Why Are Asian Girls Interested In Western Boys?

[huggybear]

I have come to the conclusion that different guys have different experiences.

Stunning observation.

worth a Ph.D.

sharp as a marble

[Darknight]

if you look smart , you can get any girl to notice you anywhere in the world.

The more uglier you look, the more money you need for the women to notice you.

If you are a stunner , but also a bum without cash , they will leave as quick as they've noticed you.

If you are quasimodo, with a feww million in the bank, they will stay with you and get a lover for the rest....

This is true everywhere in the world, not only in asia...

[Naam]

I have come to the conclusion that different guys have different experiences.

Stunning observation.

worth a Ph.D.

sharp as a marble

it generated inferiority complexes. why can't i be as sharp as "HereComesSeveralSiams"?

[zaza]

I think you are a total plonker and missed the plot. A hi-so asiatic stunner wants you in the family and you bottle out... multiple times?

Oh well A, welcome to Thailand, pull up a bar stool and I will get you a beer and try and point out how to tell which of the lo-so girls you are doomed to circulate with are not after your wallet.

Hmm... OK, I will be honest and admit that I have on occasion toyed with the idea of all the things I could have done if I had gotten married to one of these girls. On the other hand, I don't think I would have been happy although having several fancy cars and the possibility to lead an international jet-set life with multi-million dollar deals (I did that anyway - just not with my own money) would be soften the blow.

These are only moments of speculation, but overall I am in no way regretting my decisions. Not at all. I come from an egalitarian society (Scandinavia - although I currently live in Australia) and I know that I will never lack anything really. No matter how sick I get and what else happens I will be fine (in Scandinavia hospitals, universities etc. is all free and everyone gets enough money from the state to live well if they can't work). Now - I am doing well and have a good life with many possibilities - I am not a multi-millionaire. Who knows maybe I will become one by my own doing, but I am not regretting for one second that I did not marry my way to a lot of money. To me love is far far more important than that - now I know my ex-boss would shake his head right here, but that is just my oppinion.

???????????? then what is your problem son?

There is a new kind of psychopathic disease spreading around lately which is the newer version of the Asian(SDS): Small D.... Syndrome It's called the (BKS): Big K.. Syndrome, which started to effect white men here

Edited July 25, 2008 by zaza

[Zpete]

Have I really read this garbage?

Must be the sun........

What a dipper, where is he coming from...........<deleted>?

[RakJungTorlae]

It depends. I have worked in management in Indonesia and Singapore. Now I am considering a job offer to come to Thailand for an international company. The boss and owner of the company I worked for in Indonesia (which was the Indonesian part of a joint-venture) always told me that he could not understand why so many westerners would go for poor uneducated girls when they could almost have anyone there. At the time I argued that love (or lust) doesn't really count how much money or education the girl has first. He still shook his head (he is Chinese-Indonesian). Later that year I spent new years with his family and it was nice. They clearly tried to set me up with his wife's younger sister (she was about 22 and I was about 27). I dated her for about a month then I broke up. She looked ok, but she was far too arrogant and superficial for my taste. She could also kick dogs and cats if they came close to her. She and her family was of course tens and tens (maybe hundreds) of times richer than me or my family, but to her I am sure I was like a trophee. She also did like how we were compatable in bed and I have heard her brag about our sexlife to her girlfriends. I have also dated a couple of other goodlooking uptown girls and I am sure that Asian girls in general really find westerners very attractive both to look at and in bed as well for that matter.

On the other side I have heard several western guys complain that Thai girls are only after their money. This is without exception guys that by a western standard would be called old or ugly. I have heard the same from a few Indonesians and Thais (on forums like this). In general it seems that these male Thais are very jaloux and it eases their pain (that westerners run with 'their' girls) if they can believe it is only for their money.

After many years in Asia and dating quite a few girls (at least half of which have had far more money than myself) I have come to the conclusion that different guys have different experiences. If you look ok for western standards then girls in Asia will generally find you even more attractive. Partly because you will be more masculine, assertive and exotic than most asian males. If on the other hand if you are not very attractive in a western society (because you are drinking, uneducated, socially clumsy, unfit and fat etc.) then you may be a bit less unattractive to many Asian girls, but your money will begin to play a role and as you get less and less attractive the range of girls that will be interested will be smaller and those girls will generally be poorer and after you for your money.

