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Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count? 93 members have voted

  1. 1. Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

    • Yes
      65%
      40
    • No I am not comfortable asking her
      11%
      7
    • No I am scared it will be high and I don’t want to know. It intimidates me.
      3%
      2
    • No, because she has had so many she can not remember
      8%
      5
    • No, she wouldn’t tell me
      4%
      3
    • No, she told me but I don’t believe her
      6%
      4

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1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

He claims he helps teach his daughter maths.

God help her.

Everyone makes mistakes but you take the cake.

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    I think it's irrelevant to our life together. Generally it's INCELs that fantasize about virgins. I had some when I was younger, nothing memorable about any of them.

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10 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

I do know that you've spent perhaps eight hours arguing constantly. That tells me something about what you are doing with your time.

And tells us why he has been dumped 100 times and failed in every relationship.

Imagine having to put up with it full time.

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7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I go to Lotus weekly and see new foreigners every time,

I doubt it

4 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Oh dear, what have I stumbled into.

 

 All I’ll say is Freddy gives out TMI, personal.

 

 

I'm honest and have no reason to exaggerate. Yes, some here use it against you as that's their MO, but there's no sense lying here as it doesn't impress anyone if you brag about some things. Some things i and others here say might be hard to believe but that;s only because they haven't lived my life. I was there. They weren't. I see some bragging about how much money they have, penis size or that they'll kill dogs, and some are prejudiced or racist. A public forum gets all kinds, and likely some of the people you argue with might be your friends if they met. Some you might knock out because they deserve it, so this is a safe place for some to BS, as they know they'll probably never meet anyone in person. But again, why lie? 

14 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

And tells us why he has been dumped 100 times and failed in every relationship.

Imagine having to put up with it full time.

Who said I was dumped 100 times? I did say the relationships ended because of different future plans, some lied, cheated, scammed or were greedy. No different than any others who date  a lot. What I meant to say before, and was off in, was that in 21 years I dated about 90 women, subtracting my wives and girlfriend now and the one I had a child with, so that one's on me. Try to get things straight Malcolm. Everyone makes mistakes,but assumptions are intentional .

Just now, ThreeCardMonte said:


Whatever Freddy.

 

Still, TMI.

Not a problem, nothing wrong with being honest. I never do anything wrong to people, don't hurt women or children, and even my ex's know they made mistakes, and wanted to get back with me when they saw what was out there after. The problem is when others twist things around and try and use it against you later. Kinda like when your girlfriend or wife hits you, tries to stab you with a knife, then tries to blame you for her insanity, even when there are witnesses.

Just now, ThreeCardMonte said:


Come on Fred.  TMI.

Well, I've already said it all in the past, although some here forget things. Just here sharing as I know others have gone through some of the same things, especially regarding wives who use knives. This is why I don't understand as foreigners we should be sticking together, being the minority, with some having been scammed by some of Thailand's finest. 

28 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

And tells us why he has been dumped 100 times and failed in every relationship.

Imagine having to put up with it full time.

99 failures. 1 success.

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Who said I was dumped 100 times? I did say the relationships ended because of different future plans, some lied, cheated, scammed or were greedy. No different than any others who date  a lot. What I meant to say before, and was off in, was that in 21 years I dated about 90 women, subtracting my wives and girlfriend now and the one I had a child with, so that one's on me. Try to get things straight Malcolm. Everyone makes mistakes,but assumptions are intentional .

90 now. 80 next week. Like Maxwell Smart. Would you believe? 

21 minutes ago, ThreeCardMonte said:


I’m afraid to ask.  Why would she use a knife on you (or anyone)?

 

What did you do to make her go down that road?

One time we were in her mom's house, before the house here was built. She was mad at her mom,  a usual thing, and sweeping the floor. I went over to her and tried to give her a hug and she slapped me, then went to the kitchen and got a knife and came at me. Her sister got in between us and yelled at her, telling her to stop. I went to the room, and lied down. 10 minutes passed and she came in and hugged me and said she was sorry, one of the two times in 7 years she did, after many of her crazy outbursts over almost nothing at all. I've always been very good to her, never hit her although she hit me at least 5 times. Most of the arguments were very petty, asking her to speak more English to our daughter, asking why she would lie on  the floor and stare at the ceiling for hours ( a depression thing). Very short fuse, with everyone. She told me she hit her ex boyfriend, a daughter's dad, with an iron, and the other daughter's dad she stabbed with a knife. This after we were moved here and waiting for the house build. 

6 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

90 now. 80 next week. Like Maxwell Smart. Would you believe? 

