I did not want to start this topic in another forum since, I guess, it was done before.

If you are a man, what motivated you to start a relationship with a girl.

She was smart?

She was educated?

She was rich?

She was gorgeous?

She made love like, well, you like?

You do not know,...

If you are a girl, same questions:

Smart

Rich

Handsome

...

Physical attraction always does it first. (Time has passed so this is going to sound weird coming from me) Then, have a conversation, check his accent and check if he's got a brain. After that, see if he can afford a nice hotel for a wild night.

PS. I'm trying to settle down here, folks. So, my priorities now have been changed.

75% of limbs has always been the driving factor behind my selection of a mate, but I do make exceptions if I've been drinking hard.

and check if he's got a brain.

What did we say about man's brain, LC?

After a nice hotel and a wild night, well, not much left,...

That's why I have to check if he is not an idiot first.

That's why I have to check if he is not an idiot first.

Getting interesting.

How do you do that?

He can speak when he sees you,...?

1. 'rich' is the answer, just that.. 'rich' enough no need millionaire!

2. kind, if he's rich but self-centred --useless

3. love me.

2. kind, if he's rich but self-centred --useless

3. love me.

If he is rich, he is probably self-centered.

But it does not mean he can not love you.

For a while,...

How do you do that?

He can speak when he sees you,...?

That'd be a start.

Well, I just know it. Talking about this and that.. if he's been suffering from Erco Syndrome, I'll notice it in no time.

I'm with GFB on the rich part. I don't want my man to be too rich. I just want him to have enough. Now that the Darling has got too much to lose....

I don't want my man to be too rich.

OK, question for both of you (LC, GFB), how much rich is rich?

If he is rich, he is probably self-centered.

But it does not mean he can not love you.

For a while,...

everybody is self-centred but at the different levels, and while being in the 'love' moment, its level seems lowing down to zero or even minus:P

self-centred is acceptable as long as he knows how to play "take&give" game

self-centred is acceptable as long as he knows how to play "take&give" game

What do you give?

What does he take?

Can he play?

I don't want my man to be too rich.

OK, question for both of you (LC, GFB), how much rich is rich?

just simply 'rich'

1. have proper careers --to see if we can have 'future' together

2. if he's from wealthy family --it's a bonus! (but rarely)

rich --but down to earth naturally --is enough.

I don't want to mention any figures, actually. Some morons might turn up and mess with this old fart again.

Let me put it this way.. I want my man to have enough to live a comfortable life anywhere he wishes. Just comfortable, not luxurious. When he decides to invest his hard-earned money in some business and leave it to me, I want him to worry if I will <deleted> it all up or not.. not like.. 5 minutes of talking about buying a business here, he said "Ok let's have a look. I can buy it and you run it." - while both of us haven't got a Scooby Doo about it.

OK, girls, thank you very much.

You replied beyond my expectations.

And I'm sure you did not lie

Let's now wait for the men.

I'm sure they will reply according to expectations,...

self-centred is acceptable as long as he knows how to play "take&give" game

What do you give?

What does he take?

Can he play?

like playing tennis or ping-pong --take&give game

i serve --he hits back.. bah bah

simply say..

today i might buy him chocolate, and a week later, he might buy me the chocolate too

when u grow the seed, u hope to see it become the plant yes?

nobody wanna be all the time donator, i think.

ps. he's a good player, so for

nobody wanna be all the time donator, i think.

Nobody wants.

But quite a lot of people do.

A lot of men, I mean.

And I'm not talking about Thailand specifically,...

Nobody wants.

But quite a lot of people do.

A lot of men, I mean.

And I'm not talking about Thailand specifically,...

nature creation!

men as donator or giver

and women as taker

just notice how their genitals work!

nature creation!

Nature recreation.

Talking about girls, of course

I would start a relationship with man if he is :

drop dead gorgous

smart

self confident

and he can :

be a good leader

be a good listenner

be my inspriration

dance!!!

1.not a consumerist zombie..the ability to think for herself is very important.

2.some desires beyond having babies and a nice house.

3.keen

PS. I'm trying to settle down here, folks. So, my priorities now have been changed.

A LAI Khun Elsie !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do people keep saying that to me?

I did not want to start this topic in another forum since, I guess, it was done before.

If you are a man, what motivated you to start a relationship with a girl.

She was smart?

She was educated?

She was rich?

She was gorgeous?

She made love like, well, you like?

You do not know,...

If you are a girl, same questions:

Smart

Rich

Handsome

...

Is Sex The Main Driver, If You Are A Man?, Men want sex, women want love,...

This is the head-line of this topic, quite single-sided, indicating that men are all considering sex as the most important point of a relationship....and the poor woman in return has a strong desire for a little bit of love instead of it....

I would call such a head-line as suggestive and derogatory, but as a man, why should I care...

Or should I ask the administrator to close this topic, as I find it so offensive towards men?

What about the other way round?

Is sex the main driver, if you are a women? women want sex, men want love,...

Sounds me more realistic, by the way....

Appearance is the thing that catches the eye first, but after that to keep my interest there must be some other factors- intelligence, humor, kindness, good cooking, etc.

That's why I have to check if he is not an idiot first.

I wonder, what is an idiot...

As long as he can pay, most women will not call him an idiot...

Generally said, money is very important for a man, if he wants to show off with girls. His intentions, his looks or his behaviour are for sure less important.

If you are a man, and you need sex, then money is your catalyst, I do not want to say, it is impossible to be successful without money, but to own money makes all and everything much easier in your life, especially sex with women.

This is a fact, and nobody can say, this is not true.....

I would call such a head-line as suggestive and derogatory

I agree Yohan, it is and it is on purpose.

Sex sells....

That's why I have to check if he is not an idiot first.

I wonder, what is an idiot...

As long as he can pay, most women will not call him an idiot...

If you are a man, and you need sex, then money is your catalyst,

especially sex with women.

this itself is one example of an 'idiot'

I would call such a head-line as suggestive and derogatory

I agree Yohan, it is and it is on purpose.

Sex sells....

Yohan Posted on Sun 2004-08-29, 19:56:07 I wonder, what is an idiot...

As long as he can pay, most women will not call him an idiot...

Generally said, money is very important for a man, if he wants to show off with girls. His intentions, his looks or his behaviour are for sure less important.

If you are a man, and you need sex, then money is your catalyst, I do not want to say, it is impossible to be successful without money, but to own money makes all and everything much easier in your life, especially sex with women.

This is a fact, and nobody can say, this is not true.....

Very true, sex sells,

You see, what I wrote above....

They might call me an idiot for posting that,

but they cannot say, what I wrote, is not true....

That's why I have to check if he is not an idiot first.

I wonder, what is an idiot...

As long as he can pay, most women will not call him an idiot...

If you are a man, and you need sex, then money is your catalyst,

especially sex with women.

this itself is one example of an 'idiot'

Nail on the head GFB