i have been here for six years and i have herd that there is a 3rd gernder called a lady boy. has anyone had any experience with this. i have not yet seen one. what are the tell tell signs

Very surprising you haven't come across any ladyboys! They vary but in general we are talking about males who take on the role and behavior and sometimes appearance/dress of females. If a male, says Kah instead of Khrap that is a clue. Most are probably genitally intact, many will have lady breasts. They are easy to tell if they have not gone all the way to gender change. Otherwise, look for the Adam's Apple.

It is not the same meaning as gay, btw.

I am sure it won't be long for this thread to be shut down...... But let's have some fun until it does.....

Big C. There are many in Samui and a lot of them are better looking than the girls.

This thread was never going to last long was it?