4 hours ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

Most people have a pretty good idea of what is considered 'kinky' and what is not. Do you really need it spelled out for you, or are you being pedantic?

Perhaps he's exhausted his own imagination already and now he's looking for new ideas on what else he can do to put a bit of zing back into his boring and monogamous sex life. 😂

What can be defined as kinky sex? 69? Anal? Sandwich? Doggy style? Cowgirl? Spooning? Tabletop? Wheelbarrow? Pretzel? Lotus? Eiffel Tower? Sideways? Amazon? . . .

By the way, consult the site: The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die.

https://cafemom.com/lifestyle/174722-the_ultimate_sexual_bucket_list

On 6/20/2026 at 7:57 AM, ColeBOzbourne said:

On 6/20/2026 at 7:57 AM, ColeBOzbourne said:

Most people have a pretty good idea of what is considered 'kinky' and what is not. Do you really need it spelled out for you, or are you being pedantic?

Most people may have a pretty good idea of what is considered kinky and what is not, but context is important. So is credibility.

What is kinky for one person might be normal for another. In Thai culture, kissing was not normal in the same way as in the West. Western style kissing became more visible through foreigners mostly through, movies, bars, tourism, and modern culture. Even touching feet are not neutral in Thai culture.

You are avoiding the answer as well, while claiming everyone knows what kinky is.

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Most people may have a pretty good idea of what is considered kinky and what is not, but context is important. So is credibility.

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You are avoiding the answer as well, while claiming everyone knows what kinky is.

You do realize that the silly question asked is hypothetical and presented merely for fun and entertainment, right? Not a scientific inquiry requiring definitions and boundaries. I said, "Most people have a pretty good idea of what is kinky". If you're going to quote me, at least be accurate about it. I'm not going to define kinky for you. Google it if you're really that clueless.

23 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

You do realize that the silly question asked is hypothetical and presented merely for fun and entertainment, right? Not a scientific inquiry requiring definitions and boundaries. I said, "Most people have a pretty good idea of what is kinky". If you're going to quote me, at least be accurate about it. I'm not going to define kinky for you. Google it if you're really that clueless.

Let me guess, your kink is answering in that particular way.

Fair enough, but my point was simple. “Kinky” means different things to different people. People draw the line differently between what is a kink and what is not.

69 is perfectly normal for some, while for others having their nose too close to the brown end is already kinky.

In Thai culture, putting that thing in the mouth can be seen as disgusting or shameful. In the West, after the sexual liberation and with porn everywhere, many have started to see almost everything as normal. Young Westerners today may think anal is something everyone is doing, but that is a fake porn image. Normal to try, yes. Normal for everyone, no.

Edited June 22Jun 22 by Hummin

23 minutes ago, Hummin said:

69 is perfectly normal for some, while for others having their nose too close to the brown end is already kinky.

My nose starts at the brown and never actually leaves from there the entire time. You reckon I'm doing something wrong?

31 minutes ago, BilllyGOAT said:

My nose starts at the brown and never actually leaves from there the entire time. You reckon I'm doing something wrong?

Nothing is wrong as long as you do not feel you are doing anything wrong, there is mutual pleasure and consent, and the law will not jail you for it.

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Let me guess, your kink is answering in that particular way.

Fair enough, but my point was simple. “Kinky” means different things to different people. People draw the line differently between what is a kink and what is not.

69 is perfectly normal for some, while for others having their nose too close to the brown end is already kinky.

In Thai culture, putting that thing in the mouth can be seen as disgusting or shameful. In the West, after the sexual liberation and with porn everywhere, many have started to see almost everything as normal. Young Westerners today may think anal is something everyone is doing, but that is a fake porn image. Normal to try, yes. Normal for everyone, no.

Yes, my reply to you is my idea of kink. Brilliant deduction, as usual. I agree with all that you said, but still think it's a nonsensical question that shouldn't be taken seriously. Definitions and parameters are not required. If you want details about kinky behavior, why not start another thread. This one is about what cavemen did or did not do.

20 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

Yes, my reply to you is my idea of kink. Brilliant deduction, as usual. I agree with all that you said, but still think it's a nonsensical question that shouldn't be taken seriously. Definitions and parameters are not required. If you want details about kinky behavior, why not start another thread. This one is about what cavemen did or did not do.

I did answer that question seriously, but that part was mostly passed over. So yes, I repeated the little poke, because nobody really followed up on what kinky actually means in this context.

Here is my serious take on the theme:

Where to start with this delicate theme, Alpha? What are your kinks? We are dying to know now. 😁

The human brain has not changed that much in the last 300,000 years, and probably very little in the last 35,000 years. So why assume they had no rituals, no rules, no taboos, or no belief systems? They had ceremonies for the dead, and surely also ceremonies for seasons, hunting, birth, death, and many other things we can only imagine today.

We also have to assume they had morality in some form. Even animals have rules for behaviour. Cross the wrong line in the group, and you are pushed out.

When it comes to sex, exchange, protection, food, status, good genes, and access, we already see versions of this among primates. Homo sapiens depended even more on social structure for survival, so of course power and access were part of that too. Kinky sex sounds more like a luxury when basic survival is already handled. When food, protection, shelter, hygiene, and time are in place, humans have more room for experimenting. Some today even have dirty sex as a kink, so hygiene itself can also become part of the play.