cheezel09 Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 I am a Thai woman at age of early 30. I wonder where or how could I meet a nice European man to date with. I have been working for the multinational company but all white men here already have their partners and some also have "Gigs", and I am not interested in finding a man in the same work place. I realize that my lifestyle doesn't allow me to meet many white men. I rarely go out at night 'coz I don't like loud music in the pubs / clubs and I don't smoke or drink alcohol. I am not into fashion trend so the shopping mall is not the place for me. I do sport sometimes but I am not the fitness member. I am just the member of sport center at the park near my home. I do try the online dating and I see that the men are butterfly (Chao-Chu). They date many women and some expect for high-so sexy chicks, but I am kind of simple and nerdy. And I am fed up with lot of contacts from men at age 50's 'coz I am not looking for a sugardaddy. I use to have relationship with the guy I met during travel but that is not last long because eventually he must return home and the long distance is the issue. So with my lifestyle anybody could give me a suggestion / idea where I can meet a nice & sincere European man around my age for a long term relationship. . My look, education and English skill is ok level. My personality is not very outgoing but I don't mind to make a new friend as long as I feel comfortable with. If somebody question me why I don't date a Thai man, I have my own reason and this doesn't mean Thai man is not good. However my father, brother and friends are Thai Thanks you in advance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Datsun240Z Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 P.M G54. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eek Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 cheeznel, you sound like a lovely lady and i wish you luck. I dont have any suggestions for you about where to find a nice European man, sorry, but i just wish to wish you well and to warn you to watch out for the jokers and sharks that lurk in Thaivisa. I imagine some will possibly pm you, and some will post some unhelpful replies. Best to be very wary here. I hope you will get some useful replies and that you find what you are looking for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CWMcMurray Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 The american Chamber of Commerce hold monthly social events and are open to the public. It is not only americans, but people from various countries (I am sure at least a few Eurpoeans). Most that attend are professional expats working in Thailand and it stands to reason that some will be single. AMCHAM Young Professionals Committee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cpofc Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 there is no way I am going to post my address on the Internet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanmiguellight Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 I havent got a clue my dear most the farangs i meet in BKK are butterflies, pensioners or alcoholics. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 cheeznel, you sound like a lovely lady and i wish you luck. I dont have any suggestions for you about where to find a nice European man, sorry, but i just wish to wish you well and to warn you to watch out for the jokers and sharks that lurk in Thaivisa. I imagine some will possibly pm you, and some will post some unhelpful replies. Best to be very wary here. I hope you will get some useful replies and that you find what you are looking for. You better not be referring to me young eek . Unfortunately I am not a European gentleman, I am from Australia. Let me know if any of your girlfriends are looking for Aussies , afterall, we are a little different to most Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mijan24 Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 (edited) I am a Thai woman at age of early 30. I wonder where or how could I meet a nice European man to date with. I have been working for the multinational company but all white men here already have their partners and some also have "Gigs", and I am not interested in finding a man in the same work place. I realize that my lifestyle doesn't allow me to meet many white men. I rarely go out at night 'coz I don't like loud music in the pubs / clubs and I don't smoke or drink alcohol. I am not into fashion trend so the shopping mall is not the place for me. I do sport sometimes but I am not the fitness member. I am just the member of sport center at the park near my home. I do try the online dating and I see that the men are butterfly (Chao-Chu). They date many women and some expect for high-so sexy chicks, but I am kind of simple and nerdy. And I am fed up with lot of contacts from men at age 50's 'coz I am not looking for a sugardaddy. I use to have relationship with the guy I met during travel but that is not last long because eventually he must return home and the long distance is the issue.So with my lifestyle anybody could give me a suggestion / idea where I can meet a nice & sincere European man around my age for a long term relationship. . My look, education and English skill is ok level. My personality is not very outgoing but I don't mind to make a new friend as long as I feel comfortable with. If somebody question me why I don't date a Thai man, I have my own reason and this doesn't mean Thai man is not good. However my father, brother and friends are Thai Thanks you in advance Hi there firstly I will say if you are genuine you should have no problems meeting a nice man around your age group. As for ideas now that is the hard one - I agree dateing sites NO, Holidayers??, There are Farangs that do visit Thailand to see and enjoy the country they are visiting but now how do we differentiate good from not so good?? - I would suggest it is a little like making new Thai friends maybe you have to be a little bold/outspoken introduce yourself and see how things develop - seek introduction by mutual friends,. For your own reasons you have highlighted "Continental Europe" then try to become involved in these particular circles through friends attend food fests. Probably not much help but once again I highlight If you are genuine I wish you all the success as I believe many of the genuine TV members do. [be aware of the 80/20 rule it applyies to all nationalities 80% ofpeople are good and 20% are not so good (percentages do vary widely dependant upon what is actually involved eg money, etc etc)] Edited July 1, 2009 by mijan24 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 P.M G54. Yeah, he's certainly the man for the job, although stiff competition from John Gotti I'm sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 Per the recent poll on TV, the vast majority of members stated they where in the 50-60 year old catagory...so those lot are out...as the OP said she wasnt interested in a Sugar Daddy. Also another portion of TV members who are the Cheap Charlies would also be excluded, because to be a Sugar Daddy....you generally need to have or are willing to part with some cash... OP...very slim pickings on TV for you I am afraid... .....best of luck.....you appear far too intelligent for the whinging old farts on TV... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eek Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 cheeznel, you sound like a lovely lady and i wish you luck. I dont have any suggestions for you about where to find a nice European man, sorry, but i just wish to wish you well and to warn you to watch out for the jokers and sharks that lurk in Thaivisa. I imagine some will possibly pm you, and some will post some unhelpful replies. Best to be very wary here. I hope you will get some useful replies and that you find what you are looking for. You better not be referring to me young eek . Unfortunately I am not a European gentleman, I am from Australia. Let me know if any of your girlfriends are looking for Aussies , afterall, we are a little different to most Impossible! Shame on you for thinking so lowly of me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 I'd guess that most of the "nice" guys are snapped up pretty quick. I think it's probably a case of being in the right place at the right time to be honest, just avoid the obvious places to increase your chances. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeeGB Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 Hi cheezel09, As others have said, computer dating, and agencies may be a bit too risky, especially as you say you're not very outgoing. Don't any of the european men you work with, have single friends from other companies? Perhaps if you were to go out on a foursome, with two people you already know, you'd feel more comfortable, relax easier, and hopefully find the man of your dreams. I agree with eek, you do sound a nice lady, good luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnGotti Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 live in Europe. most of the farang here who have managed to remain single are total losers. its hard to remain single here. trust me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saintofsilence Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 live in Europe. most of the farang here who have managed to remain single are total losers. its hard to remain single here. trust me. Isn't it true that a lot of men that do marry are losers also ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanmiguellight Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 live in Europe. most of the farang here who have managed to remain single are total losers. its hard to remain single here. trust me. It's easy to stay single if youre not interested in bargirls, freelancers or gold diggers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 Unfortunately op thaivisa isn't a dating website but if anyone has any suggestions on where the type of men she is looking or hang out then please pm her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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