Why Us Farang Fall For Those Beautiful Thai Woman?

[abdulrahman]

There are cases when old and nice farangs who do not drink excessively and shower on a regular basis find nice and caring Thai women who are maybe in their 30s or 40s and both of them enjoy living together for their mutual benefit. I'm happy for them. These cases might be rare I admit but they do exist.

Primitive and bitter alcoholics who look for young girls to satisfy their unmet needs are more common of course.

Not so rare,I have some friends that are exactly this kind of people,men and women both.

By the way,my beautiful Thai wife is turning 50 this year!

[Marmelad]

First of all, the ones that are attracted to Asian women/men are those who live/have long term work contract in Asia. If they were not attracted to Asians, why would they choose to be here? that means we are talking only about that precentage of people. In fact I know many men who are not attracted to Asians at all and actually exactly the opposite... In my opinion, those that are attracted to Asians (especially if they are men) often have low self esteem, are shy or not very good looking, or have any other difficulty to meet Western women and because Asian women (Thai especially) are not that choosy, treat their man with high respect, these guys are of course attracted to them. Also the looks are important: Asian women tend to have little bodies, very feminine and often look like little girls, which again for shy, not very experienced (in bed as well as in other aspects of life) men is very appealing. Western woman, who's body is more developed (as well as her intellectual side) appears somewhat frightening to these men, as they are not sure they can please her so easily, therefore they would prefer Asian woman. this is just my opinion...

So, he left you for a bar girl, I take it.

Upps, sorry, did I offend you with my post?

[Birdman]

First of all, the ones that are attracted to Asian women/men are those who live/have long term work contract in Asia. If they were not attracted to Asians, why would they choose to be here? that means we are talking only about that precentage of people. In fact I know many men who are not attracted to Asians at all and actually exactly the opposite... In my opinion, those that are attracted to Asians (especially if they are men) often have low self esteem, are shy or not very good looking, or have any other difficulty to meet Western women and because Asian women (Thai especially) are not that choosy, treat their man with high respect, these guys are of course attracted to them. Also the looks are important: Asian women tend to have little bodies, very feminine and often look like little girls, which again for shy, not very experienced (in bed as well as in other aspects of life) men is very appealing. Western woman, who's body is more developed (as well as her intellectual side) appears somewhat frightening to these men, as they are not sure they can please her so easily, therefore they would prefer Asian woman. this is just my opinion...

So, he left you for a bar girl, I take it.

Upps, sorry, did I offend you with my post?

don't be sorry, Tony is the trash here, something looking for his not fulfilled insufficiencies .

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

[Birdman]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

and you are??

where have you been??

what countries??

In Europe?? In Africa?? In South America....???

Edited April 30, 2009 by Birdman

[freitag1]

Western woman, who's body is more developed (as well as her intellectual side) appears somewhat frightening to these men, as they are not sure they can please her so easily, therefore they would prefer Asian woman. this is just my opinion...

Generalization over generalization... but good to see besides bitter men we also have bitter women here

[freitag1]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

This is a bit too harsh (besides you generalize as well which is pretty uncool) but I absolutely agree that my current girlfriend is way easier to be with than all the girls I have been with back in Europe. That's not because of money (she makes more than I do, owns a company) but it is because of the way she was raised. She believes in lots of great values because of the Bhuddist philosophy she grew up with.

She is also smart, studied and graduated in London while working on the side in a Thai restaurant as chef to finance this. She built up her company on her own after her studies. She likes to take care of me, the house, the garden and has been a great support for me through several times when I faced some problems.

It does help that she is gorgeous but my girlfriends back home were good looking too (and so were my casual fuc_king friends). Of course its easier to find a 10 here, because according to our western beauty ideal there are just more better looking women. But at the end of the day to become truly happy other things matter so much more and beauty fades with time while a good character and heart stays.

Would I choose a Thai girl again if I would break up with my current girlfriend? Of course! Some basic values here are just so much better than what most western women have. Why should I choose a less caring woman that puts her own interests first if I can be with such a lovely person here who actually enjoys being lead in a relationship.

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

and you are??

MSingh

where have you been??

When, tonight/today/yesterday & with regards to what ??

what countries??

