YoungFarangNa Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 (edited) My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? Edited October 27, 2007 by YoungFarangNa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt60 Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 No. You end up with no friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevemiddie Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? Sounds a bit like you have a crush on this other girl? Either way.............i would not say anything. As the above poster stated..............you will have no friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maestro Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 No. -- Maestro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZukiSuzuki Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 You don't need to talk to her but you could have a few words with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DamianMavis Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Uh ya, why would you feel a need to say anything to her? If you did it would be obvious you were making a play for her and it is you that is acting unethical. If it bothers you that much talk to him and tell him his cheating on HIS girlfriend offends you. You ARE a dude right? I'm kinda surprised...... Damian Mavis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JetsetBkk Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? Do you often trawl this forum looking for old threads and then re-post them as if they were you own? DNFTT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoungFarangNa Posted October 27, 2007 Author Share Posted October 27, 2007 So if your wife was cheating on you, you wouldn't want your friend to tell you about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZukiSuzuki Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Do you often trawl this forum looking for old threads and then re-post them as if they were you own?DNFTT ????? Though i already know it's a troll Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 NOT YOUR BUSINESS!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Time for a tea break, me thinks. Do not feed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? Do you often trawl this forum looking for old threads and then re-post them as if they were you own? DNFTT I concur. Rubbish, immature posts by that character are apparent. Mods, what do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 (edited) My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? No, you don't have that responsibility and also shouldn't make it 'your' responsibility. BTW: what where YOU doing in the Nana area ? LaoPo Edited October 27, 2007 by LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gburns57au Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? You are not asking for conclusions.....you are looking for assumptions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 My friend is married to one of the sweetest Thai girls you will ever meet. She studied overseas and has a decent paying job, speaks perfect english, is lovely, etc. My friend is a farang who also has a good job and is a reasonably good guy however I had the misfortune of witnessing him walking around with another girl and kissing her on the cheek (this was close to the Nana area, from which you can draw your own conclusions). I feel that they are both my friends and I don't think he should treat her this way. Do I have a responsibility to tell her? Only if you think that you can trick her into doing it with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulfr Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 (edited) Many men have a Mia Noi/Mistress and still love their wife and fulfill all their family responsibilites. And some men just sample some different fruit once in a while with different ladies. It is hardly a traumatic issue and quite common throughout the world. If he is planning to leave her, you an be sure any female will know that already without your information. Either way, it is best you be quiet IMO. Edited October 27, 2007 by paulfr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoungFarangNa Posted October 27, 2007 Author Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naam Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. sure! because "kissing her on the cheek" is some sort of rape and that's a criminal offense in Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZukiSuzuki Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. From your postings you sound like a child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Quickest way to shorten ones life is to put your nose where it doesnt belong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lannarebirth Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 In many parts of the world, kissing friends on the cheek is a common form of greeting or farewell. I think you assume too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoungFarangNa Posted October 27, 2007 Author Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. sure! because "kissing her on the cheek" is some sort of rape and that's a criminal offense in Thailand walking down soi 4? she was wearing a see through blouse and a skirt two inches above her bum. i didnt want to be explicit but it was 100% obvious she was a prostitute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Dunno I've seen Uni students wearing far less, so guess that makes them prossies??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. sure! because "kissing her on the cheek" is some sort of rape and that's a criminal offense in Thailand she was wearing a see through blouse and a skirt two inches above her bum. u sure there wasnt more to see in that area...it wasn't a ladyboy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaiyenyen Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Keep your nose out, It's bugger all to do with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madjbs Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 If the guy wasnt my friend then I would probably say something, however, if they are both your friends then you should think carefully how close you actually are to them and if you can live with one of your friends being taken advantage of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetjock Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 The only responsibility you have is to mind your own business when comes to this type of matter. There is no need for self appointed 'Love Police' ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crewcut Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Tell her that he is cheating on her and say it isn't the first time. Tell her that you've been so cut up about making the decision to tell her that you even raised it on an internet forum! Tell her, hurting her was the last thing you wanted to do. Tell her that you have been hurt in love before and that you share something in common. Tell her that maybe the two of you should try to get over this together. Tell her that you would never do anything like that and that, yes, you really want to **** her. Tell him nothing and if he asks why his girlfriend is going out alot say she mentioned something about extra evening classes. Tell him to go out more often, encourage him to stay overnight somewhere, anywhere. We all know you want her..... so go get her! Hope she's worth it, wink wink! CC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maestro Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 haha everyone in this thread must be afraid its them. If any confirmation was needed that you started this as a trollish topic, this was it. Topic closed. -- Maestro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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