Therefore: Different western guys will have different perceptions of how Asian girls look at them.

<deleted>..

no matter witch nationally girl your with. Once she senses im in the room she will be leaving with me.

[RakJungTorlae]

I think you are a total plonker and missed the plot. A hi-so asiatic stunner wants you in the family and you bottle out... multiple times?

Oh well A, welcome to Thailand, pull up a bar stool and I will get you a beer and try and point out how to tell which of the lo-so girls you are doomed to circulate with are not after your wallet.

Hmm... OK, I will be honest and admit that I have on occasion toyed with the idea of all the things I could have done if I had gotten married to one of these girls. On the other hand, I don't think I would have been happy although having several fancy cars and the possibility to lead an international jet-set life with multi-million dollar deals (I did that anyway - just not with my own money) would be soften the blow.

These are only moments of speculation, but overall I am in no way regretting my decisions. Not at all. I come from an egalitarian society (Scandinavia - although I currently live in Australia) and I know that I will never lack anything really. No matter how sick I get and what else happens I will be fine (in Scandinavia hospitals, universities etc. is all free and everyone gets enough money from the state to live well if they can't work). Now - I am doing well and have a good life with many possibilities - I am not a multi-millionaire. Who knows maybe I will become one by my own doing, but I am not regretting for one second that I did not marry my way to a lot of money. To me love is far far more important than that - now I know my ex-boss would shake his head right here, but that is just my oppinion.

???????????? then what is your problem son?

There is a new kind of psychopathic disease spreading around lately which is the newer version of the Asian(SDS): Small D.... Syndrome It's called the (BKS): Big K.. Syndrome, which started to effect white men here

But whats the (K) stand for

[RakJungTorlae]

I think you are a total plonker and missed the plot. A hi-so asiatic stunner wants you in the family and you bottle out... multiple times?

Oh well A, welcome to Thailand, pull up a bar stool and I will get you a beer and try and point out how to tell which of the lo-so girls you are doomed to circulate with are not after your wallet.

Hmm... OK, I will be honest and admit that I have on occasion toyed with the idea of all the things I could have done if I had gotten married to one of these girls. On the other hand, I don't think I would have been happy although having several fancy cars and the possibility to lead an international jet-set life with multi-million dollar deals (I did that anyway - just not with my own money) would be soften the blow.

These are only moments of speculation, but overall I am in no way regretting my decisions. Not at all. I come from an egalitarian society (Scandinavia - although I currently live in Australia) and I know that I will never lack anything really. No matter how sick I get and what else happens I will be fine (in Scandinavia hospitals, universities etc. is all free and everyone gets enough money from the state to live well if they can't work). Now - I am doing well and have a good life with many possibilities - I am not a multi-millionaire. Who knows maybe I will become one by my own doing, but I am not regretting for one second that I did not marry my way to a lot of money. To me love is far far more important than that - now I know my ex-boss would shake his head right here, but that is just my oppinion.

Edit: Two more things... 1. This is also a response to GuestHouse. 2. Hmm.. reading your (Nanlaew) post again it seems you think that the trouble now is that it is much harder to figure out who is after the money and who is after love among lo-so girls. Hmm... yes, you may be right there. Then what do you suggest? I was not really in love with the hi-so girls - at least not after getting to know them better. I can see this point and yes I think this is a real problem with not only going after hi-so girls, but I don't see a solution that will just fix that. I am also not saying that I am not interested in a hi-so girl - hi-so is just far from enough for me. I would rather have real love-based relationship with a lo-so girl that a superficial, money-focused etc. relationship with a hi-so, but the best of both world's would be the best I guess - I just haven't found that yet.

This is a wind up ………..100%

[NanLaew]

Nope. I reckon A has the right balance. Seek power and challenges that you can handle in the work place but don't set the bar so high in personal and private matters. If you work in a high-risk, high-dollar sort of job, what would you want to come home to at night? More high-profile, high-society decisions and challenges or just curl up on the sofa with someone who accepts you for what you really are and not for what your job may portray you to be?

[TheDon]

This has to be the worst thread ever posted.

[tijnebijn]

could even be worse ....

[eek]

..such as having the addition of a poll.

Thank heavens for small mercy's.

[Acomes2Siam]

Why would anyone think that I am winding up with my post? The only reason I can think of is if some other posters experiences have been very different to the ones I describe.

