It’s not us, it’s them!

[bob smith]

I’m now back in my home? or the place that I call home,. i.e the area where I do my visa..

 

I’ve just been for a meal at a regular hangout of mine.

 

Never again!

 

The service was so lousy it was unbelievable.

I ordered my usual.

It was thrown down on the table with no ‘enjoy your meal’ or anything.

they didn’t even look at me,

 

when I asked to pay my bill the woman threw the wallet down on the table.

no thank you, no nice to see you again. nothing.

I have been visiting this place a few times a year for about 10 years or so..

 

what is going on?

was it the clothes I was wearing?

was it my cologne?

or is it simply like some here have said..

they just don’t like regulars, particularly well integrated regulars who can speak the lingo.

 

something isn’t right.

it seems they love the green, fresh off the boat tourists but have no time at all for regulars who usually tip well.

i’ve done with tipping now.

until the standard of service in this country improves they wont be getting another penny out of me!!

 

bob.

Edited July 16 by bob smith

[susanlea]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

I’m now back in my home? or the place that I call home,. i.e the area where I do my visa..

 

I’ve just been for a meal at a regular hangout of mine.

 

Never again!

 

The service was so lousy it was unbelievable.

I ordered my usual.

It was thrown down on the table with no ‘enjoy your meal’ or anything.

they didn’t even look at me,

 

when I asked to pay the woman threw the wallet down on the table.

no thank you, no nice to see you again. nothing.

I have been visiting this place a few times a year for about 10 years or so..

 

what is going on?

was it the clothes I was wearing?

was it my cologne?

or is it simply like some here have said..

they just don’t like regulars, particularly well integrated regulars who can speak the lingo.

 

something isn’t right.

it seems they love the green, fresh off the boat tourists but have no time at all for regulars who usually tip well.

i’ve done with tipping now.

until the standard of service in the country improves they wont be getting another penny out of me!!

 

bob.

Everyone hates you Bob.

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, susanlea said:

Everyone hates you Bob.

really?

 

bob.

[susanlea]

5 minutes ago, bob smith said:

really?

 

bob.

Tell them you are friends with Sue. They will treat you well, give discount.

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Tell them you are friends with Sue. They will treat you well, give discount.

It wouldn’t bother me so much if I was a first time customer.

 

But i’ve been to this place many, many times.

they know who I am.

and they also know that I speak Thai.

perhaps there lies the crux of the issue?

 

maybe I should only ever play the dumb tourist going forward.

complete with wife beater vest, elephant pants and NY cap.

 

bob.

[MalcolmB]

Have you got a bad head?

[bob smith]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Have you got a bad head?

meaning?

 

bob.

[MalcolmB]

12 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Tell them you are friends with Sue. They will treat you well, give discount.

I think Sue is a biological male but identifies as a female?

[bob smith]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

I think Sue is a biological male but identifies as a female?

…a bit like you then?

 

in all seriousness Malcolm,

if you want to post on my thread then do try and keep it on topic.

 

bob.

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, bob smith said:

meaning?

 

bob.

I am above average looks and as such I get better service. Women of all ages from 17- 60+ always chatting to me, giving me free extras etc, telling me how they think I am law maak.

 

It is a fact of life. I know it isn’t fair but after reading your posts and the treatment you always get I have concluded you must have a bad head.

 

It happens to beautiful women with good bodies also. Fatties get largely ignored.

 

You are usually complaining about bad service from women.

So that must be it.

I hope that helps you.

Good luck mate, you need it.

[2baht]

31 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Everyone hates you Bob.

No they don;t Bob, no one listens to her/him!

[bob smith]

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I am above average looks and as such I get better service. Women of all ages from 17- 60+ always chatting to me, giving me free extras etc, telling me how they think I am law maak.

 

It is a fact of life. I know it isn’t fair but after reading your posts and the treatment you always get I have concluded you must have a bad head.

 

It happens to beautiful women with good bodies also. Fatties get largely ignored.

 

You are usually complaining about bad service from women.

So that must be it.

I hope that helps you.

Good luck mate, you need it.

DO NOT call me mate.

