I appreciate that people enjoy a joke (and also that this topic makes people nervous, which is what humor often reflects) but please let's remember that it is a serious and valid health concern.

It takes a lot of courage to post about a personal problem like this and it is important that members are able to do so without being poked fun at. I know that is not what was intended, but it is how a poster reading soem of the posts above might feel.

Every day I get PMs asking for private advice and they all start out with something like "sorry to bother you but I'm afraid to post about this for fear of being mocked" or words to that effect.

it should not be that way. And it deprives the forum of many potential threads that others might have benefitted from.

I totaly agree,however if the op has this problem,sometimes relaxing and having a laugh can be very good too.

Here's a thought. Stop watching p0rn, dont over think, count numbers or have the sports channel on while you are doing it. BR