Oldest Story- Man In Love With Thai Woman.. Needs Advice

Thanks for all of the responses.

There are some pretty strong opinions out here and some interesting judgments being made on very little information.

I think I know Airy pretty well... I don't have an issue with her sending xxx pics around to this other guy nearly as much as I mind the fact that she didn't respect our own relationship enough to let me know what was developing.

On the other hand, people who say "what do you expect..." because I was unavailable, etc.. are also right.. If I'd made the decision to leave my wife while Airy was still here, things might be different today...

the bottom line is I agree with the people that I need a time out from my wife and a time out from Airy and I need to take time to figure out what I want and how to get it without dropping my responsibilities as a father to my children and without causing any more confusion or misery than is absolutely necessary..

Thanks again to everyone who has responded.