If it's good sex, il pay. Just tell me how much. So, how much would a Thai guy cost? US dollars please. hehehe LOL jk

ps: He better be good-looking.

I love sex, and if that is the reason why i rented him, there will be no emotions envolved. U gotta be stronged will sometimes.

Sandy, did you smoke? And I'm not talking about cigarettes,...

Sandy, did you smoke? And I'm not talking about cigarettes,...

You've been a very very very bad cat, Brue. I think you need to be punished.

Sandy, did you smoke? And I'm not talking about cigarettes,...

You've been a very very very bad cat, Brue. I think you need to be punished.

I was meaning smoking pot, LovelyNaughty,....

There's plenty of Swedish girls around, some fit the Anglo-construed stereotype myth mentioned here, most don't... Those who do make themselves noticed though.

I can't be bothered explaining the origin of this misconception, but looking into the history of cinematic censorship in the West will give you the first clues.

In fact, Sweden is no more sexually liberal than the rest of North western, non-Catholic Europe... Go there and see for yourselves. I left.

LOS is a lot more fun.

There's plenty of Swedish girls around, some fit the Anglo-construed stereotype myth mentioned here, most don't... Those who do make themselves noticed though.

....

In fact, Sweden is no more sexually liberal than the rest of North western, non-Catholic Europe...

I don't know about Swedish girls but I met a few Danish girls in Singapore and I found them to be pretty liberal.

But in Jordan, I found the Saoudian girls to be pretty liberal also.

What's my point?

Maybe Scandinavian girls are the same than the Saoudian girls, bored to death in their home countries,...

Maybe Scandinavian girls are the same than the Saoudian girls, bored to death in their home countries,...

Just like the Scandinavian boys... and you English and Germans and French and Belgians and whoever...

My point is: "I'm on holiday/in a foreign country, nobody knows me here - so why not?!?"

Also, generally speaking, single travellers who don't go with hookers will be starved for sex at some point of their travels, and if you happen to be in their way - brace yourself, cause it's gonna be one he lluva ride.

I have to say my experience of Danish girls is also very, very positive.

I was meaning smoking pot, LovelyNaughty,....

Oh.. Right. I'm sorry, Brue. You see, it has been a while...

My point is: "I'm on holiday/in a foreign country, nobody knows me here - so why not?!?"

EXACTLY!!! Oh yeah, same thing i would be doing. Man I need a vacation with the girls only or just by myself.

If it's good sex, il pay. Just tell me how much. So, how much would a Thai guy cost? US dollars please. hehehe LOL  jk

ps: He better be good-looking.

I love sex, and if that is the reason why i rented him, there will be no emotions envolved. U gotta be stronged will sometimes. 

If you can pay for him and rent him, can I just borrow him,please?

Hey "sharing is caring" But how about we go half on him @ e-san

Hey "sharing is caring" But how about we go half on him @ e-san

Please, Sandy, when are you back to BKK?

I'll do it for a very, very small fee,...Of course, if you do not smoke anymore,...

My point is: "I'm on holiday/in a foreign country, nobody knows me here - so why not?!?"

EXACTLY!!! Oh yeah, same thing i would be doing. Man I need a vacation with the girls only or just by myself.

Sandy, I need vacation too .

Anytime

Met a very nice english lady in jomtien who had a long term thai boyfriend who she was very happy with. most of the comments made above applied to her and he certainly was not living at her expense however, one interesting aspect she mentioned was that when he went out with his thai friends in Jomtien they expected him to pick up the tab as he had a farang woman. same when he went home to his village, he was expected to foot the bill.

Hi biggles, welcome to the forum, hope your enjoying it so far.

It's true what you say about friends & family & something not mentioned yet on this thread. Unfortunatly, you can have a thai b/f, husband, wife, g/friend, who DOESN'T expect you to be a walking atm but THEIR friends & family, well that can be another story & something that probably most farang in a relationship with a thai have had to deal with at some point or another.

Come on girls & guys, any thoughts or comments, biggles has raised a really good observation, maybe we start another thread called, "you've found a good one but how to deal with the unreasonable demands of your thai partners family & friends:

Hi biggles, welcome to the forum, hope your enjoying it so far.

It's true what you say about friends & family & something not mentioned yet on this thread. Unfortunatly, you can have a thai b/f, husband, wife, g/friend, who DOESN'T expect you to be a walking atm but THEIR friends & family, well that can be another story & something that probably most farang in a relationship with a thai have had to deal with at some point or another.

Come on girls & guys, any thoughts or comments, biggles has raised a really good observation, maybe we start another thread called, "you've found a good one but how to deal with the unreasonable demands of your thai partners family & friends:

Good one Boo, you could probably just have an entire topic on that one!

Fortunately for me we haven't had too much of that from immediate family. The extended family, now that is another story. Add in all the cousins, second cousins, aunts, uncles, great-aunts & uncles, third cousins twice removed, their kids, their in-laws and it adds up after awhile. I had a friend who lived here but her husband came from somewhere else, boy did she have it easy! I love the support you can get from the ten gazillion relatives but sometimes the interference/demands for "loans" etc can be a bit too much as well.

