i'm not blind to the bad things in the region, it does not take 1 to 3 years really.

about a few months should do it.

but time should not blind people to the good either.

what does shock me more is the stat of many of the expats.

expats please dont get offended as it is not pointed at all, but many are a dam_n drunken mess, with very little respect for themselves or anyone around them.

some however are fantastic, but these seem to be few and far between.

nothing worse then the drunk who will not let go of your hand telling you what a good man you are,

A few months you are kidding me, I have lived here more then 6 years i remember how it went. I talked with others who went to the same. Could please tell me how long you stayed here ? When you get here its all perfect almost no negatives. Later you learn and see more of those. Its the same all over the world not just Thailand.

And about the physical status of expats.. That is all up to themselves.

nothing worse then the drunk who will not let go of your hand telling you what a good man you are,

Never had an expat do that... Thais however...

my wifes father had to leave school when he was ten, he washed dishes for a living in a kitchen.

taught to cook over the years he got very good and landed a job in a classy place as a cook.

later he was transfered to israel then england, p;aid for all his children to be put through uni.

they are all grew up very good and well adjusted successful people.

hard work paid off.

in detail these stories are far more interesting then my wife took my home blah blah blah, that story is older then jesus and we know the ending so its not entertaining.

i said does anyone have a positive thing to say, so far nothing.

not many positive shit here.

i'm not blind to the bad things in the region, it does not take 1 to 3 years really.<br style="color: rgb(28, 40, 55); font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: rgb(250, 251, 252); ">about a few months should do it.<br style="color: rgb(28, 40, 55); font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: rgb(250, 251, 252); ">but time should not blind people to the good either.<br style="color: rgb(28, 40, 55); font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: rgb(250, 251, 252); ">what does shock me more is the state of many of the expats.<br style="color: rgb(28, 40, 55); font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: rgb(250, 251, 252); "><br style="color: rgb(28, 40, 55); font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; background-color: rgb(250, 251, 252); ">expats please dont get offended as it is not pointed at all, but many are a dam_n drunken mess, with very little respect for themselves or anyone around them.

The first reply in this thread was correct.

It was a "confirmation" post by the OP after all...

If you see a farang with a Thai girl, how can you tell if the girl is a whore?

PS. Best answer gets a virtual Leo

Edited November 24, 201114 yr by PattaniMan

i pointed out my stats as you made a comment that i look short.

so i was replying.

i found it funny you say short when i am 6"1 thats all.

and i stand by the time period of my honeymoon period, it depends on the man.

you would have to be blind not to see what goes on around you here, totally blind or just to busy focused on one thing.

for others 6 years fine, not in my case.

i never thought everything in thailand was all rosy as much as i like the place.

when the man is so old he needs to be held up despite being sober pattaniman

Edited November 24, 201114 yr by mataus101

No kidding, but it's sometimes human nature to not feel that way towards your 'mate' and in many cases the mother of one's children. All too often these guys want to blame the woman's family, society, and even the political system before they'll blame the woman or themselves.

Most of the time they married low class bargirls where their initial interaction with them was via paid for sex,

Edited November 24, 201114 yr by sbk
english only please

i pointed out my stats as you made a comment that i look short.

so i was replying.

i found it funny you say short when i am 6"1 thats all.

and i stand by the time period of my honeymoon period, it depends on the man.

you would have to be blind not to see what goes on around you here, totally blind or just to busy focused on one thing.

for others 6 years fine, not in my case.

i never thought everything in thailand was all rosy as much as i like the place.

You still don't get me but most short timers don't. It did not take me 6 years to figure things out. But its a gradual process you won't see it all until your Thai is better and you have spend a few years here.

