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Is A Massage With A Happy Ending Cheating?


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You now what its like. You walk into what looks like a respectable massage parlour for an oil massage. You strip down to nothing and lie on your stomach and she walks in and covers your butt with a towel and starts the massage working her way down and then removes the towel completely and lets just say the towel never comes back , and you no the rest...

is it cheating? its difficult not to get aroused and after all its just hands being used and suspect most guys have their eyes closed anyway

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

I disagree. Your bum muscles giggle.gif need a good workout , they are large important muscles and it cant be done with underpants. I have had no undie massages in OZ and Thailand where they move the towel around as to not expose your vital organ

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

I disagree. Your bum muscles giggle.gif need a good workout , they are large important muscles and it cant be done with underpants. I have had no undie massages in OZ and Thailand where they move the towel around as to not expose your vital organ

Your bum muscles are the biggest muscles in your body. giggle.gif

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

I disagree. Your bum muscles giggle.gif need a good workout , they are large important muscles and it cant be done with underpants. I have had no undie massages in OZ and Thailand where they move the towel around as to not expose your vital organ

Could wear a G-String or a Thing then - or maybe a sock clap2.gif ...but really, I have a massage (sin jerk.gif ) for my back, calves and occaionally feet - never had rs-ache before (well muscles ache of the butt anyway).

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

I disagree. Your bum muscles giggle.gif need a good workout , they are large important muscles and it cant be done with underpants. I have had no undie massages in OZ and Thailand where they move the towel around as to not expose your vital organ

Could wear a G-String or a Thing then - or maybe a sock clap2.gif ...but really, I have a massage (sin jerk.gif ) for my back, calves and occaionally feet - never had rs-ache before (well muscles ache of the butt anyway).

lol they dont make farang size socks here whistling.gif and I once saw a 60 year old couple at the marriot pool both in gold shiny g strings. eek

would like to know what womens thoughts are? (not the sock)

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I don't have to worry about that. My girl friend IS a masseuse. Just to help her out financially I often get here to give me an oil massage at her shop and I have to pay... even though I can get one for free when we are together. She gets half the price and the shop gets the other half. I don't WANT a "happy massage" but an erotic oil massage without completing the job is like great foreplay. It just makes things better later on.

I've asked her if she's with another customer can I have one of the other girls and she replies with that same old answer... "Up to you."

I'm wise enough to know that I should wait for her. But, I've also asked if I can have a massage with both her and another girl at the same time and she says "okay, but you pay both of us." I'm too much of a cheap charlie to pay for two when I can have a private massage for free.

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I don't have to worry about that. My girl friend IS a masseuse. Just to help her out financially I often get here to give me an oil massage at her shop and I have to pay... even though I can get one for free when we are together. She gets half the price and the shop gets the other half. I don't WANT a "happy massage" but an erotic oil massage without completing the job is like great foreplay. It just makes things better later on.

I've asked her if she's with another customer can I have one of the other girls and she replies with that same old answer... "Up to you."

I'm wise enough to know that I should wait for her. But, I've also asked if I can have a massage with both her and another girl at the same time and she says "okay, but you pay both of us." I'm too much of a cheap charlie to pay for two when I can have a private massage for free.

Did she have to work a Week in Hand.cowboy.gif

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Did she have to work a Week in Hand.cowboy.gif

Where is the laughter button? giggle.gif

She's a tiny little thing, but she has strong hands and arms. And, she can climb right on my back with her legs and knees pressing into my muscles. I'm not much for one of those massages that hurt, but I enjoy an oil massage. I've had a few Thai massages from different masseurs and masseuses and never once has there been any benefit later. There was a whole thread on that about a week ago.

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My wife knows i go for a massage everyday, she realises as do all thai woman whats involved, at start of our relationship there was a few questions asked but now she just accepts it, i allways get aroused its hard not too, more often tnan not i will take the happy ending, no harm in it, i dont fall in love with them and its just a few minutes adult pleasure between two consenting adults. Saying that i dont allways go for happy ending as i do have back problems from time to time and a lot of the times when the girl slides her hand up between my legs i do politely refuse her advances

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Another girl jerking off my boyfriend....let me think..

Yeah...that's cheating!! giggle.gif

How would you feel if some dude was fondling your girl?

Would you think that it's ok? I know my bf would go crazy.........

Anyways this all depends on who you ask, this is my opinion only.

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There is no need to get completely naked - underpants can be left on and that gives the masseur the message. I think cheating is a matter of conscience, if you know that taking your pants off and getting a massage will lead to a jerk.gif then it's cheating. If you sit behind the smartest guy in class for a test and just happen to see his answers is that cheating? You could have sat elsewhere to stop the temptation. Likewise, you could say up front before getting aroused, no happy happy, just squeezy squeezy and keep your Solomon's on.