Do you want to add more words, explaining your question, at the end of the question or at the start ??

In Europe?? In Africa?? In South America....???

See above ..

& again, out of curiosity, what relevence do your questions have to the Post of mine that you quoted as i'm struggling to see any i'm afraid but i'd like to answer you the best i can, honestly ??

Are you stalking me ??

If not, please explain & describe your questions a little more as i'd love to answer them as my current answers above are not, i doubt, what you're looking for ??

Edited April 30, 2009 by MSingh

[Birdman]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

and you are??

MSingh

where have you been??

When, tonight/today/yesterday & with regards to what ??

what countries??

Do you want to add more words, explaining your question, at the end of the question or at the start ??

In Europe?? In Africa?? In South America....???

See above ..

& again, out of curiosity, what relevence do your questions have to the Post of mine that you quoted as i'm struggling to see any i'm afraid but i'd like to answer you the best i can, honestly ??

Are you stalking me ??

If not, please explain & describe your questions a little more as i'd love to answer them as my current answers above are not, i doubt, what you're looking for ??

no

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

and you are??

MSingh

where have you been??

When, tonight/today/yesterday & with regards to what ??

what countries??

Do you want to add more words, explaining your question, at the end of the question or at the start ??

In Europe?? In Africa?? In South America....???

See above ..

& again, out of curiosity, what relevence do your questions have to the Post of mine that you quoted as i'm struggling to see any i'm afraid but i'd like to answer you the best i can, honestly ??

Are you stalking me ??

If not, please explain & describe your questions a little more as i'd love to answer them as my current answers above are not, i doubt, what you're looking for ??

no

What answer is that to as i asked you 5 questions ??

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

This is a bit too harsh (besides you generalize as well which is pretty uncool)

Well i'm not sure what part of " In my opinion " that i wrote that you didn't understand but whether cool or not, the shere fact of the matter is that many, many, many Western Men come here looking for Love & Sex for all different reasons..

Not all of course but many, many many do..

Within those Men you'll have Sex Addicts & Men that can't socialise with Women, & sometimes Men of their own Race IE Social Misfits, amongst other things..

They find an " out " in Thailand, a place where they can be accepted, unlike Home, & they like it & stay..

These are not generalizations, they're facts & you can see them all over this Country every day & every night..

I only have to go into my local Tesco Lotus on a Saturday afternoon here on Samui & i can see them by the dozen, hundred even...

[jfchandler]

Sex Addicts & Men that can't socialise with Women, & sometimes Men of their own Race IE Social Misfits, amongst other things

I didn't know Tesco Lotus was stocking those kinds of items these days... How's the market for those in Samui??? Did you sign up for the buy two for the price of one offer they often have???

[Abrak]

Well I remember that me and a one of my best mates went away to pattaya with two of our giks (rather than a regular girlfriend). We rented a villa with a couple of bedrooms and a private pool. We went out to dinner and cllubbing and returned back to our villa at 2.00am.

Now the girls had prepared candles round the pool and dressed up as angels (bikini bottoms wings etc) - I just dont think that sort of thing happens from your regular girl non-thai girl. In neither case were they paid (although we paid the expenses) and in both cases they thanked us for having one of the best times in their lives.

About a year later I got an email from the girl saying it is was perhaps the best experience of her life. And at the end of the day all we had done was be there.

When girls can act like that it is hardly surprising that we fall them. Unofrtunately she turned out to be a psycho bitch but that is another story......

[teacup]

Isn't Kazakhstan part of Asia too?......Well that makes their women......asian women too..

HOT women ..yeah

the one's in pattaya aren't

The one on tv back home are

haha...a frequent visitor of Pattaya...huh, james?

Nice try teacup, if you think I am gonna waste my 5000 post on replying to you - well you can just forget about it.

Ouch!!!….LOL

Ok enjoy the rest of your remaining light yrs in peace then, U r dismissed

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Oh btw…U know the old saying…..what weakens people most is fear of wasting their time and strength.

[sbk]

Posts have been deleted. This will not degenerate into a slagging off of western women, thai women or anyone else for that matter.

A reminder of the forum rules:

7) Not to post slurs or degrading comments directed towards any group on the basis of race, nationality, religion, gender or sexual orientation.