Also you seem to hang out with drunks and expats. I just hang out with regular people. Kinda depends where live and what your hobbies are. I don't visit bars so i wont encounter the expats your talking about. I just go fishing with mates or work out in a gym. So i probably meet a different group of people. My home is also not in a tourist area.

and it is now a confirmation thread, it has confirmed how unhappy manny people are.

nothing nice to say, nothing positive, nothing good.

it has become a confirmation thread in that respect.

and it is now a confirmation thread, it has confirmed how unhappy manny people are. nothing nice to say, nothing positive, nothing good.

it has become a confirmation thread in that respect.

Well, no actually.

It's a "confirmation" thread, as you seemed to have merely posted with the sole intent of being able to say how unhappy/out of shape/stupid/slow on the uptake about all things Thai/short/rude about Thai women/poorly dressed other "expats" are compared to you.

Most of this kind of thread are just posted by the OP so that at some point they can point out how wonderful they are.

Edited November 24, 201114 yr by HeavyDrinker

i dont hang at bars but like to play pool sometimes.

my friends are not drunken expats, they are thai, all thai.

you assume to much.

when i do play pool i will talk however they are not friends, as i will never see them again, and they are not really bars as you assume.

you just made an attempt for some reason to put yourself above me, why is that.

why would i hang around drunks when i am clearly into my health as an athlete.

no matter where you go to play, a drunk will no doubt wander in sometimes, does not mean they are my friends.'

next you will be naming my friends,

I dont even really drink, very rarely.

not into the tourist ares either, dont recall saying i was

i dont hang at bars but like to play pool sometimes.

my friends are not drunken expats, they are thai, all thai.

when i do play pool i will talk however they are not friends, as i will never see them again, and they are not really bars as you assume.

you just made an attempt for some reason to put yourself above me, why is that.

why would i hang around drunks when i am clearly into my health as an athlete.

no matter where you go to play, a drunk will no doubt wander in sometimes, does not mean they are my friends.'next you will be naming my friends, I dont even really drink, very rarely.

not into the tourist ares either, dont recall saying i was

There you go!

I forgot the "I've got more Thai mates than you" line.

It's hard being right all the time.

Edited November 24, 201114 yr by HeavyDrinker

only friends are a select group of thai trainers and fighters who i trust, very few that is, and family.

who said anything about being friends with drunks, thought i made it clear drunks annoy me.

i dont hang at bars but like to play pool sometimes.

my friends are not drunken expats, they are thai, all thai.

you assume to much.

when i do play pool i will talk however they are not friends, as i will never see them again, and they are not really bars as you assume.

you just made an attempt for some reason to put yourself above me, why is that.

why would i hang around drunks when i am clearly into my health as an athlete.

no matter where you go to play, a drunk will no doubt wander in sometimes, does not mean they are my friends.'

next you will be naming my friends,

I dont even really drink, very rarely.

not into the tourist ares either, dont recall saying i was

Annoying isnt it when someone tries to put themselves above others. Just read your own posts. I knew this would get your attention and you fell for it. I wanted this response from you. Thank you for proving my point.

Well, no surprise, its turned personal and nasty.

Let me make this clear, if you can't discuss the topic without making it personal then it might as well be closed.

Nobody forced you to give a house to a Thai lady, and on top of this you have signed it s her money.

If you have problem after that, well too bad for you, this is what it cost to go around the law. Same thing happenn when creating a business for ownership.it s just another way to lose money...so don't tell it s the fault of a Thai lady,it s YOUR fault.

having thai friends means nothing, i was told above i had drunken friends so i must reply i do not.

was not bragging.

i will say it again heavy drinker so you understand, you may be drunk.

I started this for 2 reasons, the constant negativity is sad.

and some positive stories would be nice, dont try to analyse me online its foolish.

your looking to deeply into this, your going to burst more blood cells then the whiskey is, just positive stories is what i wanted nothing more.

why is that so hard to believe.

you think to much, have another beer, judge me i can do the same.

i only have thai friends because of my lifestyle, its no big deal, does not make me special i know that.

im not in any way trying to imply that.

You were warned. You chose not to take that warning.

//CLOSED//