Relationship With Thai Girl - Is It Necessary?

[Gary A]

Why ? Because living alone SUCKS! I lived with six different Thai ladies before I found the right one. It has now been nine months and things are going very well. Another year or two and we may even consider getting married. After you have time to really get to know a person you may not like that person. Never be in a hurry.

I do understand the point though. Guys come over here, meet a bar girl and are convinced that they will live happily ever after. Chances of that are slim to none.

[kreon]

I do understand the point though. Guys come over here, meet a bar girl and are convinced that they will live happily ever after. Chances of that are slim to none.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

sadly so...seems the easy way-out...single life never bores me though, as irregular companionship is easy to find you just need to know where to look

[devildog683]

Guys come over here, meet a bar girl and are convinced that they will live happily ever after. Chances of that are slim to none.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

good thing i didnt marry a bar girl

[Fire]

Where do you live, Kreon?

[DJ Pat]

Sad sight is seeing the farang bloke miserably walking round Carrefour shopping with his (obviously) ex-BG wife and their two kids.

The farang bloke has that dejected look that says

"If only I looked for my wife for a little longer rather than marry the first one who beat me at Connect 4"

[davethailand]

Too many bitter men on this topic, Lost in love and out of pocket maybe?

[DJ Pat]

Too many bitter men on this topic, Lost in love and out of pocket maybe?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Possibly.

[davethailand]

Positively

[Neeranam]

This guy Turok seems to be like a few guys I have known who just cannot find themselves a nice thai girl. Some of them are plain ugly, in looks and character. Is this you Turok? They occassionally have a fling with the bar girls, who leave them as they have no money. If you are old and ugly with money things can be different.

These guy have great delight in bringing down all other guys who have met a nice girl. Bringing down the guys who are HAPPY too with their ex BG GF.

[DJ Pat]

Some guys assume it's their god given right to have a decent Thai GF, because they are too ignorant to distinguish between BG's and regular girls.

[toklong]

Some guys assume that they are so high class it's their god given right to trash

other human beings with out knowing or caring anything about them.They think of

themselves as superior to the people they disrespect.They judge people on a

superficial level because thats all they know or care to know.To boast about

sleeping with numerous women,call them low class, and have the audacity to post

their pitcher on the internet, shows that they have no class at all...By sticking their

dick in as many women different women as they can makes them nothing more

than a low life sex tourist.Just because they are males does not make them any

better than the women they put down.This type of behavior makes me cringe....

[Fire]

Gosh, I'd rather be with a rich woman than struggle through this crap with some out in the bush Thai girl. Their lot in life is not my concern nor my problem. So I should play the knight who saves her?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I know I will probably get flamed for this but what the hel#...

Try to read between the lines. I think Turok has a really good point here. You can marry a rich girl that will take care of you, financially, instead of you taking care of her. You are probably likely to get some crap from a situation of marrying a poor Thai girl. And even if you would not get crap, you are probably better off marrying rich.

No judgment here. But, women have been doing this for thousands of years. Who would not want to marry rich?

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

[Neeranam]

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Money is of course a factor in a girl's decision to marry you!

I am glad that my Thai girlfriend decided that my not having any money, was not a problem in our getting married and be with me.

Edited April 17, 2005 by Neeranam

[devildog683]

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Money is of course a factor in a girl's decision to marry you!

I am glad that my Thai girlfriend decided that my not having any money, was not a problem in our getting married and be with me.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

well put

[mickmac]

Try to read between the lines. I think Turok has a really good point here. You can marry a rich girl that will take care of you, financially, instead of you taking care of her. You are probably likely to get some crap from a situation of marrying a poor Thai girl. And even if you would not get crap, you are probably better off marrying rich.

No judgment here. But, women have been doing this for thousands of years. Who would not want to marry rich?

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Marrying a rich girl:- does that mean having to do as she desires all the time, as she has the purse strings and is used to getting her own way? I'm sure it wears thin having to be at someones beck and call because they have the clout, "money".

