Thai Mother Strangles Baby in Rage; Investigation Underway - video

[snoop1130]

Photo via Channel 8

 

A deeply troubling incident in Ratchaburi province has shocked the community, with a 19-year-old woman caught on video strangling her 10-month-old daughter using an electric wire. The incident, which occurred on April 6, followed a heated argument with her boyfriend over household chores.

 

The distressing video, partially shared by Esor News, shows the child crying while the mother utters, “You put pressure on me. You force me to do this.” Although the video shows the wire eventually being removed, the aftermath and intent linger painfully.

 

The case caught the attention of the non-profit Be One, which swiftly initiated an investigation to secure the baby’s safety. According to Channel 3, the boyfriend, who recorded the video, is not the child's biological father. Their relationship began through an online game when the woman was already pregnant.

 

The boyfriend, aged 22 and with a child from a previous marriage, claimed that such abusive incidents occurred frequently after disagreements. In his account, frustration arose from blaming over chores, prompting the abusive outburst. Following the incident and a subsequent breakup, the boyfriend posted the video using the woman’s Facebook account, reportedly to highlight her behaviour.

 

 

 

Contacted by Be One founder Chalida Palamart, the mother admitted feeling remorse and recounted that threats of eviction and harm towards the child by the boyfriend precipitated her actions. She insisted her harmful act was not out of lack of love but extreme duress.

 

Currently, the child is under the care of the woman’s father, as authorities determine the next steps. The woman has expressed intent to file a complaint against her ex-boyfriend for unlawfully sharing the video, citing the Computer Crime Act.

 

No formal charges have been filed yet, but police, alongside the Ministry of Social Development and Human Security, are assessing the situation. The Department of Mental Health is also involved to evaluate and support the woman’s mental health. This case underscores the urgent need for interventions supporting families in distress, as the legal and social systems work to address the multifaceted challenges unveiled by this tragic event, reported The Thaiger.

 

 

-- 2025-04-18

 

 

[JoePai]

Very Very sad

[kidneyw]

Yep, she is a keeper. That is, keep her in the nut house.

[hotchilli]

16 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

The boyfriend, aged 22 and with a child from a previous marriage, claimed that such abusive incidents occurred frequently after disagreements. In his account, frustration arose from blaming over chores, prompting the abusive outburst. Following the incident and a subsequent breakup, the boyfriend posted the video using the woman’s Facebook account, reportedly to highlight her behaviour.

Aged 19 & 22 spawning children but acting like babies themselves..

[robertyongym]

18 minutes ago, hotchilli said:

Aged 19 & 22 spawning children but acting like babies themselves..

All are kids having babies 👶 😔 

[Thingamabob]

She said her attempt to strangle her 10 month old baby with electric wire was not because of 'a lack of love'. Incredible. She should not be placed in a mental institution, she belongs in jail, for a long time.

 

[norsurin]

1 hour ago, Thingamabob said:

She said her attempt to strangle her 10 month old baby with electric wire was not because of 'a lack of love'. Incredible. She should not be placed in a mental institution, she belongs in jail, for a long time.

 

She said lack of money so she couldn't buy milk or food for the kid.The father of the kid not help/provide anything.

[Thingamabob]

9 minutes ago, norsurin said:

She said lack of money so she couldn't buy milk or food for the kid.The father of the kid not help/provide anything.

Are you suggesting that is a good reason to strangle her baby with electrical wire ?

[fredwiggy]

Taking your rage out on an innocent child is the act of a sociopath. If she was mad at the boyfriend under threat of eviction, go back home to mom's house. No one can make anyone hurt their own child. If you're mad at someone, you put your anger there. Problem here is immature children having children with children, with most of them ending up with grandma, with the boy taking off, and the girl going to Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai, et al, to work , sending home a pittance and seeing their kids a couple of times a year. A pattern which many think is normal here but it's nothing more than cowardice and children who shouldn't be having sex in the first place, or at least without protection.

[fredwiggy]

22 minutes ago, norsurin said:

She said lack of money so she couldn't buy milk or food for the kid.The father of the kid not help/provide anything.

Not an excuse for hurting a baby, and that's the norm here anyway. The only fathers who pay child support here are foreigners.

[MalcolmB]

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The only fathers who pay child support here are foreigners.

Rubbish. 
I know two thai fathers who pay it and and another mother that receives it.

Stop making things up based on the limited knowledge you have.