The answer is ...........go to a genuine massage parlour. If you see one with beautiful young girls, then beware. If you see one with older, not so beautiful ladies, then thats probably the genuine one.

Never mind son, you will learn as you grow up.

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In Chiang Mai it has become difficult to find massage parlours that don`t do happy endings.

Since the downturn of tourism in Chiang Mai many of the parlour staff are doing happy endings as standard practice in order to supplement their incomes.

I do enjoy an oil massage for relax rather than the traditional Thai massage because I have a few dodgy joints and find the Thai massage too painful. I have been in some massage parlours where the woman has had her hands around my genitals within the first 5 minutes and when I have said, no thank you, I’m only here for the massage, then the woman has suddenly lost interest in the actual massage it`s self. Sometimes they wont take no for an answer and I’ve actually just got dressed and walked out. There have been times when I’ve enjoyed a happy ending, but that should be left up to my prerogative.

Personally I don`t believe a happy ending is cheating. To the massage woman who probably has no interest in the customer whatsoever just sees this as a job, a means to earn extra money.

Whether receiving a happy ending is considered as cheating or not, after a while it becomes boring anyway, especially when the actual massage becomes secondary and it`s all over in a few minutes, cant see the point in it myself. A lot cheaper to take a porn magazine into bed with you and use the imagination.

I don`t equate these happy ending parlours with the lady houses that used to be in Chiang Mai and now all shut down, but if some guys are content to pay a few hundred bahts for a few minutes thrill at a massage parlour, than I don`t see any harm in it.

Other than that, it`s not easy to be naughty in Chiang Mai these days after the big clamp downs. All rather boring.

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I don't have to worry about that. My girl friend IS a masseuse. Just to help her out financially I often get here to give me an oil massage at her shop and I have to pay... even though I can get one for free when we are together. She gets half the price and the shop gets the other half. I don't WANT a "happy massage" but an erotic oil massage without completing the job is like great foreplay. It just makes things better later on.

I've asked her if she's with another customer can I have one of the other girls and she replies with that same old answer... "Up to you."

I'm wise enough to know that I should wait for her. But, I've also asked if I can have a massage with both her and another girl at the same time and she says "okay, but you pay both of us." I'm too much of a cheap charlie to pay for two when I can have a private massage for free.

I know what you are saying Ian, i am in similiar position, my partner has 6 ladies working for her and they must be genuine masseurs with certificate. If i go to the shop i have to pay the going price. Half goes to girl and half to partner.................not fair is it.

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My wife knows i go for a massage everyday, she realises as do all thai woman whats involved, at start of our relationship there was a few questions asked but now she just accepts it, i allways get aroused its hard not too, more often tnan not i will take the happy ending, no harm in it, i dont fall in love with them and its just a few minutes adult pleasure between two consenting adults. Saying that i dont allways go for happy ending as i do have back problems from time to time and a lot of the times when the girl slides her hand up between my legs i do politely refuse her advances

If you tried that in my partners shop you would be sent 'packing' there are many guys like you that think all massage shops are glorified brothels. Have some respect.

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Are there no male massagers avilable for those who are only interested in the massage part?

You all need to get in your heads, before you are embarrassed. NOT all massage shops are fronts for sex trade. If you have any brains at all, you should be able to pick the genuine ones.

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IF your missus worked in a massage shop and dished out happy endings, would you be OK with that ???

If you go for a massage receive a happy ending and you are open with your wife / partner about it and she doesn't mind, then no its not cheating.

If on the other hand you go for a massage and receive a happy ending and keep it quiet or don't tell your partner for whatever reasons including the fact that it might upset her, then of course, its cheating.

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Are there no male massagers avilable for those who are only interested in the massage part?

You all need to get in your heads, before you are embarrassed. NOT all massage shops are fronts for sex trade. If you have any brains at all, you should be able to pick the genuine ones.

But some of us with brains just want a happy ending giggle.gif , forget the massage, it's just a money spinner. You want a massage then go to a temple that supplies the real deal.

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Are there no male massagers avilable for those who are only interested in the massage part?

You all need to get in your heads, before you are embarrassed. NOT all massage shops are fronts for sex trade. If you have any brains at all, you should be able to pick the genuine ones.

But some of us with brains just want a happy ending giggle.gif , forget the massage, it's just a money spinner. You want a massage then go to a temple that supplies the real deal.

Must be a tough and expensive existance when your brains are in your balls.

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