from her farang husband.

It depends on the age of the woman as well. I'm in your generalisation, my GF is 23 years younger than me.

Certainly, if a guy is in his seventies, and the GF/wife is mid-twenties, that's just asking to be cuckolded.

Women in their forties and fifties have usually settled down, and prefer monogamy.

I doubt my GF would want sex with a younger Thai guy. She had that during her marriage, a drunk, abusive and a gambler. I am a saint in comparison.

[Lacessit]

7 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

"and later take the balance upon divorce".

My wife back in the UK tried to but never succeeded. In selling the house, she got £500, I got the house, thousands of £s which I used to put down in a much larger one, the car, and all the belongings, I worked, she did not, apart from the very odd part time job. This was over 12 years, but there were no children.

Rest assured you would not have gotten away with that in Australia.

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

It depends on the age of the woman as well. I'm in your generalisation, my GF is 23 years younger than me.

Certainly, if a guy is in his seventies, and the GF/wife is mid-twenties, that's just asking to be cuckolded.

Women in their forties and fifties have usually settled down, and prefer monogamy.

I doubt my GF would want sex with a younger Thai guy. She had that during her marriage, a drunk, abusive and a gambler. I am a saint in comparison.

Being rational and vise when it comes to sex and relationships looks good on paper only. 
 

I do not say you are wrong, but what we see and experience is often different from our own reality. 
 

How many of the older guys would accept the wife had a side kick if they had more needs than you have? 
 

Most men, me included would have a side kick if wife stopped having interest in me, would we accept the younger wife did the same? 
 

 

 

[NoshowJones]

12 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Rest assured you would not have gotten away with that in Australia.

I believe you, but my ex wife in the UK was a drunk, and even her own family would have stuck up for me if everything was not settled out of court.

[Lacessit]

36 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well you won't get many 'likes' from that post!

 

I'm 5 years older than my Thai wife, and I'd have to say the wide age difference of many I've seen can be a little disturbing.

 

But I've been slammed enough on here for those views, so each to their own, but head back to farangland and I guarantee it'll raise eyebrows

Some years ago, I was at a party in Australia. One of the women decided to take me to task for having a Thai girlfriend. She wanted to know why I would do that, when there were plenty of women available in Australia.

I said " She's 23 years younger than me. She's a great lay with a beautiful body, who worships the ground I walk on. She cooks for me, washes and irons my clothes, does a massage when I am tired, cuts my toenails. Tell me where I will find a woman like that in Australia".

Dead silence at the table, the men didn't know where to look. I thought she was going to throw her glass of wine over me, she presumably thought better of it.

Edited February 19, 2022 by Lacessit

[Lacessit]

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Being rational and vise when it comes to sex and relationships looks good on paper only. 
 

I do not say you are wrong, but what we see and experience is often different from our own reality. 
 

How many of the older guys would accept the wife had a side kick if they had more needs than you have? 
 

Most men, me included would have a side kick if wife stopped having interest in me, would we accept the younger wife did the same? 
 

 

 

I think I would, it would be a double standard if I did not. In my case, the question IMO does not arise.

I am not the jealous type, having a wife who was jealous to the nth degree was pretty good aversion therapy.

[Hummin]

16 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Some years ago, I was at a party in Australia. One of the women decided to take me to task for having a Thai girlfriend. She wanted to know why I would do that, when there were plenty of women available in Australia.

I said " She's 23 years younger than me. She's a great lay with a beautiful body, who worships the ground I walk on. She cooks for me, washes and irons my clothes, does a massage when I am tired, cuts my toenails. Tell me where I will find a woman like that in Australia".

Dead silence at the table, the men didn't know where to look. I thought she was going to throw her glass of wine over me, she presumably though better of it.

And you do not realize how provoking and stupid it must have sound for all your friends around the table? 
 

Sosial antennas doesnt come handed out easily to everyone, Maybe the males was a bit imbarresed especially if they where your friends. I would have been, but I understand my vote here on this is not a popular one, same as your statement with that public, but also the woman you describe I would say missing a few antennas as well. 
 

know your public ????

 

I would simply answered, Thailand is where I live, It just happend to be her I met at the right place to right time. And then asked her, if she was happy in her life with what she got, and how she saw her future going growing older with her partner or as single if she was. 

Edited February 19, 2022 by Hummin

[Lacessit]

33 minutes ago, Hummin said:

And you do not realize how provoking and stupid it must have sound for all your friends around the table? 
 

Sosial antennas doesnt come handed out easily to everyone, Maybe the males was a bit imbarresed especially if they where your friends. I would have been, but I understand my vote here on this is not a popular one, same as your statement with that public, but also the woman you describe I would say missing a few antennas as well. 
 

know your public ????

 

I would simply answered, Thailand is where I live, It just happend to be her I met at the right place to right time. And then asked her, if she was happy in her life with what she got, and how she saw her future going growing older with her partner or as single if she was. 

I tend to give back as good as I get. Check out my nom-de-plume. She was trying to provoke me, she got it back in spades.

You would have done it differently, fine. I don't see why I should have become a doormat to satisfy your preferences. As one of my friends said about me, what you see is what you get.

