How Do You React...

[Englishman]

I'm paranoid about being flamed by super members, so I'm sorry if this is an old topic... PLS be gentle with me...

If you overhear a stranger say something nasty about you or your girlfriend/wife through their misconception... regardless of whether she was a bar girl or not... how do you react?

Do you ignore and walk away? Do you snap back with a devastating quip? Do you go forth and lay a punch right on the kisser? Do you make some nasty remark to them in retaliation? Do you pretend you didn't hear it?

For me, I just tighten my grip with her hand, sniff kiss her and smile.

[whattodo]

I'm paranoid about being flamed by super members, so I'm sorry if this is an old topic... PLS be gentle with me...

Its a current topic

[Bluecat]

If you overhear a stranger say something nasty about you or your girlfriend/wife through their misconception... regardless of whether she was a bar girl or not... how do you react?

People who have a reason to react badly will react badly.

People who have no reason to react badly will not react badly.

Only the truth hurts.

And how you interpret that truth,...

[Totster]

People who have a reason to react badly will react badly.

People who have no reason to react badly will not react badly.

Only the thruth hurts.

And how you interpret that truth,...

A very wise answer, don't think I can add to that really !

[Englishman]

I'm paranoid about being flamed by super members, so I'm sorry if this is an old topic... PLS be gentle with me...

Its a current topic

Not really. A current topic inspired me to ask these questions, admittedly.

... Oh alright, I read it too quick and missed it and now i've look silly... sorry. I wish this topic would move down to page 2 more quickly

[Bluecat]

Do you ignore and walk away?

The easiest way.

Do you snap back with a devastating quip?

Not recommended.

Do you go forth and lay a punch right on the kisser?

A bit old fashioned,...

Do you make some nasty remark to them in retaliation?

Can but will be short term solution.

Makes you feel good anyway,...

Do you pretend you didn't hear it?

Easy to say, not easy to do,...

For me, I just tighten my grip with her hand, sniff kiss her and smile.

Jeez, you knew what to do.

I "wasted" my time again,....

[medicinebox]

I'm paranoid about being flamed by super members, so I'm sorry if this is an old topic... PLS be gentle with me...

Super members???.........you mean people who post a lot, and spend a lot of time on this board?

They don't scare me....grrrrr......grrrrr..

[Bluecat]

Super members???.........you mean people who post a lot

Are you talking about me?

and spend a lot of time on this board?

I'm relieved, it is not me.

They don't scare me....grrrrr......grrrrr..

And they should not.

Please, everybody makes this forum interesting and lively.

Not only the so called super members.

Not at all.

They're just participating like others.

[rod_kalashnikov]

 

[jayrockwell]

If you overhear a stranger say something nasty about you or your girlfriend/wife through their misconception... regardless of whether she was a bar girl or not... how do you react?

People with the time to look and judge your life are often unhappy in theirs, my advice, rise above it safe in the knowledge that you have a great life, in a beautiful warm and interesting country, with a beautiful lady, don't let them black your heart for a second.

J

[eyespan]

If you overhear a stranger say something nasty about you or your girlfriend/wife through their misconception...

They're just jealous...

[The Gentleman Scamp]

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George?

[drummer]

People who have a reason to react badly will react badly.

People who have no reason to react badly will not react badly.

Only the truth hurts.

And how you interpret that truth,...

I dunno about that. Tell that to some lynching victims. Or the guy they tied to a pole and beat to death in Utah, the kid they drug to death behind a pickup truck in Texas. Those kinda sound like they hurt. A lot.

Of course, that *is* taking it a little past the "Sticks and Stones" in your post, but actions do come from attitudes, which are reflected in words.

And, presumed guilt can really piss one off.

[DeDanan]

Hi All,

It always amazes me!

If I go to Amsterdam I can in one city, visit the sex capital of Europe, visit the Diamond center of Europe, and visit any amount of museums with famous Dutch masters.

If I go to Paris I can wonder why there are more coach tours at the “Moulin Rouge” (red light district) than at the Eiffel Tower.

That India has the biggest red light district in the WORLD!

If I have a Dutch, French or Indian girlfriend no one will question my or her motives.

I have traveled through some of the non tourist areas of Thailand and fallen in love with the place, I wish when I speak positive of Thailand to my friends that some of them don’t give me that “knowing*” look.

It pisses me off!!!

Will a name change help?

“my girlfriend is from Thailand”

“my girlfriend is from Siam”

Have a Happy…

DeDanan

[cobra]

If you overhear a stranger say something nasty about you or your girlfriend/wife through their misconception... regardless of whether she was a bar girl or not... how do you react?

I'm sorry, you have no choice, you must have them killed, it's required,

[Englishman]

A bit old fashioned,...

Do you go forth and lay a punch right on the kisser?

Bluecat, you speak with wisdom, but it's the old fasioned way of the English gentleman to punch a man who insults his girl. Unfortunately, these days you'd be prosecuted for assault. I liked the days when you could challenge a man to a duel...

'Sir, you have insulted me. I challenge you to a duel'

[Englishman]

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George?

My fault... Sorry