Unless you look like Tom Cruise or carry the same size tackle as the last winner of the Derby, your chances of pulling the rich ladies, to which you allude, will be few and far between. Ladies that have money are invariably not into sharing it. They will be looking to someone who can add to the nest egg, not deplete it.

If money is what you guys want why don't you get off your ar#s' and go and earn it, have some pride in yourself be a man not someone poncing of a woman, who will drop you when she wants to move on to pastures new, believe you me.

So come on "Fire" and "Turok" where are all these rich women at, you know the ones going out of their way to throw themselves under you whilst at the same time stuffing the Amex black card in your back pocket?

At least the people who have gone on to marry their Thai girls have had the b#lls to do something concrete with their lives. What have you done, nothing, just spout off about the pipe dream of marrying a rich girl.

Edited April 20, 2005 by mickmac

[BIG SPUDS]

YAWN!!!!

Same old rubbish, slagging of TG's and BG's. I amazed this has not been closed yet.

Heres my 2 cents.

When you fall in love you fall in love.

I didnt go to thailand looking for a GF just a good time with the lads.

I met a girl i found attractive, cute, caring, she made me laugh, we got on well.

And i fell in love. She has no money and i dont have much. But what has money got to do with love when you love someone for real. I am 30 GF is 32. So it makes some people cringe when we hold hands or they see us together...........DO I CARE?....................No!

If me and my GF are happy its all i care about. If you dont want to see us hold hands or other blokes holding hands with girls, go somewhere remote like some little village up north. I held hands with my GF when i went to her home (issan) where some people had never seen a farang in real life. We was not frowned on, nor was my GF told off by parents. They knew we were in love and i was a farang and thats how we show love. They were happy for my GF.

If you dont like what you see, go somewhere else.

I agree thai girls are the most caring, loving, fun girls around.

Edited April 20, 2005 by BIG SPUDS

[Insight]

&lt;deleted&gt;, this...

[gburns57au]

Try to read between the lines. I think Turok has a really good point here. You can marry a rich girl that will take care of you, financially, instead of you taking care of her. You are probably likely to get some crap from a situation of marrying a poor Thai girl. And even if you would not get crap, you are probably better off marrying rich.

No judgment here. But, women have been doing this for thousands of years. Who would not want to marry rich?

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Marrying a rich girl:- does that mean having to do as she desires all the time, as she has the purse strings and is used to getting her own way? I'm sure it wears thin having to be at someones beck and call because they have the clout, "money".

Unless you look like Tom Cruise or carry the same size tackle as the last winner of the Derby, your chances of pulling the rich ladies, to which you allude, will be few and far between. Ladies that have money are invariably not into sharing it. They will be looking to someone who can add to the nest egg, not deplete it.

If money is what you guys want why don't you get off your ar#s' and go and earn it, have some pride in yourself be a man not someone poncing of a woman, who will drop you when she wants to move on to pastures new, believe you me.

So come on "Fire" and "Turok" where are all these rich women at, you know the ones going out of their way to throw themselves under you whilst at the same time stuffing the Amex black card in your back pocket?

At least the people who have gone on to marry their Thai girls have had the b#lls to do something concrete with their lives. What have you done, nothing, just spout off about the pipe dream of marrying a rich girl.

I have met a GTG who is Uni educated, works for the Government and is a fully qualified Vet with her own clinic......

She said to me once....I could not marry a man who earns less money than I do....says it all about financially independant Thai girls.

[bbtali]

Try to read between the lines. I think Turok has a really good point here. You can marry a rich girl that will take care of you, financially, instead of you taking care of her. You are probably likely to get some crap from a situation of marrying a poor Thai girl. And even if you would not get crap, you are probably better off marrying rich.

No judgment here. But, women have been doing this for thousands of years. Who would not want to marry rich?

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Marrying a rich girl:- does that mean having to do as she desires all the time, as she has the purse strings and is used to getting her own way? I'm sure it wears thin having to be at someones beck and call because they have the clout, "money".

Unless you look like Tom Cruise or carry the same size tackle as the last winner of the Derby, your chances of pulling the rich ladies, to which you allude, will be few and far between. Ladies that have money are invariably not into sharing it. They will be looking to someone who can add to the nest egg, not deplete it.

