Playing phone videos loud in bar

[Pattaya57]

Last trip to Pattaya it started to annoy me that people would play their YouTube videos on high volume in bars. One guy sitting alone played his videos for over 30 minutes and then when his girl arrived he started to play her the same videos on full volume to show how funny they were.

 

What's happened to bar etiquette where you plug your earphones in? 

 

Edit: I'm sitting in a bar in Aussie where a guy just started up his youtube, hence this rant, so not just a Pattaya thing....

 

Edited April 15 by Pattaya57

[BangkokReady]

Part of the modern world we live in.  Breath-taking levels of selfishness and entitlement.

 

I take it you haven't seen the video where some maniac plays his Bluetooth speaker on a packed train.  Another passenger does the same thing in protest, so the first guy attacks him.  That's the kind of mindset that this comes from.

[Honey Badger With A Badge]

1 hour ago, Pattaya57 said:

What's happened to bar etiquette where you plug your earphones in?

 

Agreed. Terrible manners.

[Hummin]

on the train, buss, restaurants gym, everywhere

[impulse]

Though I get where the OP is coming from, I think I'll let that cloud float by without yelling at it.

 

[bkk6060]

Yes, everywhere in the world.  Add, the even louder phone calls people yelling into their phones at a coffee shop, restaurant, wherever.  Could careless about anyone.

[dingdongrb]

In the USA neighbors shoot neighbors over loud music and barking dogs.........  why not expect the same throughout the rest of the world?

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, impulse said:

Though I get where the OP is coming from, I think I'll let that cloud float by without yelling at it.

 

Are you seriously suggesting that people blasting sound out of their phones in public places like bars, cafes or busses is fine and normal, and to object to it is to be a "grumpy old man"?

[impulse]

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

Are you seriously suggesting that people blasting sound out of their phones in public places like bars, cafes or busses is fine and normal, and to object to it is to be a "grumpy old man"?

 

No.  I'm suggesting that griping about it is futile, and working up negative energy about it doesn't serve me, or my health. 

 

So I'll let that cloud go by without yelling at it...  You guys can give yourselves ulcers if you want.

 

[BangkokReady]

5 minutes ago, impulse said:

 

No.  I'm suggesting that griping about it is futile, and working up negative energy about it doesn't serve me, or my health. 

 

So I'll let that cloud go by without yelling at it...  You guys can give yourselves ulcers if you want.

 

An interesting point of view, although I think you've possibly misunderstood a couple of things.

 

First, "old man yells at cloud" suggests that someone is angry over nothing and reacting in a futile way. Which, personally, I do not believe to be the case here.

 

Second, if you encounter a problem, share it with someone else, then receive validation that you are right to be annoyed and the offending party has indeed done something that is socially unacceptable, you will feel better about the situation.

 

Discussing your problems will generally result in you feeling better about them, unless people disagree and point out that you are in the wrong. Although this, while negative, might give you a chance to realise you were wrong and work towards rectifying the situation.

 

Obviously, if you are endlessly negative about everything and anything that you encounter, it could drive people away. I don't feel like that is the case here, though. The complaint seems reasonable.

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, dingdongrb said:

In the USA neighbors shoot neighbors over loud music and barking dogs.........  why not expect the same throughout the rest of the world?

We are not there yet, just knocking on doors and ask polite to turn down the music, without risking being shot

[retarius]

1 hour ago, dingdongrb said:

In the USA neighbors shoot neighbors over loud music and barking dogs.........  why not expect the same throughout the rest of the world?

Yep, shootin' irritatin' folk  should be compulsory worldwide. 

[GammaGlobulin]

7 hours ago, Hummin said:

on the train, buss, restaurants gym, everywhere

 

Are you old enough to recall the ghetto-style jungle bunny BoomBoxes of the late 60s and 70s, in places like the Bronx and Harlem?

Those were far worse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Count yourself, these days, lucky....maybe...

 

 

[dingdongrb]

53 minutes ago, bbi1 said:

That's why the world knows the USA as the United Sheethole of America.

Cool story bro, is that the best you got?

[NorthernRyland]

1 hour ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Are you old enough to recall the ghetto-style jungle bunny BoomBoxes of the late 60s and 70s, in places like the Bronx and Harlem?

Those were far worse.

 

and Thai's put them to shame with their speaker stacks loaded up in the back of pickups. You wouldn't think it by looking at travel brochures but Thailand has a hardcore redneck culture well surpassing anything in America, with the one exception of monster trucks and wrestling.

