Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Your life, bang 47 year olds with body counts in the hundreds.

 

Sounds like an exaggeration. 

Most decent Thai women do not have body counts in the hundreds, as far as I can gather. 

For one thing, a lot of them get married really young.

 

[Hummin]

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't know why you have to lie so much, Hummin. I love women. don't hate them at all. Absolutely love them. That doesn't mean you can't write the truth about them. That's not "lashing out". It's just telling the truth. 

 

And yes, I like a woman that hasn't been railed by 30 dicks before. Again, just telling the truth. This preference has existed in all cultures for centuries. By saying it's weird, you don't actually realise that you're the weird one. But ok. Your life, bang 47 year olds with body counts in the hundreds. Your life. I really don't care. 

 

I referred to having life experience and not how many dicks they had in their life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Cameroni]

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

 

Sounds like an exaggeration. 

Most decent Thai women do not have body counts in the hundreds, as far as I can gather. 

For one thing, a lot of them get married really young.

 

 

Well, BritManToo kindly calculated the number of sex partners a bargirl would rack up, it is actually in the thousands by age 47. So hundreds is an understatement as regards bargirls.

 

In terms of non-sex workers Thai girls have a body count of 10.6, the data was also posted above. This makes Thai girls the most promiscuous in Asia. 10.6, or 11, is way too high. Why? Because other data shows that the more sexual partners a woman has had the greater the likelihood she will divorce after 5 years of marriage. This problem becomes acute after 7 sexual partners, when the divorce rate goes up to over 50%.

 

This is clearly location dependent, ie urban girls will have the 10.6 body count. Rural girls only have 2 or 3 sexual partners on average. But then few of us go to the rural areas.

 

 

[Cameroni]

58 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I referred to having life experience and not how many dicks they had in their life.

 

 

Alas, it is through the dicks that the woman collects life experience.

 

The ideal really is if she's 19 and then collects her life experience through you.

 

If she collected her life experience through other guys that's to your disadvantage, not your advantage.

[BritManToo]

20 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Well, BritManToo kindly calculated the number of sex partners a bargirl would rack up, it is actually in the thousands by age 47. So hundreds is an understatement as regards bargirls.

 

In terms of non-sex workers Thai girls have a body count of 10.6, the data was also posted above. This makes Thai girls the most promiscuous in Asia. 10.6, or 11, is way too high. Why? Because other data shows that the more sexual partners a woman has had the greater the likelihood she will divorce after 5 years of marriage. This problem becomes acute after 7 sexual partners, when the divorce rate goes up to over 50%.

 

This is clearly location dependent, ie urban girls will have the 10.6 body count. Rural girls only have 2 or 3 sexual partners on average. But then few of us go to the rural areas.

My daughters attractive 15 yo schoolfriend, had 4 kids from 4 different men between the age of 15 and 21.

She was definitely not a sex worker, just a normal pretty Thai girl.

 

My niece aged 14 used to regularly skip school to have sex with her male classmates.

She was also not a sex worker, not even pretty, but preferred random sex to high school and university.

So she was returned to the village and missed out on the free education/food/housing/clothing I was prepared to provide for her.

 

Neither of them could be classed as urban.

I'm thinking the only hobby in the villages is sex.

 

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Alas, it is through the dicks that the woman collects life experience.

 

The ideal really is if she's 19 and then collects her life experience through you.

 

If she collected her life experience through other guys that's to your disadvantage, not your advantage.

 

You illusion not mine. I had my young teen relationships, learning by failing, and also throughout my short as well long term relationships, traveling from one place to another and also progressing and evolving as a human being. Without my life experiences I wouldn't been half of a man what I'm today. Same goes for my wife.

 

I have no interest of being tutoring my new gf's or become their daddy. I want an equal partner I can rely on not someone I have to indoctrinate or teach the reality of true life, but one who trust her decisions about her self and me. 

 

Seems you are still searching for your perfect woman? 

[Cameroni]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My daughters attractive 15 yo friend, had 4 kids from 4 different men between the age of 15 and 21.

She was definitely not a sex worker, just a normal pretty Thai girl.

 

My niece aged 14 used to regularly skip school to have sex with her male classmates.

She was also not a sex worker, not even pretty, but preferred random sex to high school and university.

So she was returned to the village and missed out on the free education/food/housing/clothing I was prepared to provide for her.

 

 

I have a suspicion that both girls, when they finally do get their farang boyfriend will say they started having sex at 23 and only had 2 boyfriends.

 

I can't imagine a Thai girl admitting she lost her viriginity at 14 or 15.