[teacup]

R U taking to me, SBK?

If it's so, .....

Well I didn't start it first, just merely finishing it..........still no slurring tho

Edit:

ahh...I see you have been deleted some posts,......guess it's not ME then

nevermind

Edited April 30, 2009 by teacup

[marsteele]

Because they call you handsome?

yep and they know how to play you make you feel special for a few baht. Well a lot of baht. Thai women think farang men are stupid and a lot of them are. A smile, a few sweet words and they reel you in caught hook, line and sinker thank you please empty your wallet here I have to bait my line again the fishing is good.

[MSingh]

Well I remember that me and a one of my best mates went away to pattaya with two of our giks (rather than a regular girlfriend). We rented a villa with a couple of bedrooms and a private pool. We went out to dinner and cllubbing and returned back to our villa at 2.00am.

Now the girls had prepared candles round the pool and dressed up as angels (bikini bottoms wings etc) - I just dont think that sort of thing happens from your regular girl non-thai girl. In neither case were they paid (although we paid the expenses) and in both cases they thanked us for having one of the best times in their lives.

About a year later I got an email from the girl saying it is was perhaps the best experience of her life. And at the end of the day all we had done was be there.

When girls can act like that it is hardly surprising that we fall them. Unofrtunately she turned out to be a psycho bitch but that is another story......

David Brent...

No disrespect a completely honest question here but if you didn't pay them, what did they do that for then if you don't mind me asking & are you insinuating you don't pay your " Giks " because if you are you'd be a liar ???

[njpski]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

John Lennon - Yoko Ono = Lennon chose a woman who happened to be Asian

Similarly, most of the guys here have found a woman who is loving and caring who just happens to be Thai.

I was married for twenty years to an Australian woman so I have had a significant relationship with a person from my own country.

By the way, "one of their own" is totally inappropriate for so many countries now because of the multi-cultural nature of those countries. My Australian wife on a number of levels was not "one of my own", one she was female, I am male, two, she was protestant, i was catholic, three she disliked the beach, I love it, and fourth & most importantly of all, she didn't like my football team.

We prodeuced two lovely children and still keep in touch 12 years after divorce.

If you want a country without social misfits in great profusion, good luck in your search!

[TonySoprano]

and in both cases they thanked us for having one of the best times in their lives.

[MSingh]

and in both cases they thanked us for having one of the best times in their lives.

That's the bit that got me...

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

John Lennon - Yoko Ono = Lennon chose a woman who happened to be Asian

Similarly, most of the guys here have found a woman who is loving and caring who just happens to be Thai.

I was married for twenty years to an Australian woman so I have had a significant relationship with a person from my own country.

By the way, "one of their own" is totally inappropriate for so many countries now because of the multi-cultural nature of those countries. My Australian wife on a number of levels was not "one of my own", one she was female, I am male, two, she was protestant, i was catholic, three she disliked the beach, I love it, and fourth & most importantly of all, she didn't like my football team.

We prodeuced two lovely children and still keep in touch 12 years after divorce.

If you want a country without social misfits in great profusion, good luck in your search!

I don't need to search Fella, i'm in it & although i respect your opinion, i'm completely at ease in the validity of mine & think i'm right & i'm pretty sure anyone with half a Brain, if they're honest with themselves...

[njpski]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

John Lennon - Yoko Ono = Lennon chose a woman who happened to be Asian

Similarly, most of the guys here have found a woman who is loving and caring who just happens to be Thai.

I was married for twenty years to an Australian woman so I have had a significant relationship with a person from my own country.

By the way, "one of their own" is totally inappropriate for so many countries now because of the multi-cultural nature of those countries. My Australian wife on a number of levels was not "one of my own", one she was female, I am male, two, she was protestant, i was catholic, three she disliked the beach, I love it, and fourth & most importantly of all, she didn't like my football team.

We prodeuced two lovely children and still keep in touch 12 years after divorce.

If you want a country without social misfits in great profusion, good luck in your search!

I don't need to search Fella, i'm in it & although i respect your opinion, i'm completely at ease in the validity of mine & think i'm right & i'm pretty sure anyone with half a Brain, if they're honest with themselves...

