realmadrid25 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) 1. If the bf came from an influential Thai family. 2. If the bf came from an uninfluential Thai family. 3. If the bf's parents were expat farangs. perhaps your answer would be the same for each, or perhaps not. The bf in question is 18 years old. Your daughter is also 18 years old. Assume your daughter had a black eye and bloody lip. Edited March 21, 2008 by realmadrid25 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bsided69 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) 1. If the bf came from an influential Thai family. 2. If the bf came from an uninfluential Thai family. 3. If the bf's parents were expat farangs. perhaps your answer would be the same for each, or perhaps not. What is the age of the daughters boyfriend? This could affect the action that would need to be taken? Edited March 21, 2008 by bsided69 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpuiman Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Have his legs broken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 ....it should make no difference what there background is but first advise daughter to immediately end relationship ,and if it were more brutal than a lovers tiff ,tell the cops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realmadrid25 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 Have his legs broken. You will have the Prime Minister's brother's son's leg broken? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onethailand Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Very simple. If it were my daughter, I'd kick his ass, no ifs, ands or buts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sriracha john Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Have his legs broken. You will have the Prime Minister's brother's son's leg broken? There's a new word that was just recently approved by the Linguistic Society of Earth that fits here. It's spelled "n-e-p-h-e-w" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realmadrid25 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) Regardless of who the bf's family were - end the relationship and file charges with the police - which would be pressed to court. However, both our daughter and our son are a way off 18 yet, but they are being taught the limits of the behaviour to accept from others and the limit of their behaviour too others. Abuse is not something we are leaving to be dealt with on the day if/when it occurs. Edited March 21, 2008 by GuestHouse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Okan Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating. it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bsided69 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) 1. If the bf came from an influential Thai family. 2. If the bf came from an uninfluential Thai family. 3. If the bf's parents were expat farangs. perhaps your answer would be the same for each, or perhaps not. The bf in question is 18 years old. Your daughter is also 18 years old. Assume your daughter had a black eye and bloody lip. If I knew the parents of boy in question I would take my daughter to the house of the boy and ask him to explain his actions. Any further action would depend on the reaction of the boys parents. I would definately advice her to stop seeing the boy, but we all know what teenagers are like. Its a tough one if this was your situation. Edited March 21, 2008 by bsided69 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bsided69 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. Strange custom indeed. How big a knife can you use? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twschw Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 I'm in agreement with GH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. i wondered why Turkey can't join EEC.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunandy Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Have his legs broken. Sounds good, It's what we would like to think we would do. Truth be told , as a father of three late teenage daughters you see them go through all sorts of crap with boyfriends etc. Although I have never seen a black eye or a bloody nose I have seen plenty of teen pain and boyfriend crap to imagine what I would like to do if there was any physical abuse, I think the mental abuse is just as bad but where do you draw the line? Others fathers I have seen in this situation have gone in hard and quickly ended up the villain. It is very hard to sit on the sideline sometimes, the big danger is that any sort of abuse becoming "normal" relationship practice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigSnake Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Sure someone would be will to take the sorry <deleted>### on for a small fee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdinasia Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 I'd avoid worrying about posts that are just blatant attempts at trolling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realmadrid25 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 Ok, I just want to know what Heng does here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
howtoescape Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Id go on an internet forum and tell everyone how hard i am, what a fcuken stupid topic. How many of you people that have posted break his legs or similar have ever premeditatedly gone round to someones house and beat them up severly so they know know not to come back, easier said then done for most i think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) Ok, I just want to know what Heng does here. same here,...I've not quite managed to get my head round any of Hengs posts.....sorry Heng Edited March 21, 2008 by dee123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spasticated Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. What if hes got no legs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
howtoescape Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. What if hes got no legs? He'd be spasticated and Paul Mcartney would marry him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. What if hes got no legs? Good point.......u can't exactly stab thin air...can u Edited March 21, 2008 by dee123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpuiman Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Have his legs broken. You will have the Prime Minister's brother's son's leg broken? If someone beat my daughter? I'd do it myself....screw repercussions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. What if hes got no legs? Good point.......u can't exactly stab thin air...can u you'd have to settle for ....nailing his head to a coffee table ......i suppose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apetley Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 He would of course be subject to a beating.it is Turkish custom to stab below the arse. What if hes got no legs? Good point.......u can't exactly stab thin air...can u you'd have to settle for ....nailing his head to a coffee table ......i suppose Cruel........but fair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpuiman Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Id go on an internet forum and tell everyone how hard i am, what a fcuken stupid topic.How many of you people that have posted break his legs or similar have ever premeditatedly gone round to someones house and beat them up severly so they know know not to come back, easier said then done for most i think. I was a bouncer for 10 years....I fought people nearly every weekend...I wouldn't hesitate to put the fear of God into someone who beat my daughter. I once hunted down a junkie who had burgled my home....took weeks....saw him riding in a friends car, smashed the windshield with a 50 lb. rock, pulled the prick out through the hole and beat him unconscious. Maybe I'm an idiot for doing it...but I did it....and for a few possessions......if it were my daughter?.....find a hole and stay there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dee123 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Id go on an internet forum and tell everyone how hard i am, what a fcuken stupid topic.How many of you people that have posted break his legs or similar have ever premeditatedly gone round to someones house and beat them up severly so they know know not to come back, easier said then done for most i think. I was a bouncer for 10 years....I fought people nearly every weekend...I wouldn't hesitate to put the fear of God into someone who beat my daughter. I once hunted down a junkie who had burgled my home....took weeks....saw him riding in a friends car, smashed the windshield with a 50 lb. rock, pulled the prick out through the hole and beat him unconscious. Maybe I'm an idiot for doing it...but I did it....and for a few possessions......if it were my daughter?.....find a hole and stay there. DINSDALE ..!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeaceBlondie Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Unlike most of the posters here, a. It actually happened. My daughter was 18 and about six months pregnant with their first child, about to graduate from high school, very much in love, and confused. He punched her in the lower abdomen, hard. b. We are Christians, nonviolent, pacifist, peace-makers, and I taught her to love the enemy. If I had not passed this test, I would have had a miserable relationship with my son-in-law forever. My wife called me at work, and I immediately left work after calling the work place of the boy's father, leaving word that he had a family emergency of the highest priority and must go home at once. I went home, put my daughter on the back of my Yamaha 550, and we went to the boyfriend's house, where his grief-stricken parents met us in the living room with a very repentant, remorseful young man. We talked at length, with the father making it clear that he had never taught the boy to hit a woman, and the boy promised to never do it again. We decided to trust him. He never hit her again (the deal was he would not get a second forgiveness if he hit her again). He has spent the last 24 years at home, taking care of the three children, cooking and cleaning (his family is Mexican-American and he's a real man). Oh, and back to the day we discovered she was pregnant. National Honor Society officer, straight A student, etc. Her boyfriend came rushing into the hospital (he knew she was pregnant, and an abortion or adoption was out of the question). When I entered the hospital room and he saw me, he was afraid I would harm him, seriously. I said, "I forgive you, and I love you." We hugged and when we had the later conversation about hitting my daughter, he knew I did not hate him. Hate kills. Love saves. I prefer loving my enemies. You really should try it. Love works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave111223 Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Invite him over, drug him, cut his brain out and serve it up to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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