We all have a cirlce of friend and people we know and in my circle of frineds I would say the majority have had the same experiences as me. However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

Perhaps some will think that I am a little too rough and straight forward in this post, but I think it is fair. I have so far been honest and tried to have a debate about how different people have different experiences and a few people have tried to mock it - without having any argument. Just '<deleted>' - no argument. If someone has another experience or believe that all people have a the same experiences (because that would be the only real critique of what I am saying) then come out and argue it instead of these infantile blurbs of "bizarre..", "<deleted>" etc.

To NanLaew: Yes, exactly. Many (I have learned) do not see it like this though - but hey we are all different.

Edited July 26, 2008 by Acomes2Siam

[RakJungTorlae]

Why would anyone think that I am winding up with my post? The only reason I can think of is if some other posters experiences have been very different to the ones I describe.

We all have a cirlce of friend and people we know and in my circle of frineds I would say the majority have had the same experiences as me. However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

Perhaps some will think that I am a little too rough and straight forward in this post, but I think it is fair. I have so far been honest and tried to have a debate about how different people have different experiences and a few people have tried to mock it - without having any argument. Just '<deleted>' - no argument. If someone has another experience or believe that all people have a the same experiences (because that would be the only real critique of what I am saying) then come out and argue it instead of these infantile blurbs of "bizarre..", "<deleted>" etc.

To NanLaew: Yes, exactly. Many (I have learned) do not see it like this though - but hey we are all different.

Then if you are not trying to wind people up, then what do you want to ague about? There are no strong points to ague unless the point is “Acceptance”? You will find more people who are in relationships with someone they really care about and happy on this forum, everybody knows that for the elderly it take capital to handle a women around Asia. Its simple, they don’t want to be lonely.. So be it. Your ass is showing boy. No girl with cash is going to sit next to you.

[Acomes2Siam]

Why would anyone think that I am winding up with my post? The only reason I can think of is if some other posters experiences have been very different to the ones I describe.

We all have a cirlce of friend and people we know and in my circle of frineds I would say the majority have had the same experiences as me. However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

Perhaps some will think that I am a little too rough and straight forward in this post, but I think it is fair. I have so far been honest and tried to have a debate about how different people have different experiences and a few people have tried to mock it - without having any argument. Just '<deleted>' - no argument. If someone has another experience or believe that all people have a the same experiences (because that would be the only real critique of what I am saying) then come out and argue it instead of these infantile blurbs of "bizarre..", "<deleted>" etc.

To NanLaew: Yes, exactly. Many (I have learned) do not see it like this though - but hey we are all different.

Then if you are not trying to wind people up, then what do you want to ague about? There are no strong points to ague unless the point is "Acceptance"? You will find more people who are in relationships with someone they really care about and happy on this forum, everybody knows that for the elderly it take capital to handle a women around Asia. Its simple, they don't want to be lonely.. So be it. Your ass is showing boy. No girl with cash is going to sit next to you.

This topic came from a tread where everyone more or less seemed to agree that Thai girls are after one thing, and one thing only: $.

I was stunned by this as this is not my experience at all. I have been in several relationships with Asian girls who in any way earn more etc. than myself. To me money is just not that imortant. I have a good education and a great job that allows me to work independently and I earn well - however, when it comes to relationships money is not the most important. In fact it is pretty far down the list.

So, the intention of the topic is to widen the debate from this very one-eyed "Thai girls are only after $" to something a bit more nuanced. I don't know what your experiences are RakJung or if you are even a Westerner, but it would be nice to hear your impression and experiences of thai/Asian women too.

PS: I have no idea what this means or why you wrote it: "your ass is showing boy. No woman with cash will sit next to you".

[RakJungTorlae]

Why would anyone think that I am winding up with my post? The only reason I can think of is if some other posters experiences have been very different to the ones I describe.

We all have a cirlce of friend and people we know and in my circle of frineds I would say the majority have had the same experiences as me. However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

Perhaps some will think that I am a little too rough and straight forward in this post, but I think it is fair. I have so far been honest and tried to have a debate about how different people have different experiences and a few people have tried to mock it - without having any argument. Just '<deleted>' - no argument. If someone has another experience or believe that all people have a the same experiences (because that would be the only real critique of what I am saying) then come out and argue it instead of these infantile blurbs of "bizarre..", "<deleted>" etc.

