Hi Guys, I am a sixty four year old gay American and am looking for a partner (of the non bar boy variety) in his late teens/ early twenties. Is there any hope for an old fool like me? Are Thai men interested in the more mature male? I am so nervous about this I don't know what to think.

From reviewing all of your non-deleted posts, you have a very spotty posting history here, including an apparent obsession with paedophilia and some none-too-friendly gay references and at least one suspension; your typical post is a one-liner taunting other posters in some way. I very much doubt you are as you represent yourself in the OP. I assume you're trying to start up a flame war on age differences here, but perhaps this post will avert that.

"Steven"

Steven H, I am sensing some hostility. I have never made any anti-gay references. My suspension was for giving supposedly unhelpful advice in the visa section. Are you intimidated by someone who is completely open and doesn't hide behind a mask?

Just levelling the playing field. If others want to reply without checking your posting history, that's fine. But I think they'll think twice if they do. Oh, and yes, I do have a bit of hostility towards trolls in my favourite TV sections, and no, I'm not in the least intimidated.

"Steven"

BTW, to be on topic for a moment, the short answer to your question is "yes," and "read other threads in this section."

"my favourite TV sections" you obviously feel very attached to this forum. Just becuase I don't fit your narrow views of what a "gay" man should be doesn't mean I dont have the right to voice my opinion.

Haven't tried to stop you!

Well you haven't exactly been helpful now have you steven? Us Americans need to stick together. Where did you pick up the Anglicanized spelling?

From Angland, of course!

Boy, does THIS thread qualify as drivel so far!!!

Since we're getting to know each other so cosily here, how do you know I'm American? I could be speaking Pasa New Zealand, after all...

Also, you might give us a better indication of what you're looking for? Kathoeys, manly men, something in-between? Are you living here or are you a tourist? What area do you stay in? What's your budget (some non-monetary support or BF must be completely self-supporting)? What do you look like? Do you speak any Thai?

All of these things are pertinent to what kind of options you have and what kind of advice our readers can give you.

"Steven"

Well since I know you are Steven H rather than Steven B or P you can take it as red that i know you are an American like me.

So your main interest is really who I am and *not* in a nice older teen or 20-something yo? Have we outed you so quickly??? Or are you going to give us more detail about the object of your alleged quest?

Believe what you like about my name. There's a reason it's in quotation marks.

"Steven"

I honestly never knew you were so prolific on this forum. Perhaps I would have posted else where if I had known. but hold on there isn'y anywhere else! This valid forum is being ruined by tin-pot despot!

To answer your questions, if they are really vaild:

I am looking for a reasonably well educated Thai man who loves me for me, not for my wallet. I don't stereotype and go for specific types.

Yes, I'm such a nightmare, aren't I!!!

If you weren't aware I was prolific here, how did you know I was American or that my last initial is allegedly "H."? It's such a pain when someone spoils all the fun, isn't it?

Trying desperately to stay on YOUR thread topic:

Well, I'm afraid I can only offer you advice to the extent that you are willing to provide specific details. Your opening post seems to have something in mind; now you have settled on "well-educated man who cares about you."

This pretty much eliminates anyone under the age of 22- unless you think Thais who haven't been to university might be candidates for being "well-educated."

Since I don't know where you live or how much Thai you speak or what kind of person you're looking for, that's basically all the advice I can offer.

Any more fishing to do here?

"Steven"

I actually know some of your bio from ajarnforum.net. You seem better here: a tyrant yes; but less whinging and pathetic. But thanks for ummm... trying to help me.

I think I've been quite helpful, but you haven't really helped us help you. C'mon, let us know what you're looking for! It's your thread, after all! *Just* *what* kind of guys are you looking for?

"Steven"

P.S. You forgot to mention that I live in a cardboard box!

Steve, I can tell I am winning you over. I am really just looking for someone honest and true who can stop me feeling blue! I'm not a fussy mussy and can't really afford to be at my age now can I?

Well, then, you hardly need advice from us, then, do you? Just take anyone!

Topic going nowhere, thanks to original poster. Topic closed.