[OneMoreFarang]

I prepared already two videos on my phone for such situations. One AC/DC and one Pavarotti.

But until now I was too shy to use any of them.

I notice this behavior mostly in lifts. 

[GammaGlobulin]

7 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

and Thai's put them to shame with their speaker stacks loaded up in the back of pickups. You wouldn't think it by looking at travel brochures but Thailand has a hardcore redneck culture well surpassing anything in America, with the one exception of monster trucks and wrestling.

 

I am well aware of those Thai ghetto-truck audio-abominations!

Two of them would park across from my building, close to the temple, and Turn Up the Volume, from 4pm to 7pm.

What kind of WATTAGE do they have in those trucks?

And, they must have some heavy-duty generators or alternators or Lithium Battery Packs, or something to be able to drive those speakers like that.

 

And, I guess, give credit where credit is due....

You gotta be one heck of a Sound Engineer to be able to accomplish an abomination like that!

 

 

[Pattaya57]

I'm wondering if I play "The Sound of Silence" loudly next time they may take a hint? The Disturbed version of course 😀

[Irish star]

21 hours ago, Pattaya57 said:

Last trip to Pattaya it started to annoy me that people would play their YouTube videos on high volume in bars. One guy sitting alone played his videos for over 30 minutes and then when his girl arrived he started to play her the same videos on full volume to show how funny they were.

 

What's happened to bar etiquette where you plug your earphones in? 

 

Edit: I'm sitting in a bar in Aussie where a guy just started up his youtube, hence this rant, so not just a Pattaya thing....

 

How about Starbucks , lol a bar at least they re noisy mostly , screaming into phone and volume on high to  hear their families , Disgraceful and Ignorant , especially Russian and UAE crowd 

Edited April 16 by Irish star

[Irish star]

18 hours ago, dingdongrb said:

In the USA neighbors shoot neighbors over loud music and barking dogs.........  why not expect the same throughout the rest of the world?

Still upset about the Revolution few hundred years ago Waaaaaa

[Irish star]

11 hours ago, bbi1 said:

That's why the world knows the USA as the United Sheethole of America.

You speaking Chinese or Russian, well we know where you ll run to , if it comes to that, Moronic Statement from the ignorant 

[Celsius]

I play porno in a bar so everyone is totally uncomfortable 

[actonion]

Take into account that just maybe, some  of these loud people   may have a hearing problem

Edited April 16 by actonion

[ChrisKC]

I would think to ask the manager or owner to ask offenders to stop disturbing the peace and if they do nothing, they don't care so not worth my business. 

[Pattaya57]

1 hour ago, actonion said:

Take into account that just maybe, some  of these loud people   may have a hearing problem

Then all the better to use earphones and stop annoying other people 

[mikecha]

13 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Are you old enough to recall the ghetto-style jungle bunny BoomBoxes of the late 60s and 70s, in places like the Bronx and Harlem?

Those were far worse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Count yourself, these days, lucky....maybe...

 

 

Fantastic  far less  agro than now 

[streetlite]

13 hours ago, bbi1 said:

That's why the world knows the USA as the United Sheethole of America.

<deleted>.....you

[Dirk Z]

Although I don't see education of adults as my mission in life I do politely ask noise makers if they can please use ear buds or a headphone or turn down the volume. It usually works, but I understand that depends on the location. Same goes for vaping, I see that as a similar problem.

[Captain Monday]

On 4/15/2024 at 1:08 PM, Pattaya57 said:

Last trip to Pattaya it started to annoy me that people would play their YouTube videos on high volume in bars. One guy sitting alone played his videos for over 30 minutes and then when his girl arrived he started to play her the same videos on full volume to show how funny they were.

 

What's happened to bar etiquette where you plug your earphones in? 

 

Edit: I'm sitting in a bar in Aussie where a guy just started up his youtube, hence this rant, so not just a Pattaya thing....

 

And if you said anything probably get a punch in the face

They have to make announcements on airplanes in the US because of this now

Everyone is completely entitled and unapologetic

 

Now, looking for the pic I have  of the guy letting his fake "service dog" poop in the terminal

 

 

[Will B Good]

Had the same on the bus and train......even first class train journey in Germany....challenged everyone of them and they turned them off.....but you would think I'd asked them to donate a kidney to a pedophile