To NanLaew: Yes, exactly. Many (I have learned) do not see it like this though - but hey we are all different.

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Then if you are not trying to wind people up, then what do you want to ague about? There are no strong points to ague unless the point is "Acceptance"? You will find more people who are in relationships with someone they really care about and happy on this forum, everybody knows that for the elderly it take capital to handle a women around Asia. Its simple, they don't want to be lonely.. So be it. Your ass is showing boy. No girl with cash is going to sit next to you.

This topic came from a tread where everyone more or less seemed to agree that Thai girls are after one thing, and one thing only: $.

I was stunned by this as this is not my experience at all. I have been in several relationships with Asian girls who in any way earn more etc. than myself. To me money is just not that imortant. I have a good education and a great job that allows me to work independently and I earn well - however, when it comes to relationships money is not the most important. In fact it is pretty far down the list.

So, the intention of the topic is to widen the debate from this very one-eyed "Thai girls are only after $" to something a bit more nuanced. I don't know what your experiences are RakJung or if you are even a Westerner, but it would be nice to hear your impression and experiences of thai/Asian women too.

PS: I have no idea what this means or why you wrote it: "your ass is showing boy. No woman with cash will sit next to you".

Ok its make more sense now . Well unfortunately there are those that come from poor families do seek out westerner for just profit only. Some can turn out to be a good companion and some unfortunately can leave them hanging out to dry. Now ive only viewed this as 3erd person, but it looks like it has become a trend over the years and will get bigger until people stamp there foot down on the matter. I have seen more successful relationships then messed up ones. Dose not mean there "perfect" but it is not based on financed security. There just happy together and work thou the little challenges life brings there way. And ofcus a lot do end as well for whatever personal reasons.

I have not dated to many Thai girls but mostly Asian girls around. And was never about money at all. I don't even bring the subject up on a date or something and if my family saw me with some girl who had the gold digger look in her eye they would get upset and hit me in the head.

But never forget money has a big part in Thai culture. And sometimes they are misinterpreted as a scam but to the Thais its life. But sometimes they push it a bit to far.

As someone mentioned in this thread. If you have ok looks and personally, you will always be able to meet decent people around. But make sure you smarten your self up.

and about my statement it simple looked like you where tying to show off your ego or troll as many other people thought as well. But since you simplified it for me I can see it's a fair topic.

Edited July 26, 2008 by RakJungTorlae

[NanLaew]

However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

So easy to bugger up a 'sensible' post when you respond with trollish statements like the above. When you have to post repeated explanations of what you are seeking, you tend to lose the interest of most forum members. When you post <deleted> like the above, you pretty much alienate the rest. If you were somehow seeking enlightenment on why a self-proclaimed shining star in the workplace like yourself prefers to slum it socially, I doubt there's anyone here who will care to enlighten you now.

[britmaveric]

^Spot on!

[Acomes2Siam]

However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

So easy to bugger up a 'sensible' post when you respond with trollish statements like the above. When you have to post repeated explanations of what you are seeking, you tend to lose the interest of most forum members. When you post <deleted> like the above, you pretty much alienate the rest. If you were somehow seeking enlightenment on why a self-proclaimed shining star in the workplace like yourself prefers to slum it socially, I doubt there's anyone here who will care to enlighten you now.

You are right NanLeuw. I would also never dream of being so direct as in that quote (or as provocative is another way to put it), but if you notice I tried for several posts to argue nicely and got "bizarre"and other infantile comments in return. Anyone has a limit somewhere. However, in the end you are right and you feel like you do because you caught on to the actual discussion from the beginning so to you my response was unfair - and it was ... in your case.

[Maigo6]

However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

So easy to bugger up a 'sensible' post when you respond with trollish statements like the above. When you have to post repeated explanations of what you are seeking, you tend to lose the interest of most forum members. When you post <deleted> like the above, you pretty much alienate the rest. If you were somehow seeking enlightenment on why a self-proclaimed shining star in the workplace like yourself prefers to slum it socially, I doubt there's anyone here who will care to enlighten you now.

You are right NanLeuw. I would also never dream of being so direct as in that quote (or as provocative is another way to put it), but if you notice I tried for several posts to argue nicely and got "bizarre"and other infantile comments in return. Anyone has a limit somewhere. However, in the end you are right and you feel like you do because you caught on to the actual discussion from the beginning so to you my response was unfair - and it was ... in your case.