I know Kho Samui and Kho PiPi is one "hot" place to book a Thai boyfriend and I have seen a few farang girls engage in "bargainings" with local Thais for a few nights of love. Nothing wrong with that.

My questions is: do any of you girls have had experience with those type of Thai guys ? if so, how much was it ? did you enjoy it ? would you do it again ?

Finally, the long-awaited answers

BRIT GIRLS WHO PAY THAIS FOR NO-STRINGS SEX

Mirror - Aug 16 2004

By Hannah Duguid

The teenage woman takes a long look at the menu. She makes her choice and the waiter disappears to fetch her order. He returns with a fit, beautiful, young man.

Ruth Evans is 19 and from Manchester. She is in a male brothel in Thai capital Bangkok - and has just ordered a prostitute for the evening.

She will buy him drinks, they will chat and dance. Later, if she wants, she can pay him ฃ22 (1,600 baht in the local currency) to go back to her hotel and have sex with her.

"It's a real power trip," says Ruth. "A lot of girls come out here looking for sex with a Thai man. This is safer than going round the bars and picking one up."

There are some 20 British girls - mostly students - in the brothel tonight, toying with the idea of paying a man for sex.

"It's something different. All the blokes pay for it so why can't we?" says Carly Purdy, 23, from Hemel Hempstead, Herts.

The sex workers are tested for HIV every four or five weeks. If they do not turn up for work then it means they have had a positive result. Each bar has one or two cases each month.

In other brothels, men wear hotpants with a number badge. Here they wear suits, which makes the place feel less sleazy. The guys move around the bar flirting with the girls and checking they have everything they want. Every hour there is a floor show where they take their shirts off and get up on stage to dance.

They all have perfect, lean bodies.

Charlie Barndon, 23, from Newcastle, says: "It's guaranteed good sex with no strings."

Ruth buys her bloke a drink and asks him to kiss her. A two-minute snog costs her 70p (50 baht).

Louise Fordham, a 31-year-old from Southend, and Gillian Kitrick, 50, from London, are seasoned sex tourists. They both teach English in Bangkok and regularly haunt the boy bars.

Gillian says: "I'd been in Bangkok for a week or so when a waiter approached me and asked me if I wanted to take him home. He was 22 years old and absolutely beautiful.

"He came with me and I paid for him for four days. It's a nice safe business transaction. I know plenty of women here who get bored and horny - so they buy a boy for the night."

When women find a prostitute they like, they tend to keep him on for a while.

Gillian is with Tong. He's a 31-year-old from a remote Thai village who she met in Throb - a bar in Boyz Town, Pattaya. The area is a resort two hours south of Bangkok, notorious for its sex bars.

Every night Tong strips to a gold G-string and performs a synchronised swimming show in a huge fish tank in the bar. Like all the males on offer, his body is in perfect shape.

He is for sale to men and women. Most clients are gay men and 80 per cent of the working boys are straight. They get very excited when a woman comes in looking for trade.

Gillian explains: "If you like a boy then you make eye contact with him. They won't approach you first. If you want to leave the bar with them you have to pay the bar a fine to make up for their absence."

The bar fine in Throb is ฃ4 and sex with a guy like Tong will set you back ฃ7 - 500 baht - for a quick one or ฃ14 for the night. Gillian has been with Tong for a year. They meet every weekend and when they go out she pays for everything.

She says: "I don't mind giving him money. I earn ten times his salary. Although it's not just about money for him. Being seen with a Western woman is good for his status.

"I like being with him because he's so affectionate. He's young and fun. He makes me feel attractive and sexy.

"He has a beautiful body. When we're in bed he's hungry for me. We've had sex five times in one morning before. It makes me feel good.

"He doesn't speak much English but I don't need him for intellectual conversation. I have friends who I can have meaningful conversations with."

All the boys are looking for a regular arrangement with a foreign woman. Pip Johnson, 35, and her husband Jimmy, 43, are also in Throb. She is an attractive blonde and has her arm around a good-looking young Thai man. A stunning Thai girl is draped over Jimmy.

Pip and Jimmy cruiseThey have been to

At Christmas, they will be coming back for two months. They leave their two teenage sons, from Jimmy's first marriage, at home with their grandparents.

At home they have anPip says: "For 10 years I paid for sex with girls out here. But last year I wanted a change so I tried buying a boy. When I told the bar what I wanted, I was mobbed. I took one boy and kept him for two weeks. This holiday I've had the same boy, Nik.

"He's 27 and I'll keep him for the holiday. I pay him at the end. I'll give him a huge tip. It's 1,000 baht a night but I'll give him 2,000. When I paid the last boy he was so grateful he cried.

"The men here are more pliable than English men. They're athletic and will do anything.

"Nik makes sure that I have three orgasms before he comes.

"He'll always do whatever I want. I'm totally in control. There's no complaining or whingeing.

"Nik has a perfect body and he treats me like a queen.

