Oldest Story- Man In Love With Thai Woman.. Needs Advice

[varese]

Thanks for all of the responses.

There are some pretty strong opinions out here and some interesting judgments being made on very little information.

I think I know Airy pretty well... I don't have an issue with her sending xxx pics around to this other guy nearly as much as I mind the fact that she didn't respect our own relationship enough to let me know what was developing.

On the other hand, people who say "what do you expect..." because I was unavailable, etc.. are also right.. If I'd made the decision to leave my wife while Airy was still here, things might be different today...

the bottom line is I agree with the people that I need a time out from my wife and a time out from Airy and I need to take time to figure out what I want and how to get it without dropping my responsibilities as a father to my children and without causing any more confusion or misery than is absolutely necessary..

Thanks again to everyone who has responded.