 

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My daughters attractive 15 yo friend, had 4 kids from 4 different men between the age of 15 and 21.

She was definitely not a sex worker, just a normal pretty Thai girl.

 

My niece aged 14 used to regularly skip school to have sex with her male classmates.

She was also not a sex worker, not even pretty, but preferred random sex to high school and university.

So she was returned to the village and missed out on the free education/food/housing/clothing I was prepared to provide for her.

 

Says more about the home and environment she grows up in.

 

Not normal anymore, at least in our village and district. 

 

 

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 I had my young teen relationships, learning by failing, and also throughout my short as well long term relationships, traveling from one place to another and also progressing and evolving as a human being. Without my life experiences I wouldn't been half of a man what I'm today.

 

So you're saying you were taught your life experience by girls and women?

 

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I want an equal partner I can rely on

 

That's the undying male fantasy of course. The "equal partner" you can rely on. I suppose you want to be loved for being you, too? Not what you provide?

 

Sadly, women don't want an equal partner, and we'll never get one.

 

7 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Seems you are still searching for your perfect woman? 

 

Not at all. A "perfect" woman would be insanity to hope for. All I ask is loyalty, a warm, happy and affectionate disposition, that she makes my life better, and looks like a Goddess. Is that too much to ask?

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

So you're saying you were taught your life experience by girls and women?

 

 

That's the undying male fantasy of course. The "equal partner" you can rely on. I suppose you want to be loved for being you, too? Not what you provide?

 

Sadly, women don't want an equal partner, and we'll never get one.

 

 

Not at all. A "perfect" woman would be insanity to hope for. All I ask is loyalty, a warm, happy and affectionate disposition, that she makes my life better, and looks like a Goddess. Is that too much to ask?

You are funny, 

 

Have a good day 😁

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That's the undying male fantasy of course. The "equal partner" you can rely on. I suppose you want to be loved for being you, too? Not what you provide?

I'd like to be loved for being me as well.

Sadly, I can achieve that as a dad, but not as an equal partner.

[Cameroni]

24 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'd like to be loved for being me as well.

Sadly, I can achieve that as a dad, but not as an equal partner.

 

As we all would like to be loved for being just who we are. But then we realise that women don't love us for who we are, but for what we can provide for them.

 

They only pretend they love us for who we are.

 

The last thing they want is to be an equal partner. That's a male fantasy. The female ideal is the winner who takes care of everything, and she can lie back and enjoy the fruits of his labour.

 

Indeed, only your daugther will love you unconditionally.

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

As we all would like to be loved for being just who we are. But then we realise that women don't love us for who we are, but for what we can provide for them.

 

They only pretend they love us for who we are.

 

The last thing they want is to be an equal partner. That's a male fantasy. The female ideal is the winner who takes care of everything, and she can lie back and enjoy the fruits of his labour.

 

Indeed, only your daugther will love you uncondtionally.

 

I think you misunderstand equality on purpose. 

 

We can start with she take care of you, you take care of her, which means more than just cooking, cleaning and money. Chemstry wich last even you grow older, and love each other even you both physically change, but rather experience physically addiction to each other when separated. 

 

You are a grown up man, and should understand simple things that builds a healthy relationship for both where no part take advantage of the other. 

 

Also understand how women and men are differnt, and also have different needs sometimes. 

 

Equality is not about not being a man in a relationship or a woman, or mixed roles. 

 

A real man is the main provider and protector, and do no let his wife slave for nothing. 

[SMIAI]

He bases his life on the celebrities he reads about and the books and media he pores over.  Totally shallow. Why waste your time? Let him end up where he is going. He'll learn by himself.

[Cameroni]

29 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

I think you misunderstand equality on purpose. 

 

We can start with she take care of you, you take care of her, which means more than just cooking, cleaning and money. Chemstry wich last even you grow older, and love each other even you both physically change, but rather experience physically addiction to each other when separated. 

 

You are a grown up man, and should understand simple things that builds a healthy relationship for both where no part take advantage of the other. 

 

Also understand how women and men are differnt, and also have different needs sometimes. 

 

Equality is not about not being a man in a relationship or a woman, or mixed roles. 

 

A real man is the main provider and protector, and do no let his wife slave for nothing. 

 

Like I said you have been socialised in Norway, where feminism has taken over, like in Sweden and Denmark, so you can't help espousing these feminist  "equality" propaganda lies.

 

However, if you had bothered to read the more manly texts on equality like Nietzsche's "All Too Human" you would know that real equality is "The equal for the equal and the unequal for the unequal". It is of course your understanding of equality that is off the mark. But then like I said, it's not your fault, you were force-fed feminism with the baby milk so to speak.