 

you are no mate of mine.

 

bob.

[susanlea]

2 minutes ago, 2baht said:

No they don;t Bob, no one listens to her/him!

Staff like me, hate Bob.

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, bob smith said:

DO NOT call me mate.

 

you are no mate of mine.

 

bob.

Ok mate

[bob smith]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Ok mate

you have no mates.

 

bob.

[novacova]

38 minutes ago, bob smith said:

was it my cologne?

Probably. Or she was taking it out on you because the previous farang was acting like a snot.

[MalcolmB]

5 minutes ago, 2baht said:

No they don;t Bob, no one listens to her/him!

Bob does carry on like an old woman but I am fairly confident Bob is actually a male.

 

Auntie Bob.

[susanlea]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Bob does carry on like an old woman but I am fairly confident Bob is actually a male.

 

Auntie Bob.

Old women aren't that bad.

[bob smith]

3 minutes ago, novacova said:

Probably. Or she was taking it out on you because the previous farang was acting like a snot.

what has that got to do with me??

 

bob.

[MalcolmB]

1 minute ago, susanlea said:

Old women aren't that bad.

Bob is definitely a case study for male menopause 

[2baht]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Bob does carry on like an old woman but I am fairly confident Bob is actually a male.

 

Auntie Bob.

Oh I have no doubt that Bob is a male, it's susanlea that seems a bit dodgy!!!

[susanlea]

Just now, 2baht said:

Oh I have no doubt that Bob is a male, it's susanlea that seems a bit dodgy!!!

Are you a talking coin?

[MalcolmB]

Just now, bob smith said:

what has that got to do with me??

 

bob.

Well just like the title of your thread, some people group all people the same.

its not us, it’s them.

 

Same same.

[bob smith]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Well just like the title of your thread, some people group all people the same.

its not us, it’s them.

 

Same same.

But I am a paying customer…….

 

Not a tipping one anymore though.

 

bob.

[novacova]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

what has that got to do with me??

 

bob.

Most likely nothing. She was just having a bad day. If/when you go back maybe she’ll be a complete nongfah

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, 2baht said:

Oh I have no doubt that Bob is a male, it's susanlea that seems a bit dodgy!!!

Surprised TranSam hasn’t tried started flirting with “her” yet.

[MalcolmB]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

But I am a paying customer…….

 

Not a tipping one anymore though.

 

bob.

So was the last farang. 
You being angry and tight the next farang will get the same treatment. 
 

it shocks me that they don’t roll out the red carpet for you and offer up their daughter.

[bob smith]

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So was the last farang. 
You being angry and tight the next farang will get the same treatment. 
 

it shocks me that they don’t roll out the red carpet for you and offer up their daughter.

I know right.

 

If only I had been here in the 1950’s…

 

That said, waitresses should serve to the standard that is required.

If you don’t like your job then don’t come to work.

end of.

 

bob.

[MalcolmB]

8 minutes ago, bob smith said:

If you don’t like your job then don’t come to work.

end of.

If you don’t like it there don’t go there.

end of.

 

i don’t think it is the job Bob, we have established that it is your head.

[Ralf001]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

I’m now back in my home? or the place that I call home,. i.e the area where I do my visa..

 

I’ve just been for a meal at a regular hangout of mine.

 

Never again!

 

The service was so lousy it was unbelievable.

I ordered my usual.

It was thrown down on the table with no ‘enjoy your meal’ or anything.

they didn’t even look at me,

 

when I asked to pay my bill the woman threw the wallet down on the table.

no thank you, no nice to see you again. nothing.

I have been visiting this place a few times a year for about 10 years or so..

 

what is going on?

was it the clothes I was wearing?

was it my cologne?

or is it simply like some here have said..

they just don’t like regulars, particularly well integrated regulars who can speak the lingo.

 

something isn’t right.

it seems they love the green, fresh off the boat tourists but have no time at all for regulars who usually tip well.

i’ve done with tipping now.

until the standard of service in this country improves they wont be getting another penny out of me!!

 

bob.

 

Likely they know you and yur mates come to Thailand to fiddle with ladyboys.