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Seeking Recommendations for Alcohol Rehab Centers in Thailand
Note - I will be checking out all of the recommendations here. Thanks -
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Is it better to buy or rent property in Thailand as an expat?
Renting is far more stress free. It also gives you more freedom. What if you may got tired of here(for some reasons) in any future? If you are just paying month to month, you can move as soon as you change your mind. But once you buy one, it will make a shackle of your life. It simply creates more otherwise needless concerns. -
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Seeking Recommendations for Alcohol Rehab Centers in Thailand
Agreed - depends on your poison. For booze and coke - they knock you out on Benzos for a few days to prevent seizures. For heroin - I think that's a much longer taper off. But the activities and treatments - like CBT - do vary a lot - as do the availability of medical professionals on site. -
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How did you do it ?
I met my future wife and her sister in the cloth market in Muang Loei 47 years ago. They were selling clothing. I had a couple months training in Thai courtesy of the U.S. Peace Corps. My wife did not speak English at the time. -
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Seeking Recommendations for Alcohol Rehab Centers in Thailand
Thank you. I believe he would do the same for me if the tables were turned. He is a lovely guy who has taken a very dark turn. -
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Seeking Recommendations for Alcohol Rehab Centers in Thailand
what India doesn't have - me to have the police escort him off the plane to me waiting in my car - me delivering him to the rehab center - me taking care of him for 60 days after rehab (yes, I am an EX addict and I fully understand the headspace he'll be in after just 30 days rehab and that it's the start of a long journey) - me taking him to the airport and having him police escorted to the gate for his trip back to Europe - his family meeting him in Europe where he can continue his journey UK doctors have refused to put him through detox prior to the flight. He says he'll taper off prior to coming - but he's an alcoholic. So whilst he is willing to come - we can't trust him waiting for a flight at the airport in UK - there's bars there! Post rehab - my experience was an inability to focus for a long period of time. Of extreme muscle and joint issues getting moving again. He works in the building industry - mostly on the finishing side and so the plan is to give him a purpose while he's here - to help us renovate the house as much or as little as possible - maybe new kitchen cupboards, maybe wallpaper and painting, maybe new bathroom - whatever he can manage - but something with purpose that will help regain his dignity. We'll also use the time to re-establish lost relationships - many people I've spoken to want nothing more than to see the person he once was again. That means rebuilding bridges he thought he'd burnt and that I've since found he hasn't. So - Thailand is a good place. He wont have money in his pocket at any point and he's agreed to that - he doesn't know the place - he's agreed to 90 days here and 60 of which are at our house - with the blessing of my wife. We'll go on walks and eventually runs and swims. We'll do temples and Lopburi and stuff like that - but mostly - he'll be recovering his health and dignity. What we don't want - is him going back to his home town and his family are all in Spain and can watch over him as he continues his recovery journey. What we also don't want is him sitting in a bunch of meetings where he'll be counting the days since his last drink and being told he's an addict forever - that's bull<deleted>. It's like a toxic relationship - you leave because it is damaging - but the love is still there. Once you fall out of love with your poison - you are no longer addicted and in a state where you'd rather eat <deleted> than go back to it. Of course - that is my lived experience and the best I can do is guide him through it - the rehabs I have spoken to so far think it's a wonderful idea.
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