A,

Instead of asking a lot of strangers on an anonymous internet forum why certain guys tend to seek out women who you don't find desirable, why not ask them directly next time you see a couple that attracts your attention. Ask the Farang what he is doing with that dark skinned unattractive girl.

Please post the results of your responses here.

[manjara]

Acomes2siam says he's from Scandinavia. I'd lay money that it's Denmark. This is the sort of psuedo-philosophical bullshit they talk all the time over there (by the way, I'm part danish and understanding the language doesn't help at all!)

A's belief will be that, being Danish, obviously all other nationalities women-folk will be clamouring to 'have a piece of him'. After all, who would not want to be danish??

I'm sure he's had several asian ladies be very friendly with him, but I'd be surprised if there weren't several of them that dumped him once they experienced his supercilious arrogance (though almost unconscious to danes themselves).

[Apologies to any danes that are not supercilious and arrogant! yes, both of you...]

[Acomes2Siam]

However, I see the fat old westen guys sitting with a young dark-skinned (and in my oppinion often not very attractive girl (although certainly more attractive than the guy) girl and I am sure money plays a great part there. I am just surprised that this site is so full of this type.

So easy to bugger up a 'sensible' post when you respond with trollish statements like the above. When you have to post repeated explanations of what you are seeking, you tend to lose the interest of most forum members. When you post <deleted> like the above, you pretty much alienate the rest. If you were somehow seeking enlightenment on why a self-proclaimed shining star in the workplace like yourself prefers to slum it socially, I doubt there's anyone here who will care to enlighten you now.

You are right NanLeuw. I would also never dream of being so direct as in that quote (or as provocative is another way to put it), but if you notice I tried for several posts to argue nicely and got "bizarre"and other infantile comments in return. Anyone has a limit somewhere. However, in the end you are right and you feel like you do because you caught on to the actual discussion from the beginning so to you my response was unfair - and it was ... in your case.

A,

Instead of asking a lot of strangers on an anonymous internet forum why certain guys tend to seek out women who you don't find desirable, why not ask them directly next time you see a couple that attracts your attention. Ask the Farang what he is doing with that dark skinned unattractive girl.

Please post the results of your responses here.

I think you have misunderstood. This topic came from a tread where everyone more or less seemed to agree that Thai girls are after one thing, and one thing only: $. I was stunned by this as this is not my experience at all. I have been in several relationships with Asian girls who in any way earn more etc. than myself.

So, the intention of the topic is to widen the debate from this very one-eyed "Thai girls are only after $" to something a bit more nuanced.

Why this would annoy you I have no idea, but perhaps your experiences are different. Even if they are, I think it is important as several farangs and Thais have confirmed, that the black/white idea that "Thai's are only interested in your money" is only part of the truth.

[Acomes2Siam]

Acomes2siam says he's from Scandinavia. I'd lay money that it's Denmark. This is the sort of psuedo-philosophical bullshit they talk all the time over there (by the way, I'm part danish and understanding the language doesn't help at all!)

A's belief will be that, being Danish, obviously all other nationalities women-folk will be clamouring to 'have a piece of him'. After all, who would not want to be danish??

I'm sure he's had several asian ladies be very friendly with him, but I'd be surprised if there weren't several of them that dumped him once they experienced his supercilious arrogance (though almost unconscious to danes themselves).

[Apologies to any danes that are not supercilious and arrogant! yes, both of you...]

"A's belief will be that, being Danish, obviously all other nationalities women-folk will be clamouring to 'have a piece of him'. After all, who would not want to be danish??"

Now this is bizarre. If you are in mind-reading school, you should not quit your day job.

Where have I ever said anything like what you said? I don't think like that and what does nationality have to do with it. People in Scadinavia are as different as anywhere else and being from one country says very little about the individual. Furthermore, this topic has nothing to do with that. You seem to have some unresolved issues that you need to sort out with some Danes, but that has nothing to do with me.

[RakJungTorlae]

Acomes2siam says he's from Scandinavia. I'd lay money that it's Denmark. This is the sort of psuedo-philosophical bullshit they talk all the time over there (by the way, I'm part danish and understanding the language doesn't help at all!)