[norsurin]

28 minutes ago, Thingamabob said:

Are you suggesting that is a good reason to strangle her baby with electrical wire ?

Not at all.Shes crazy and a terrible mother.

[norsurin]

17 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Not an excuse for hurting a baby, and that's the norm here anyway. The only fathers who pay child support here are foreigners.

I totally agree.I seen how parents hit and kicking their kids I seen thaimen knocking down their wife/gf.

 

[fredwiggy]

45 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Rubbish. 
I know two thai fathers who pay it and and another mother that receives it.

Stop making things up based on the limited knowledge you have.

I state things because I've never heard of any locals paying support, both from others who live here and the court system where I went for my divorce. You say you know two that pay it that are locals, and that might be true, and it also might be false, as people don't talk much of personal things, especially to foreigners here. Saying they pay might be true or not. Enforcement of laws is weak here, especially trying to track down men for child support, many who don't work on the books. Stop thinking others here have limited anything as you know nothing about what anyone here knows, especially regarding court actions. This is from another post on the subject, and the reason so many don't pay.........

 Child Support for Illegitimate Child

In general, the biological father of the child is not obligated to pay for the child support. However, the father is not barred to enter into an agreement on child support payment with the mother of the child, and such agreement is enforceable once it is registered with the district office."  Do you actually think many local biological fathers go to court in the first place, especially when they aren't married?

 

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[RJRS1301]

20 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

Photo via Channel 8

 

A deeply troubling incident in Ratchaburi province has shocked the community, with a 19-year-old woman caught on video strangling her 10-month-old daughter using an electric wire. The incident, which occurred on April 6, followed a heated argument with her boyfriend over household chores.

 

The distressing video, partially shared by Esor News, shows the child crying while the mother utters, “You put pressure on me. You force me to do this.” Although the video shows the wire eventually being removed, the aftermath and intent linger painfully.

 

The case caught the attention of the non-profit Be One, which swiftly initiated an investigation to secure the baby’s safety. According to Channel 3, the boyfriend, who recorded the video, is not the child's biological father. Their relationship began through an online game when the woman was already pregnant.

 

The boyfriend, aged 22 and with a child from a previous marriage, claimed that such abusive incidents occurred frequently after disagreements. In his account, frustration arose from blaming over chores, prompting the abusive outburst. Following the incident and a subsequent breakup, the boyfriend posted the video using the woman’s Facebook account, reportedly to highlight her behaviour.

 

 

 

 

Contacted by Be One founder Chalida Palamart, the mother admitted feeling remorse and recounted that threats of eviction and harm towards the child by the boyfriend precipitated her actions. She insisted her harmful act was not out of lack of love but extreme duress.

 

Currently, the child is under the care of the woman’s father, as authorities determine the next steps. The woman has expressed intent to file a complaint against her ex-boyfriend for unlawfully sharing the video, citing the Computer Crime Act.

 

No formal charges have been filed yet, but police, alongside the Ministry of Social Development and Human Security, are assessing the situation. The Department of Mental Health is also involved to evaluate and support the woman’s mental health. This case underscores the urgent need for interventions supporting families in distress, as the legal and social systems work to address the multifaceted challenges unveiled by this tragic event, reported The Thaiger.

 

 

-- 2025-04-18

 

 

Mental Health support required, possible post natal depression along with uncooperative "partner"

[MalcolmB]

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Child Support for Illegitimate Child

In general, the biological father of the child is not obligated to pay for the child support.

You are talking about illegitimate children. 
Most children are not illegitimate. But I accept if most are in the circles you move in.

 

i do like that law regarding illegitimate children in Thailand, stops gold diggers from getting themselves pregnant.

[save the frogs]

maybe 19 is too young to be having children for most women (ie girls)

 

 

[fredwiggy]

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

You are talking about illegitimate children. 
Most children are not illegitimate. But I accept if most are in the circles you move in.

 

i do like that law regarding illegitimate children in Thailand, stops gold diggers from getting themselves pregnant.

You're as clueless as they come. Thousands of children are born here to unmarried parents, and that means the father has to legitimize his relationship with his child. Saying that most of the children aren't legitimate in the circles I move in has you sounding like an ignorant teenager that hasn't the sense to shut up and not speak, especially about things you know nothing about. Try insults in person, although that might be dangerous for such a little drunkard boy like yourself. All of my children are legitimate if you must know, and I had custody of all of them, and will with this one I have now eventually. Many children that are born here to married parents isn't what I'm talking about of course. I'm talking about children born out of wedlock, which again, is thousands here, and many boys aren't even involved in the children they make. Thailand leads the world with children raised by grandparents and that's a major reason support isn't paid.