If money is what you guys want why don't you get off your ar#s' and go and earn it, have some pride in yourself be a man not someone poncing of a woman, who will drop you when she wants to move on to pastures new, believe you me.

So come on "Fire" and "Turok" where are all these rich women at, you know the ones going out of their way to throw themselves under you whilst at the same time stuffing the Amex black card in your back pocket?

At least the people who have gone on to marry their Thai girls have had the b#lls to do something concrete with their lives. What have you done, nothing, just spout off about the pipe dream of marrying a rich girl.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I have met a GTG who is Uni educated, works for the Government and is a fully qualified Vet with her own clinic......

She said to me once....I could not marry a man who earns less money than I do....says it all about financially independant Thai girls.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

It says it all about one girl you happened to meet, not about every financially independent Thai girl!

[toddy]

Yes, u love it cause she will service you sexually regualrly as long as you keep her in the financialloop

I think my wife does that because she enjoys it! Hey she should too man, I'm pretty cool.

They are the most beautiful women in the world.  This i will disagree with and I think others will also... 

Er - a sexy Jamaican is more beautiful than an ugly Thai and a sexy American is more beautiful than an ugly Japanese chick ... er ... obviously 

So many of them come from poor families, have no education and no real shot in life -- when they meet a man who can get past the initial sex and still be interested in them, all they want is to be just given a chance -- a chance to make you a very happy man.  Yes, and will check you out to see if you can support the family. 

Some might, but not mine. You must have had some bad experience here but not me man. You should meet my Missus, she's awesome. No such problems in our family.

Gosh, I'd rather be with a rich woman than struggle through this crap with some out in the bush Thai girl.  Their lot in life is not my concern nor my problem.  So I should play the knight who saves her?

Er ... you don't have to but just to say this - it might help a guy like you to grow up and be a man by taking on a challenge of some kind. Go among them and face the madness it'll give you skills and strength.

They are very good conversationalists and the fact that the very simplest of things that we do, can quite often have them in stitches,  is an added bonus.  Conversationalists?  Get real....  Unless its about rice, fruit and chicken there isnt much to talk about.  Oh yea... if you want to torture yourself you can talk about Thai soap operas

Favourite topics of conversation from my wife (yep she's from 'the bush'). Basic Breeding of Colubridae (Kings & Corns), Import license issues for food from USA, Accounting for her mini-mart and restaurant and 'can we watch dodgy DVDs tonight because the kids are at Grandparents'!

And in case you're wondering -- my gal does not lie to me, cook up stories, demand money for her family, steal from me etc. -- neither does her family.  Talk to me in a year.  Lets see where you are at....

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

They told me to wait for a year when I got married and five years on I'm still waiting. Hey it could happen yet though. Anyway it sounds like somebody f--ked you over big stylee mate but that does not mean every other girl from the same socio-economic group and ethnic background will do the same. Maybe she just though you were a condescending pr--k, who knows man?

I guess my wife is some out in the bush Thai girl (Khymer/Lao), my step-daughters are also out in the bush Thai girls, my baby to be is some out in the bush half whitey half Thai and I'm some out in the bush whiteboy and I choose to be out in the bush because I love it and I certainly did turn away from my job/life and super achieving Japanese wife-to-be in Tokyo because it was all very boring. The chick in Japan wants me back, the company wants me back but &lt;deleted&gt; it I'll go fishing in some Isaan creek today maybe catch Pla Charamet if I'm lucky and let my property do the real work! It's a real opportunity to live out here in all this wilderness and with all this wildlife. Better than the Yamanote Line in Tokyo every morning and night. To keep myself mentally healthy - captive propogation of Australasian Boas and Pythons.

Anyway Turok with your patronizing attitude and ignorance of how things actually stand in the village, you'd best look for a nice rich girl in Bangkok - somebody whose Daddy will take care of things because you won't stand up and do it. Hey if you're really lucky your new Father-in-Law might take care of you too - even buy you a pick-up truck and then you'd think that all Thai ladies were great ... you moron. Grow up.