Where is "it"?

And that would be the trouble, only people with half would agree - people with a complete brain will of course agree with me.

[sanook2me]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

You've never been to Brighton then !

You opinion is based on your experiences and looks like you are living in a touristy long stay area, well if you go to any touristy seaside town you will find a lot of misfits and foreigners.

I don't live in a touristy area and the farangs who live near me all work or are retired and have very normal lives with functioning relationships.

Get out in the suburbs and discover normal life....

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

John Lennon - Yoko Ono = Lennon chose a woman who happened to be Asian

Similarly, most of the guys here have found a woman who is loving and caring who just happens to be Thai.

I was married for twenty years to an Australian woman so I have had a significant relationship with a person from my own country.

By the way, "one of their own" is totally inappropriate for so many countries now because of the multi-cultural nature of those countries. My Australian wife on a number of levels was not "one of my own", one she was female, I am male, two, she was protestant, i was catholic, three she disliked the beach, I love it, and fourth & most importantly of all, she didn't like my football team.

We prodeuced two lovely children and still keep in touch 12 years after divorce.

If you want a country without social misfits in great profusion, good luck in your search!

I don't need to search Fella, i'm in it & although i respect your opinion, i'm completely at ease in the validity of mine & think i'm right & i'm pretty sure anyone with half a Brain, if they're honest with themselves...

Where is "it"?

And that would be the trouble, only people with half would agree - people with a complete brain will of course agree with me.

In your opinion they would agree with you..

" It " is of course, Thailand...

[BigSnake]

Hey, a no brainer, they look good, smell good and don't ask for or complain about much, (AT First) but oh my god a few months down the road OVER TO Y'ALL

[MSingh]

In my opinon, it's because a lot of the ( Men anyway ) European/Farang or whatever you want to call them couldn't possibly function in a relationship with " one of their own "..

I have never encountered a Country in my Life with so many Social Misfits in such a small proximity as this Country has, of Foreigners !!!

You've never been to Brighton then !

You opinion is based on your experiences and looks like you are living in a touristy long stay area, well if you go to any touristy seaside town you will find a lot of misfits and foreigners.

I don't live in a touristy area and the farangs who live near me all work or are retired and have very normal lives with functioning relationships.

Get out in the suburbs and discover normal life....

Good point but SURELY you can't argue, with the points i made previously ( not sure if it was this thread or not, i'll look & let you know ) about Men coming here " Looking for love " for whatever reasons, there ARE more Social Misfit Foreigners here than there are in other Countries because of that ??

I live on Samui & you're right, i see more of them than probably you would unfortunately but life's all about majority & minorities & that is why i see more here than you do where you are..

Just a quickie, do you believe those Franags near you have " functional " Relationships with Thai's, honestly, in your heart of hearts ??

I sure am getting more synical in my old age, i know that, but......................There is an element of truth in what i'm saying if people are honest with themselves.

[Birdman]

Good point but SURELY you can't argue, with the points i made previously ( not sure if it was this thread or not, i'll look & let you know ) about Men coming here " Looking for love " for whatever reasons, there ARE more Social Misfit Foreigners here than there are in other Countries because of that ??

I live on Samui & you're right, i see more of them than probably you would unfortunately but life's all about majority & minorities & that is why i see more here than you do where you are..

Just a quickie, do you believe those Franags near you have " functional " Relationships with Thai's, honestly, in your heart of hearts ??

I sure am getting more synical in my old age, i know that, but......................There is an element of truth in what i'm saying if people are honest with themselves.

Closer than the relationship between Thais and Farangs in Farang country. Even closer than the relationship between Thais and the Indian community, although they are Thai nationals.

[bkkdawg]

It has been my observation that many men "fall" for the Thai women that are the most child-like in appearance and demeanor. Creepy, really.

I'm guessing you are a farang woman in LOS, am i right ??? I think you are jealous just because you arn't getting any attention anymore.... time to go home me thinks

[bkkdawg]

I think the title says it all; 'Those Beautiful Thai Woman',

I have always liked Asian girls, however there wern't too many in Lincolnshire where i grew up. So here I am ' living the dream' lol