 

If you truly believe that in 2025 a woman of 18 to 25 years of age will do all the cleaning and cooking, you are sadly mistaken. Just yesterday, I received texts from the girl whose pics I posted upthread, telling me that I had to help her clear and clean the table after dinner, when she comes back, and lecturing me that men should do half the housework. Thanks to your feminist masters, even in Thailand the notion that woman will take care of you, cook and clean, hangs by a silken thread.

 

The "chemistry" you refer to in old age is just attachment. That will happen with any female that you spend a long time with.

 

But how long do you think your attachment would last if you stop paying her accomodation and food? If you are unable to finance a good lifestyhle? That "chemistry" and attachment would end quite quickly.

 

In any relationship where you are the "provider" there is no equality. You are doing all the work. You are paying all the bills. She's enjoying the fruits of your labour.

 

You need to start seeing reality as it is. Not through the "equality" goggles your feminist Norwegians placed on your sweet innocent face from childhood.

[Hummin]

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

You need to start seeing reality as it is. Not through the "equality" googles your feminist Norwegians placed on your sweet innocent face from childhood.

 

Well after reading everything you have provided the last week, Im happy Im not sharing your ideals and double morality. 

 

I think you need a reality check more than me 😁

 

Not to mention a morality check

[Cameroni]

9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Well after reading everything you have provided the last week, Im happy Im not sharing your ideals and double morality. 

 

I think you need a reality check more than me 😁

 

Not to mention a morality check

 

Of course someone living in total delusion as a result of a feminist Scandinavian upbringing would say that. No surprises.

 

Again, it's not your fault. You were brainwashed as a young child.

[Hummin]

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course someone living in total delusion as a result of a feminist Scandinavian upbringing would say that. No surprises.

 

Again, it's not your fault. You were brainwashed as a young child.

You have a tendency to repeat yourself with a twist thinking you insult others. 

 

I got news for you, you just digging yourself deeper in to your dike, shooting with blanks.

 

Scandinavian countries is among the top 10 best countries to live in 😉

[Cameroni]

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Scandinavian countries is among the top 10 best countries to live in 😉

 

I truly feel sorry for Scandinavian countries, under the heel of feminist politicians. I can't think of a worse place in the world to live, to have been born, than this socialist feminist hell hole that takes 80 percent of your salary in taxes.

 

Clearly it warps your ability to think clearly to have been born in Scandinavia. How ever did it get so far? Gender equality laws mandating the make up of parliament?

 

 The existence of Scandinavia is an embarassment for men everywhere. 

[SMIAI]

Girls don't seem to have a problem doing the washing up and the cleaning for us. On the other hand I don't mind doing it either. No problem either way. 

The irony and the crux of the matter it that he is paying her and she is refusing. Whereas here, they offer and do it willingly.

Employee or real friend? Which is better for life together?

It's not about women, it's not about Thailand. It's personal.

[Hummin]

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I truly feel sorry for Scandinavian countries, under the heel of feminist politicians. I can't think of a worse place in the world to live, to have been born, than this socialist feminist hell hole that takes 80 percent of your salary in taxes.

 

Clearly it warps your ability to think clearly to have been born in Scandinavia. How ever did it get so far? Gender equality laws mandating the make up of parliament?

 

 The existence of Scandinavia is an embarassment for men everywhere. 

 

Have a nice day Cam, you truly got the hate inside you, and nothing unexpected came out of this small debate this time either. You prove yourself again. 10 points from the jury 😁😉

 

Just taste the happiness 

In 2024 and 2025, the Nordic countries continue to dominate the top of the World Happiness Report. Specifically, Finland has consistently held the top spot for several years, followed by Denmark and Iceland. Other Nordic nations like Sweden and Norway also frequently rank within the top 10. 

 

 

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Girls don't seem to have a problem doing the washing up and the cleaning for us. On the other hand I don't mind doing it either. No problem either way. 

The irony and the crux of the matter it that he is paying her and she is refusing. Whereas here, they offer and do it willing

 

She does all the washing up, the cooking and clean the floors. And I don't pay her for it. But the point is she resents it, she does not want to be seen as a "housewife" thanks to the feminist propaganda.

 

And of course you, SIMAI are paying for your girl, like everyone else. Don't lie so much.

[SMIAI]

You DO pay her for it. You pay her rent, you subsidise her family and you pay for everything when she visits.

 

Whereas here, I don't pay for her at all and we share the costs, though I insist on paying the lion's share for shopping and eating out.