A's belief will be that, being Danish, obviously all other nationalities women-folk will be clamouring to 'have a piece of him'. After all, who would not want to be danish??

I'm sure he's had several asian ladies be very friendly with him, but I'd be surprised if there weren't several of them that dumped him once they experienced his supercilious arrogance (though almost unconscious to danes themselves).

[Apologies to any danes that are not supercilious and arrogant! yes, both of you...]

"A's belief will be that, being Danish, obviously all other nationalities women-folk will be clamouring to 'have a piece of him'. After all, who would not want to be danish??"

Now this is bizarre. If you are in mind-reading school, you should not quit your day job.

Where have I ever said anything like what you said? I don't think like that and what does nationality have to do with it. People in Scadinavia are as different as anywhere else and being from one country says very little about the individual. Furthermore, this topic has nothing to do with that. You seem to have some unresolved issues that you need to sort out with some Danes, but that has nothing to do with me.

Lay off the caffeine.

[Maigo6]

I think you have misunderstood. This topic came from a tread where everyone more or less seemed to agree that Thai girls are after one thing, and one thing only: $. I was stunned by this as this is not my experience at all. I have been in several relationships with Asian girls who in any way earn more etc. than myself.

Yes mate , you have repeated the same crap time after time....... You are so good looking that rich Asian Hi-So girls are dripping off your muscular arms and you can never understand why a guy would choose to be with anyone that does not fit your spec.

Again I ask you ....

Why don't you ask them in person and post the results here. ( you would never dare I know )

By the way, why do you care so much about other peoples relationships , and would you have the balls to confront a guy that did not conform to your perception of right or wrong, I very much doubt that somehow.

You Sir are a very shallow minded <deleted> that spouts off on an anonymous internet Forum about how successful you are with Asian women, whilst the rest of us make do with the dregs...... do you realize what a <deleted> that makes you appear to be ?

I for one would love to meet you.

I am quite sure that there are many members here that would gladly discuss your views over a few beers, if you can't afford it I'll sponser you, but I won't pay the hospital bills.

[Maigo6]

This guy is priceless, I think the only sex you have ever had in Asia is the wank you had in Jakarta Airport's Toilets.

Edited July 27, 2008 by Maigo6

[Jimjim]

You obviously are very sensitive to this issue Maigo6 and look like much more of a tw** than he. So he's spouting off if he's just telling the truth as he sees it? Hardly. Those that say Thai women only want money are wrong and spend too much time in places like Nana.

Edited July 27, 2008 by Jimjim

[Jimjim]

Yes mate , you have repeated the same crap time after time....... You are so good looking that rich Asian Hi-So girls are dripping off your muscular arms and you can never understand why a guy would choose to be with anyone that does not fit your spec.

I think you're just jealous. He's just giving his experience and opinions. A bit sensitive to the fact that not everyone has to pay for it? Now, I know that's not true but the fact that someone has a different experience than you does not make him stupid and you right, it just means you've had different experiences. Live with it.

I don't know if he's a Dane but who wouldn't want to be? According to the most recent happiness studies they are the most happy people in the world.

[Acomes2Siam]

Yes mate , you have repeated the same crap time after time....... You are so good looking that rich Asian Hi-So girls are dripping off your muscular arms and you can never understand why a guy would choose to be with anyone that does not fit your spec.

I think you're just jealous. He's just giving his experience and opinions. A bit sensitive to the fact that not everyone has to pay for it? Now, I know that's not true but the fact that someone has a different experience than you does not make him stupid and you right, it just means you've had different experiences. Live with it.

I don't know if he's a Dane but who wouldn't want to be? According to the most recent happiness studies they are the most happy people in the world.

You are most likely right about why trying to balance the discussion upset guys like Maigo. And the more I think about it I can see why it may hurt a bit (that reality is not that everyone has to pay for girls and that far from all Thai girls are after Westerners for $). However, (as you of course know) the intention was never to hurt anyone, but rather to balance out this view that "Thai girls are after $, end of story". This, obviously is only part of the story and only the experience of some people. Anyway - the topic was good and we definitely got to see on one hand some TV members that actually think like that and on the other hand several guys that have experienced that Asian girls when it comes to reasons to be with a guy are not so different to girls from most other countries.

[teej]

I don't know if he's a Dane but who wouldn't want to be?

A SWEDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!