I said about 100, including 3 wives and 2 girlfriends. I can remember almost all of them. Not hard if your memory's still there.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

One time we were in her mom's house, before the house here was built. She was mad at her mom,  a usual thing, and sweeping the floor. I went over t her and tried to give her a hug and she slapped me, then went to the kitchen and got a knife and came at me. Her sister got in between us and yelled at her, telling her to stop. I went to the room, and lied down. 10 minutes passed and she came in and hugged me and said she was sorry, one of the two times in 7 years she did, after many of her crazy outbursts over almost nothing at all. I've always been very good to her, never hit her although she hit me at least 5 times. Most of the arguments were very petty, asking her to speak more English to our daughter, asking why she would lie on  the floor and stare at the ceiling for hours ( a depression thing). Very short fuse, with everyone. She told me she hit her ex boyfriend, a daughter's dad, with an iron, and the other daughter's dad she stabbed with a knife. This after we were moved here and waiting for the house build. 

Why didn't you date her for 3 months first to see her style?

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Why didn't you date her for 3 months first to see her style?

I came here to visit Thailand. Met her at hotel I stayed at. Took her to Kanchanaburi and back. Stayed there a month. If you understand a covert narcissist, one who is very pretty and love bombing, you would know how they act. It was my fault as I went back to the US, talked to her very day, and went back 6 months later to see her again. She was always very nice and giving, great cook, intimate, and that attraction did me in. I'm not the kind that just goes from one to another without care, but my mistake was not taking more time. I couldn't date her as I went back home. She was great until the house was finished, then Satan appeared. Learned a hard lesson but a child was born, so there's a reason I went through hell.

1 minute ago, ThreeCardMonte said:


Sorry I asked.

 

Hopefully you left her.

Had to divorce her so she would bring my daughter back, as she took off a few times, which would have gotten her jail in the west, but since they favor the woman here no matter what, the only thing they did was warn her not to do it again. Now she's recently married to a Pole living in Poland, who hasn't the slightest idea what he has, although he'll find out eventually, unless he stays in Poland. 

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I came here to visit Thailand. Met her at hotel I stayed at. Took her to Kanchanaburi and back. Stayed there a month. If you understand a covert narcissist, one who is very pretty and love bombing, you would know how they act. It was my fault as I went back to the US, talked to her very day, and went back 6 months later to see her again. She was always very nice and giving, great cook, intimate, and that attraction did me in. I'm not the kind that just goes from one to another without care, but my mistake was not taking more time. I couldn't date her as I went back home. She was great until the house was finished, then Satan appeared. Learned a hard lesson but a child was born, so there's a reason I went through hell.

I can usually predict a marriage early on. Only been wrong once. Most people pick the wrong personality type.

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15 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

One time we were in her mom's house, before the house here was built. She was mad at her mom,  a usual thing, and sweeping the floor. I went over t her and tried to give her a hug and she slapped me, then went to the kitchen and got a knife and came at me. Her sister got in between us and yelled at her, telling her to stop. I went to the room, and lied down. 10 minutes passed and she came in and hugged me and said she was sorry, one of the two times in 7 years she did, after many of her crazy outbursts over almost nothing at all. I've always been very good to her, never hit her although she hit me at least 5 times. Most of the arguments were very petty, asking her to speak more English to our daughter, asking why she would lie on  the floor and stare at the ceiling for hours ( a depression thing). Very short fuse, with everyone. She told me she hit her ex boyfriend, a daughter's dad, with an iron, and the other daughter's dad she stabbed with a knife. This after we were moved here and waiting for the house build. 

But you read hundreds of books on women over 30 years and know all about narcissism.

But you ended up breeding with this one? 
Farcical.

I think you must be a troll.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

I can usually predict a marriage early on. Only been wrong once. Most people pick the wrong personality type.

The only way anyone knows anyone else is spending a lot of time with them in all their moods. Falling in love doesn't work unless it's with someone you can trust, and tat takes time. Maybe my daughter is here for a reason I can't yet see. 

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5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Now she's recently married to a Pole living in Poland, who hasn't the slightest idea what he has, although he'll find out eventually, unless he stays in Poland. 

You claimed before she married a German?

 

where does she meet all the foreigners?

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6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Had to divorce her so she would bring my daughter back,

Not because she tried to stab you?

You “had” to divorce her to get your child back?

 

How much sinsod did you pay for her?

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20 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I said about 100, including 3 wives and 2 girlfriends. I can remember almost all of them. Not hard if your memory's still there.

I doubt it

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

But you read hundreds of books on women over 30 years and know all about narcissism.

But you ended up breeding with this one? 
Farcical.

I think you must be a troll.