I think I was rather tactful, I refrained from saying my GF is also half your body weight.

Are you willing to let a woman walk all over you in public? I'm not.

 

Edited February 19, 2022 by Lacessit

[Henk Langeweg]

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

No, just the growth of Maccas and KFC.

Wow, so even when they not eat that filth they still got BC?

[Hummin]

20 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I tend to give back as good as I get. Check out my nom-de-plume. She was trying to provoke me, she got it back in spades.

You would have done it differently, fine. I don't see why I should have become a doormat to satisfy your preferences. As one of my friends said about me, what you see is what you get.

I think I was rather tactful, I refrained from saying my GF is also half your body weight.

Are you willing to let a woman walk all over you in public? I'm not.

 

Walk over me? It is all about timing and how you formulate the messege, but accept we are different. It wouldnt have been smart to say in my inner circle, but again, different inviroment different culture, background and people. 
 

Also, I do not need to win every battle that comes along, what I stand for and what I have done, pretty much talk for it self. Nothing more to prove, not for Asean, and especially my friends or they wifes or girls

Edited February 19, 2022 by Hummin

[spidermike007]

Ever so slightly off topic. But, concerning the whole expectations part of the equation. 

 

On the last night of my last trip to Cuba, quite some time ago, I finally got with this spectacular 20 year-old who I had been oogling the entire trip. She literally would not give me the time of day, prior to that. I was at the door talking to the guy who was working the door, at this little bar/cafe where she was hanging out. I had chatted with him a few times, as my Spanish is pretty good, and he was a cool guy. I could look in the window and see her sitting there and the guy asks me what are you looking at, and I said I have had the hots for that gal, (pointing to her) for the entire two weeks I've been here. He says oh that's Julia, she's a good friend of mine. I said you know her? He asked me if I wanted to get with her? I said are you kidding me, yes I would love to, and he said let me talk to her for a minute, then comes back a few minutes later he said yes she'll get with you but she wants $60. At that time that seemed like a lot of money, as it was three times the going rate, but I felt it was worth it!

I took her back to this sweet, large apartment I was renting for my two week stay, in the best section of town, and I had the time of my life with this stunning super model type. I used to bring duffel bags full of lingerie, bras and panties, as they were nearly impossible to find there, and cost $40-100 each in Cuba. My women friends in LA, most of whom are very successful, would donate them to the cause of "helping poor Cuban women", as well as aspirin, vitamins, and other things I would bring to help out the locals on my trips. The typical salary at that time was $40 a month.

She literally lost her mind, when I showed some of these gorgeous bras and panties to her, as all of them had been barely ever worn, and she proceeded to do a super erotic fashion show for me. She stayed all night and she was exquisite. She got some lingerie as bonus prizes! It was maybe equivalent to six months salary for her. 

 

I was dating a gal in Los Angeles at the time and I had a date set up for her for the night after I came home. We had dinner at a nice place, it was the third date, we hadn't even kissed yet, and she was kind of hinting that she needed some money for rent. She was pretty, not gorgeous, and was in her late twenties and I was already 50-ish, so there was an age disparity which in America is a big deal. So, the expectation of some sort of sponsorship thing is common in cities like LA, if the guy is alot older, and the woman is young and fine enough. Anyway she kind of hinted at needing assistance and that I would get what I wanted if I was willing to help her out. So I kind of played along with it and at one point I said , so what is the extent of your need this month, and she said she was about $1,100 short. It was near the end of the month. So I glossed over it, and deftly moved on to the next subject. For the next 15 minutes she was very anxious, she tried to steer the conversation back and finally I looked at her and I said, I'll help you out no problem. And I then I changed the conversation again. She was getting very anxious and finally she said okay, okay what about that thing we were talking about before, what can you do to help me? She could not bring herself to mention the topic of money, as that would reveal her as being a clandestine hooker. So, she had to dance in circles. I said no problem I'll give you a 60, she said what do you mean 60, 60 what? I said $60. She asked what am I supposed to do with $60. What makes you think that is an appropriate thing to offer? I said look, all I know is that last night I was in Havana, and I spent all night with a woman ten years younger than you and 30 times more beautiful, and that's what I paid. The look on her face was precious. I asked her, what on earth makes you think you're worth any more than that? The best she could do was to say that was Havana, and this is LA! I said no big deal for me. Means next to nothing to me, after being with her!

Needless to say it was our last date, but that was worth it, to see the look on her face, it was priceless. And she was long overdue for someone telling her like it is! You are not a civilian. You are a hooker!

 

Anyway, unless you are worth over $50 million, or are in your 20's and look like Brad Pitt, the chances of getting with a pretty woman, who is under 36, in the West is remote. Most settle for old, ugly, fat, or highly unpleasant. 
 

[Henk Langeweg]

Just now, Hummin said:

Walk over me? But it is all about timing and how you formulate the message, but accept we are different. It wouldnt have been smart to say in my inner circle, but again, different inviroment different culture, background and people. 
 

Also, I do not need to win every battle that comes along, what I stand for and what I have done, pretty much talk for it self. Nothing more to prove, not for Asean, and especially my friends or they wifes or girls

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