 

You have an employee, not a girlfriend.

[save the frogs]

13 hours ago, Cameroni said:

In terms of non-sex workers Thai girls have a body count of 10.6, the data was also posted above. This makes Thai girls the most promiscuous in Asia. 10.6, or 11, is way too high. Why? Because other data shows that the more sexual partners a woman has had the greater the likelihood she will divorce after 5 years of marriage. This problem becomes acute after 7 sexual partners, when the divorce rate goes up to over 50%.

 

10 partners is not that much. Who cares? 

You can't tell the difference when you have sex with a woman how many partners she's had. 

 

As far as the other statistics, I'm not even convinced they're accurate. 

Thailand is different from the west. A lot of girls get married young in thailand. And that's probably what is the biggest cause of divorce. They are often too young to know what they're doing. 

 

In which case the opposite would be true. If they've had several partners, they have more experience to be able to tell the difference between a good partner and bad one and to have a better idea what is compatible. 

 

Regarding "baggage", guess what? If you date a 20 year old, statistically speaking YOU will eventually become her baggage. 

 

[Cameroni]

50 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

You DO pay her for it. You pay her rent, you subsidise her family and you pay for everything when she visits.

 

Only now and then, when her business doesn't yield enough I pay half her rent, cause she lives with her mother, she pays half. Okay, sometimes I paid the full 8000, but almost never. Sometimes I send 500, 2000 or so for Kanom, but I never pay directly for her dish cleaning, floor cleaning or such.

 

51 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

I don't pay for her at all

 

52 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

I insist on paying the lion's share for shopping and eating out.

 

You're paying! Welcome to the club, lol.

[Cameroni]

38 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

10 partners is not that much. Who cares? 

 

10 priors is a lot. It's too much. You have to draw the line at 6 really. Over 7 and you're in for a 50% chance of tear down.

 

38 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

You can't tell the difference when you have sex with a woman how many partners she's had. 

 

That's true. You can't tell there's a flu virus in the air either. Until it's too late. Just like a virus, a woman who's had to many sex partners will make you pay. One way or the other. You will regret it.

 

38 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

As far as the other statistics, I'm not even convinced they're accurate. 

 

Well, take it up with these guys:

 

https://thethaiger.com/news/national/boom-boom-thai-people-ranked-no-1-in-asias-list-of-top-shaggers#google_vignette

 

According to them Thai women are the most promiscuous in Asia. Bear in mind the 10.6 figure, if they did it right, will have taken into account that in rural Thailand the girls have 2 to 3 partners. So the true tally for girls in the city is much higher, than 10.6, as the rural girls will have brought down the average.

 

 

38 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

If you date a 20 year old, statistically speaking YOU will eventually become her baggage

 

Maybe, maybe not. But either way you'd have fond memories of doing a silky 20 year old.

[SMIAI]

Paying my share is not paying. It's no different from me choosing to carry the heaviest bags of shopping. If I'm stronger than that's how it should work. We are expending force equal to our capabilities. Nothing to do with money at all.

Whereas your 'relationship' appears purely transactional. You aren't even friends.

[Cameroni]

3 hours ago, SMIAI said:

Paying my share is not paying.

 

You're not paying "your" share though, you're paying her food and accomodation. You are paying.

 

 

[sidjameson]

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

10 priors is a lot. It's too much. You have to draw the line at 6 really. Over 7 and you're in for a 50% chance of tear down.

 

 

That's true. You can't tell there's a flu virus in the air either. Until it's too late. Just like a virus, a woman who's had to many sex partners will make you pay. One way or the other. You will regret it.

 

 

Well, take it up with these guys:

 

https://thethaiger.com/news/national/boom-boom-thai-people-ranked-no-1-in-asias-list-of-top-shaggers#google_vignette

 

According to them Thai women are the most promiscuous in Asia. Bear in mind the 10.6 figure, if they did it right, will have taken into account that in rural Thailand the girls have 2 to 3 partners. So the true tally for girls in the city is much higher, than 10.6, as the rural girls will have brought down the average.

 

 

 

Maybe, maybe not. But either way you'd have fond memories of doing a silky 20 year old.

I agree with most of your points. Women tend to be diminished by every man that seduces/lies to them. 7 broken hearts/ disappoints take their toll and they and their future husband pay the price.

So therefore how comfortable are you to be contributing to another humans suffering? Unless your irresistible i imagine your waving a potential committed life time relationship at this Filipina knowing that it won't happen.

[Celsius]

The usual dribble from guys paying vs us winners who are not paying.

 

Most of the guys here also love being cucks by supporting other Thai guys children