If you read what i write and not jump to conclusions and make assumptions, you'll understand more. People are attracted to each other not by choice. What you do afterwards is what matters. I didn't know what a covert narcissist was because I never encountered one I dated, at least in the time period, as many take time to show their true selves. Trump is a malignant narcissist and easy to spot. Covert means just that. Sneaky, deceptive, manipulative, love bombing. When you aren't a man that just bounces from one to another, using then dumping, you look at all women equally, unless you already know their motives, like the malignant, scammers, greedy and promiscuous. Most anyone can get pregnant, as the world's over population can attest. many men aren't responsible. With children I am, and that's the only reason I'm still here. I don't lie, and I do good by women so have nothing to hide.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

The only way anyone knows anyone else is spending a lot of time with them in all their moods. Falling in love doesn't work unless it's with someone you can trust, and tat takes time. Maybe my daughter is here for a reason I can't yet see. 

But a 3rd party can see things a partner cannot. More objective. A non sensitive type doesnt match a sensitive type. A deep thinker doesnt match a surface level type. A practical person doesnt match a dreamer type. A jovial person doesn't match a serious type. Partners fall in love and can't see the fundamental differences in beliefs. I match all 4 with my mrs. Ive seen people at 0/4 and their marriages ended badly. Minimum 2/4 for any chance of being good.

5 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

You claimed before she married a German?

 

where does she meet all the foreigners?

He works in Germany and is Polish.She talks to three other foreigners on her phone while he's in Germany. She was on me like white on rice the day before she married him, while he was flying here. My daughter tells me everything.

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

He works in Germany and is Polish.She talks to three other foreigners on her phone while he's in Germany. She was on me like white on rice the day before she married him, while he was flying here. My daughter tells me everything.

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Not because she tried to stab you?

You “had” to divorce her to get your child back?

 

How much sinsod did you pay for her?

The last time she left she hid my child for 1 1/2 years. I was talking to her now and then, as she was telling me she would be back soon, every time. I knew where she might be, but didn't have the address. I was very close to calling in friends from the states to hunt her down but decided just to divorce her so she would have to bring my daughter back or go to jail. If this was Texas, she would have been found in a week, jailed, then deported and I would be living there with my daughter now. Some things take time .Thailand doesn't have a thing called parental kidnapping, as they really don't care much about the children and see them as being with the mother anyway, as Thai men would rarely bother fighting for the kids. 

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Which is yet another good reason I will take my daughter out of here. A parent can be the worse influence on a child, and most of a child's future problems start at home, with abusive , spoiling or neglective parents. 

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4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The last time she left she hid my child for 1 1/2 years. I was talking to her now and then, as she was telling me she would be back soon, every time. I knew where she might be, but didn't have the address. I was very close to calling in friends from the states to hunt her down but decided just to divorce her so she would have to bring my daughter back or go to jail. If this was Texas, she would have been found in a week, jailed, then deported and I would be living there with my daughter now. Some things take time .Thailand doesn't have a thing called parental kidnapping, as they really don't care much about the children and see them as being with the mother anyway, as Thai men would rarely bother fighting for the kids. 

So how much sinsod did you pay?

8 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

But a 3rd party can see things a partner cannot. More objective. A non sensitive type doesnt match a sensitive type. A deep thinker doesnt match a surface level type. A practical person doesnt match a dreamer type. A jovial person doesn't match a serious type. Partners fall in love and can't see the fundamental differences in beliefs. I match all 4 with my mrs. Ive seen people at 0/4 and their marriages ended badly. Minimum 2/4 for any chance of being good.

It's all in future plans. Attraction isn't a choice and is why people start. Opposites can work but some like interests are necessary. If the partners are willing to share and bend, they can enjoy each others interests, but some should already be there. A homebody and a social butterfly won't work. You have to be on the same page as far as where to live, kids, pets and sharing duties. 

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Which is yet another good reason I will take my daughter out of here. A parent can be the worse influence on a child, and most of a child's future problems start at home, with abusive , spoiling or neglective parents. 


Why not let this go already Fred? This has been going on for nearly 10 hours. You are being trolled by some of the most toxic, shallow and inflammatory people on the site. You can't win against a mob who are only dedicated to crushing you and who are not willing to find any merit in anything you have to say, yet you're slurping up the bait like it's your last supper. There is no winning and nothing to gain with people like that. Save your dignity and put them all on ignore. Done!

Just now, fredwiggy said:

It's all in future plans. Attraction isn't a choice and is why people start. Opposites can work but some like interests are necessary. If the partners are willing to share and bend, they can enjoy each others interests, but some should already be there. A homebody and a social butterfly won't work. You have to be on the same page as far as where to live, kids, pets and sharing duties. 

Do you think your record of 90 failures is a good guide to it? Seems to me your personalities never matched.

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