[MalcolmB]

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You're as clueless as they come. Thousands of children are born here to unmarried parents, and that means the father has to legitimize his relationship with his child. Saying that most of the children aren't legitimate in the circles I move in has you sounding like an ignorant teenager that hasn't the sense to shut up and not speak, especially about things you know nothing about. Try insults in person, although that might be dangerous for such a little drunkard boy like yourself. All of my children are legitimate if you must know, and I had custody of all of them, and will with this one I have now eventually. Many children that are born here to married parents isn't what I'm talking about of course. I'm talking about children born out of wedlock, which again, is thousands here, and many boys aren't even involved in the children they make. Thailand leads the world with children raised by grandparents and that's a major reason support isn't paid.

I feel sorry for your kids.

Studies have proven that kids brought up in homes excel and single parent homes are more likely to produce troublesome children with tattoos.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

I feel sorry for your kids.

Studies have proven that kids brought up in homes excel and single parent homes are more likely to produce troublesome children with tattoos.

Studies are also done by biased people who have no actual personal knowledge of what having children is about. You say I have limited knowledge. I've been married three times, and got custody of my children because the mom's were not parent material, as I will with the one here. 

 

The only reason I didn't get custody here is because men rarely ever get custody here. Why? Because local men don't fight for their children. Foreigners do, but Thai courts will not give children to fathers here unless the mother gives them away or is a drug dealer. In the US I fought for and got custody of my children, and I've been in court at least 30 times for these cases, both in fighting and looking to get child support because my ex didn't pay. 

 

I'm guessing you don't have any children so don't understand what it's like, seeing you feel sorry for mine without knowing anything about us besides what I've said here. This means you have no legitimate comments on anyone's personal situation regarding children, and I actually feel sorry if a drunk like you ever did have children, because you probably would be driving in the car with them drunk. 

 

Children come from two parent families who aren't abusive or neglectful and end up in jail or on drugs, and other children come from drug addicted parents and excel in life because it is still about "their" choices made. There's no guarantees because children have peers who they follow and many times choose the wrong paths.

[MalcolmB]

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I've been in court at least 30 times for these cases, both in fighting and looking to get child support because my ex didn't pay. 

I am not surprised.

 

Parents fighting and bickering at the home and in court is not a good thing for the poor kids.

 

A real man swallows his pride, suppresses his ego and finds a win win where everyone benefits. Children who come from broken homes are statistically proven to be more likely to also then have a broken home themselves, it gets passed on through the generations sadly.

[fredwiggy]

16 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I am not surprised.

 

Parents fighting and bickering at the home and in court is not a good thing for the poor kids.

 

A real man swallows his pride, suppresses his ego and finds a win win where everyone benefits. Children who come from broken homes are statistically proven to be more likely to also then have a broken home themselves, it gets passed on through the generations sadly.

You're not surprised about what? I wasn't in court for fighting with my ex's but fighting for custody for myself.It seems that you don't know much about what makes a broken home. Many broken homes have two parents in them, and many children come from single parent homes and do very well. It all depends on how well they adjust. 

 

If the parents can remain civil in divorce, if the FATHER especially spends quality time with his children, no matter if he has primary custody or visitation, if the mother doesn't bad mouth the father for any reasons besides how he treats those children, if support is given by the non primary parent, if both parents stay living close to each other so the children can have easy visits, if the divorced parents don't have too many partners exposed to the children unless one is looking to be permanent. many reasons children either adjust well, or don't, and much of it regards their relationship with their FATHER, which is sadly absent in many countries, but especially here, where female children are looked at as inferior anyway, and the males are prized, even though they don't do much in the way of support or time spent with children they create.

 

Children seeing fighting is a good thing for them, as everyone who's normal argues. As long as there aren't any abuses at either parent, names called, or too much silent treatment, children need arguing to understand how to argue, because they certainly will when they have partners of their own.Parents who don't argue hold in anger, and that comes out in silent treatments, with no communication, which is one of the most important things a child can learn with his parents.

[phil2407]

You have no excuse!!! Tried to strangle it - 
take the child away as 10 months old 

you’re 19 so adult behave like 1 unless you’re unhinged 

but wants to sue him for filming & sharing 

run boy run but hope that the little baby gets a better life