[autonomous_unit]

I have met a GTG who is Uni educated, works for the Government and is a fully qualified Vet with her own clinic......

She said to me once....I could not marry a man who earns less money than I do....says it all about financially independant Thai girls.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I've heard similar comments and when I dug deeper I found that this is often a code phrase for "I won't stand for a patriarchal ass, filled with false pride, who wants to drink and gamble my security away".

It helps to understand the cultural context where an independent Thai girl is fiercely protective of her newfound independence.

[gburns57au]

Try to read between the lines. I think Turok has a really good point here. You can marry a rich girl that will take care of you, financially, instead of you taking care of her. You are probably likely to get some crap from a situation of marrying a poor Thai girl. And even if you would not get crap, you are probably better off marrying rich.

No judgment here. But, women have been doing this for thousands of years. Who would not want to marry rich?

I think that thinking that money is not a factor in a girls decision to be with you is very naive.

Marrying a rich girl:- does that mean having to do as she desires all the time, as she has the purse strings and is used to getting her own way? I'm sure it wears thin having to be at someones beck and call because they have the clout, "money".

Unless you look like Tom Cruise or carry the same size tackle as the last winner of the Derby, your chances of pulling the rich ladies, to which you allude, will be few and far between. Ladies that have money are invariably not into sharing it. They will be looking to someone who can add to the nest egg, not deplete it.

If money is what you guys want why don't you get off your ar#s' and go and earn it, have some pride in yourself be a man not someone poncing of a woman, who will drop you when she wants to move on to pastures new, believe you me.

So come on "Fire" and "Turok" where are all these rich women at, you know the ones going out of their way to throw themselves under you whilst at the same time stuffing the Amex black card in your back pocket?

At least the people who have gone on to marry their Thai girls have had the b#lls to do something concrete with their lives. What have you done, nothing, just spout off about the pipe dream of marrying a rich girl.

I have met a GTG who is Uni educated, works for the Government and is a fully qualified Vet with her own clinic......

She said to me once....I could not marry a man who earns less money than I do....says it all about financially independant Thai girls.

It says it all about one girl you happened to meet, not about every financially independent Thai girl!

I agree that it was said by one girl to me....but it is also true that many of the FITG's dont want to marry below their status or income level.

[gburns57au]

I have met a GTG who is Uni educated, works for the Government and is a fully qualified Vet with her own clinic......

She said to me once....I could not marry a man who earns less money than I do....says it all about financially independant Thai girls.

I've heard similar comments and when I dug deeper I found that this is often a code phrase for "I won't stand for a patriarchal ass, filled with false pride, who wants to drink and gamble my security away".

It helps to understand the cultural context where an independent Thai girl is fiercely protective of her newfound independence.

Agree and I dont blame them one bit.....and it occurs in our own societies as well

[autonomous_unit]

Agree and I dont blame them one bit.....and it occurs in our own societies as well

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Yup, our societies just tend to use different code phrases so we are not always hearing the reason behind the reason when a Thai person passes an apparently simplistic judgement about other people. I agree that knuckle-dragging parasites exist in most parts of the world... and their income level isn't really the first indicator.

[ThaiPauly]

Turok,

you do not appear to be participiating in your own thread any more?

Let me put this synopsis of your profile to you.

1. You are a Diplomats son who has no option but to be in LOS

2. You are a Computer Nerd

3, You have never HAD sex, except with yourself after you read the comments you illicit from TV Members, plus you surf the Porno sites , but have to be vey careful that DADDY does not catch you with your pants down

4. You are now bored so you want to play with your Game Boy /X box as you can probabaly KILL people with that.

I find it facinating that you think you know everything but in fact know F##K all.

In the Private PM's you are a LAUGHING STOCK. Yes there are some out there that still think you are a genuine poster, but it stops here.

If I WERE A MOD (which I will never be because I am to LOUD )iI would CLOSE your thread, but I am not, please feel free to defend yourself. Hey I may even get a warning for saying all this . But I am NOT STUPID, and am prepared to go out on a limb for all those you have insulted.

Nighty Night Sweet wet dreams

[peder.klockmann]

Turok,

you do not appear to be participiating in your own thread any more?