"In Thailand, prostitutes know how to make you feel like you're worth something. They're so attentive. I'll go out for dinner with Nik and he's always got an eye on me making sure that I'm okay. It's more than sex. It's about getting to know him as a person - although I don't have a strong emotional attachment to him. I could leave him tomorrow."

Jimmy and Pip rent a two-bedroom apartment. One for Jimmy and his prostitute and one for Pip and her boy. They used to have sex with their different partners together in the same bedroom but the local girls were uncomfortable having intercourse in front of a Thai man. In the flat, Nik is shy with Jimmy and only speaks when he is spoken to.

Jimmy says: "When I first saw Pip with another man, I had a problem with it. I didn't mind seeing her with girls but with a man I felt threatened and jealous.

"I had to get over it though - otherwise I'd have looked like a right hypocrite."

Pip claims: "Doing this has made our relationship stronger.

"Jimmy and I have been married for five years but I was his mistress for six years before he left his first wife.

"He's always been a womanizer and this way I know what's going on.

"There are no secrets and we have plenty to laugh about and spice up our sex life when we get home. No one at home knows.

"A few years ago people found out that we'd picked up girls in Thailand and there was a real scandal. Jimmy's mates were okay with it but I lost a few girlfriends.

"We know other couples who come out here and pay for sex. One pair came out with their 26-year-old son.

"Most couples get a girl between them. The husbands can't handle it if their wife wants to buy a man."

Kevin Quill is the British owner of Throb. He says: "I see more and more women coming in looking for sex.

"Two or three a month take a boy home. It's mainly older women who pay for it but younger women are into it too.

"It's not out of desperation - some of them are really attractive. They just want to experience something different.

"These boys know exactly what a woman wants and the women get a kick out of paying for it."

Interesting article, Nat

Wow...the couple mentioned in the article_Jimmy and Pip......talk about being 'open-minded' !!!

Also, I have found it very interesting that 80 percent of the guys working in that Throb bar (which the article states that it serves mainly gay men) are straight. I wonder how accepting their wives/girlfriends have been. But then again, I believe that most of those guys must be actually bisexual. It is funny that a lot of people (even many in the media) often forget or ignore the fact that there are also bisexuals in the world_not just heterosexuals and homosexuals; and I believe that most of us human beings have some degree of bisexuality in us.

Hey, Nat, maybe you will now cause some of the female forum readers here to want to try that Throb place !

Cheers.

Jem

Hey, Nat, maybe you will now cause some of the female forum readers here to want to try that Throb place

You never know jem jem, although why they would pay for it is beyond me, closing time at green mangoe on samui & they could get it for free.

Seriously though, I have seen a few couples who look a bit suspect, very young Bangkok looking thai guys (clean cut, short hair, student looking) with older western women & have to admit that I've wondered if there was money changing hands. But whatever rocks your boat & all that. After all the exchange rate is so strong these women are practially getting it for free anyway

girls,don t pay for Thai guys..you can get them for free anyway...

There is no way I would ever pay for a man. Maybe if I was 80 and crotchety, but I plan to stay flexible and in shape so I can bag a cute spritely 70 year old at that point.

The biggest problem I've had about "paying" for men here is when I spring for the bill once in a while to take the pressure off of them having to pay all the time and then they behave as if I am supposed to pay all the time afterwards.

Woman won't admit to paying for sex its the same the world over. In the UK just buy the pissed up ones a drink at 2am and then she will do anyone.

A lot of men on here think thai girls are cheap a bottle of VK costs around £1.50 bet you cant get a shag for that in Thailand.

OK most of the drunken woman in the UK are not as nice looking or body not as nice as Thai girls but as the old saying goes they all look the same in the dark lying down

Yeah, and I'm sure you pay a helluva a lot for your shags.

There is no way I would ever pay for a man.

When I was sixteen years old I took up with a woman named Pornthip who was twice my age. She was a former prostitute who had landed on her feet and was mamasan of ten or twelve high class working girls. It wasn't a sex pickup ... someone introduced us because she spoke very good English (rare in those days) and we kinda hit it off.

I stayed at her home, ate her food, she bought me clothes and took me out, etc. I had plenty of money, but she got angry if I offered to pay for meals or drinks.

I guess you could say she "paid" me ... but it wasn't really like that.

 

The biggest problem I've had about "paying" for men here is when I spring for the bill once in a while to take the pressure off of them having to pay all the time and then they behave as if I am supposed to pay all the time afterwards.

Seems like you have a "problem" with men acting like women.

Welcome to the other side of the street.

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I saw a very strange sight not too long back when I was out having a drink or two with some teaching buddies at a "reputable" gay bar on Soi 4.

Three young, queeny gay guys (one of whom had been a long time waiter before at the same bar, though that's been a year or so) were drinking at a table with a middle-aged farang man and lady- neither was all that fit, let's say. The two didn't LOOK married. The LADY took out two "reserve bottle" cards for the bar (this is a GAY bar, remember) and shortly thereafter a nice bottle of rum and whisky were sitting on the table, shared with the bored and somewhat uncomfortable-looking young Thai guys.

I've heard of odd scenarios, but that one stretched me a bit!

"Steven"