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During my working career back in Canada I worked with a few guys who took their pay cheques home and gave them to their wives. The wife got it all and gave the husband money as they saw need. My younger brother is one of these guys. So are they paying for female companion ?

In Thailand I know many thai families where the husband is responsible for giving the wife a set amount of money each month be it 10,000 baht or what ever. I know one thai man gives his wife 125,000 baht a month to take care of home and family.

It ia all about do you get what you want (at the end of the day)out of the relationship.Meaning are you happy the way things are.

I tried that once with my first wife. She had no concept of finances, spending, debt and interest. If there was one thing that was constant in my first marriage it was disagreements over the family finances. I finally gave up one year and told her that she could take care of the finances with my government salary from the Forest Service and I would live on whatever money I made painting pictures and writing for magazines. A year later we were in dept up to our eyeballs. My wife went on shopping sprees and put everything on credit cards. I finally had to take the finances back over and it took me another couple years to pay off all the interest accumulating debt.

I see a close similarity to many Thai women who try to handle large amounts of money. It's not the case for ALL women, but certainly a great number of them. I have to ration the amount I send to a Thai family or the mother will spend whatever I give them immediately. She will buy things on credit with no plan of where the payments will be coming from... other than me. It's nice to be able to help someone, but nobody wants to be taken for a fool.

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Most people know the difference instinctively but try to fool themselves.

- Giving your wife money to pay the bills of the house is ok

- Giving her money for food is also ok

- Giving her a lil bit spending money is ok until the spending money is a lot and is her only reason to stay with you. Like more then a normal months salary of an average Thai.

- If someone stops working her normal job to stay with you.. because you want that .. is a personal choice and pay her if you like (i would if i demanded it of her)

People know it themselves but they like to lie to themselves to feel better. But in the end why do you need other people's approval... only because it doesn't feel right and you need to get confirmation to feel good again.

My wife just has her own job and works, we share all costs say 60% / 40% electricity bills, mortgage, internet, whatever.. and i pay most of the food and bigger appliances if they break down. I like it like this she is independent from me and wants me for me. I would not be comfortable paying a lot to a girl because then maybe she likes me for money and i would hate that. I like it when im liked for my look, charm and brain.

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