Let me put this synopsis of your profile to you.

1. You are a Diplomats son who has no option but to be in LOS

2. You are a Computer Nerd

3, You have never HAD sex, except with yourself after you read the comments you illicit from TV Members, plus you surf the Porno sites , but have to be vey careful that DADDY does not catch you with your pants down

4. You are now bored so you want to play with your Game Boy /X box as you can probabaly KILL people with that.

I find it facinating that you think you know everything but in fact know F##K all.

In the Private PM's you are a LAUGHING STOCK. Yes there are some out there that still think you are a genuine poster, but it stops here.

If I WERE A MOD (which I will never be because I am to LOUD )iI would CLOSE your thread, but I am not, please feel free to defend yourself. Hey I may even get a warning for saying all this . But I am NOT STUPID, and am prepared to go out on a limb for all those you have insulted.

Nighty Night   Sweet wet dreams

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

ROTFLMMFAO, Whoa that's a long one, had to double check it a couple of times.

[devildog683]

Turok,

you do not appear to be participiating in your own thread any more?

Let me put this synopsis of your profile to you.

1. You are a Diplomats son who has no option but to be in LOS

2. You are a Computer Nerd

3, You have never HAD sex, except with yourself after you read the comments you illicit from TV Members, plus you surf the Porno sites , but have to be vey careful that DADDY does not catch you with your pants down

4. You are now bored so you want to play with your Game Boy /X box as you can probabaly KILL people with that.

I find it facinating that you think you know everything but in fact know F##K all.

In the Private PM's you are a LAUGHING STOCK. Yes there are some out there that still think you are a genuine poster, but it stops here.

If I WERE A MOD (which I will never be because I am to LOUD )iI would CLOSE your thread, but I am not, please feel free to defend yourself. Hey I may even get a warning for saying all this . But I am NOT STUPID, and am prepared to go out on a limb for all those you have insulted.

Nighty Night   Sweet wet dreams

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

ROTFLMMFAO, Whoa that's a long one, had to double check it a couple of times.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

now i got it, pretty clever

[Gary A]

My EX-Western wife was one of 13 children. They had nothing and if not for welfare they would have starved to death. As it turned out over a 15 year period she insisted on spending money that I didn't have. It appears that all her life she never learned to manage money. After the divorce I met and moved in with a VERY wealthy woman. I made the bad assumption that my small amount of money and property would be of no interest to her. Trust me, the money was NOT worth it.

On to Thailand; I have lived with 6 different Thai women since 1991. Of the 6 one was a gold digger of the WORST kind. She had NEVER been in a bar in her life. That relationship lasted 9 months. I was never so happy to be rid of a woman in my entire life. I DID have to pay her to leave. My point is that all people are different and because they did a stint as a bar girl certainly doesn't make them bad. To tar them all with the same brush is just stupid.

I am a former whore monger so where do I get off saying anything bad about their morals. They were at least making money and I was paying money. To the "better than thou" people you should open your eyes and take a look around. You will find that this is indeed a much different culture than you are used to. I am not a wealthy man by any means and couldn't afford to live well in the USA. I CAN live quite well here and do. My current girlfriend is my Asian princess and although she has never mentioned marriage I would marry her if she so desired. I am fortunate that she has a decent western style house up country where we live most of the time. (Paid for by her) We are currently in Jomtien staying in my condo but are looking forward to getting back home up country. I guess my point is; "People who live in glass houses"! You know the rest of that one.

[ThaiPauly]

Where are you Turok,? thats three complete bashings you have had in a row, got nothing to say all of a sudden.

Oh, perhaps he took the advice offered and LEFT the country wow I would drink to that, but I fear he is still lurking in another Forum and abusing Thai people in his usual male pig manner

[devildog683]

Where are you Turok,? thats three complete bashings you have had in a row, got nothing to say all of a sudden.

Oh, perhaps he took the advice offered and LEFT the country  wow I would drink to that, but I fear he is still lurking in another Forum and abusing Thai people in his usual male pig manner

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

one day we may know his true motive, but i doubt it