Farang Married To Thai Lady

[bbigman21]

I married a Thai lady who I fell in love with while on a extended trip to Thailand. We got married in her village with her family there. When I was there I trusted her 100%. But since I have been back home and we are working on the visa. I get conflicting stories from her. Basically I feel like she is lieing to me about something I just don't know what. I hear all these horror stories about Thai ladies just trying to take Farangs money. I truly not want to believe that. Would she marry me in front of her parents and still just be out for my money? Would she marry me and still have a Thai boyfriend? There have been some questions on my part of a male friend who she says is a ladyboy. Now she has went to a resort town and is saying she is staying with a relative but has spent a enoromus amount of money. And supposedly the whole reason why she is there is because it is free. So I told her when I come this next time I would like to meet this relative who she is staying with and wouldn't you know it She is leaving for Australia the day before I get there.

So if you please a few Ideas of what you think.

[britmaveric]

[Glauka]

Well

Is true that you hear all this horrible stories...but there are also good ones...

You just marry this girl...so you have to give her some credit..

IMO your marriage will not last very long if you don´t trust her...

You have to see it with your own eyes...

If she is lying to you, you will find out sooner or later...and then you can do something about it...

this is just my opinion...

I wish you the best of luck

Glauka

Edited December 28, 2005 by Glauka

[BambinA]

Would she marry me in front of her parents and still just be out for my money?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Would she marry me and still have a Thai boyfriend?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Now she has went to a resort town and is saying she is staying with a relative but has spent a enoromus amount of money. And supposedly the whole reason why she is there is because it is free.

coz she is a bitch...liar

sorry if it seem harsh ...

[britmaveric]

Full moon out tonight???

[Braccobaldo]

...I really hope that you are a troll, bbigman21.

[sierra01]

And she could be a Ladyboy? Didn't you have a road test first, or are you one of those old fashioned types?

[jrincon17]

And she could be a Ladyboy?  Didn't you have a road test first, or are you one of those old fashioned types? 

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good luck to you , how is she getting a visa to australia ? send her bare essentials

[Mighty Mouse]

I believe him.....but then I believe anything.

[Augustus]

And you people thought I was a troll?

[sriracha john]

you are.... and now we seem to have a troll a day....

Edited December 29, 2005 by sriracha john

[trt]

Would she marry me in front of her parents and still just be out for my money?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Agreed.. why wouldn't she/he do it if there was promise of $$

Would she marry me and still have a Thai boyfriend?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Agreed... she would be giving the thai bf some of the $ too.. have heard of a lot of thai guys who allow their gf's to get "married" to a falang in order to get some $

Ladyboy huh? you can't tell??

[Doza]

Why is she going to Australia?

Why is she going anywhere when her husband coming to visit?

She might be a ladyboy???

Jeez mate...sounds to me like the writing is on the wall - you just need to read it.

[Pink Mist]

story has a few holes in it, the biggest one being the trip to Oz and as someone mentioned b4 a visa, trollish post but wait for the op to post again

[OlRedEyes]

you are.... and now we seem to have a troll a day....

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'Tis the Troll Season, don't you know? Happy Troll Season.

[Savage]

Would she marry me in front of her parents and still just be out for my money?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Would she marry me and still have a Thai boyfriend?

it can be .. if she is a bitch

Now she has went to a resort town and is saying she is staying with a relative but has spent a enoromus amount of money. And supposedly the whole reason why she is there is because it is free.

coz she is a bitch...liar

sorry if it seem harsh ...

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This reply is spot on. Alarm bells not Christmas bells would be ringing! Sorry mate

[Heng]

I married a Thai lady who I fell in love with while on a extended trip to Thailand. We got married in her village with her family there. When I was there I trusted her 100%. But since I have been back home and we are working on the visa. I get conflicting stories from her. Basically I feel like she is lieing to me about something I just don't know what. I hear all these horror stories about Thai ladies just trying to take Farangs money. I truly not want to believe that. Would she marry me in front of her parents and still just be out for my money? Would she marry me and still have a Thai boyfriend? There have been some questions on my part of a male friend who she says is a ladyboy. Now she has went to a resort town and is saying she is staying with a relative but has spent a enoromus amount of money. And supposedly the whole reason why she is there is because it is free. So I told her when I come this next time I would like to meet this relative who she is staying with and wouldn't you know it She is leaving for Australia the day before I get there.

So if you please a few Ideas of what you think.

You have to have 1,000+ posts on this board before you can post a story like this. Try complaining about the Thai gov't or education a bit first too, so you can earn some "street cred."'

[aaaaaa]

And you people thought I was a troll?  

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not only you ! I was called that more than once - by those very trolls

[Glauka]

If the guy is for real and so is the story he must be having a very hard time.

He has post to look for advice and seek for some other opinion that can give him a clue of what is going on or what it could happen...

I think to call him a troll is not going to help him much...

the first post I ever wrote in Thaivisa was something like this...I was seeking for advice...

People like Khall, Bambina, Explorer. jrincon17 gave me their opinion without bashing me...It really help...

if on the contrary someone started to call me troll or any other thing

(nothing would have happened because I didn´t know what it meant at that time ) a may stop posting and I will be as confused as I was.

some people have good knowledge about thai culture and some members are thai themselves they can give you good advice.

Also I think that sometimes people who don´t know you can give you very objective and straight forward advice.

I know that there something like 1000 post about this subject but when you post looking for advice you don´t think in searching past topics...

after sometime you just have enough courage to post here how stupid you may are and how someone who you love is lying to you.

Edited December 29, 2005 by Glauka

[rio666uk]

Call me a cynic, but i defy anyone to sit down, type this post, proof read it and then send it to a web forum honestly expecting some positive feedback.

erm.. better?

Edited December 29, 2005 by rio666uk

[Glauka]

Call me a cynic, but i defy anyone sit down, type this out, proof read it and then send it to a bunch of strangers on a web forum honestly expecting some positive feedback.

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What do you think it should be write in a public forum to a bunch of strangers?

Edited December 29, 2005 by Glauka

[Boo]

I thought the relative was going to OZ the day before the OP arrrived NOT the wife!? I'm so confused

[Glauka]

Call me a cynic, but i defy anyone to sit down, type this post, proof read it and then send it to a web forum honestly expecting some positive feedback.

erm.. better?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I just hope that some day you don´t feel so confused as too have to tell a bunch of strangers how confuse you feel...

Sometimes you just need a sentence to open your eyes, i don´t care if is for a stranger or not.

[Glauka]

rio666uk I am confused I don´t know if you think that the OP is a troll or the opposite...

Do you speak spanish?

Edited December 29, 2005 by Glauka

[rio666uk]

Call me a cynic, but i defy anyone sit down, type this out, proof read it and then send it to a bunch of strangers on a web forum honestly expecting some positive feedback.

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What do you think it should be write in a public forum to a bunch of strangers?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

plausible questions from genuine people i would hope

Oh god... ok im outta here... dunno why youre taking a swipe at me - ive not said anything different to anyone else who said this guys a troll.

enjoy your thread - im obviously not exclusive enough to comment

happy new year Glauka

Edited December 29, 2005 by rio666uk

[Glauka]

Call me a cynic, but i defy anyone sit down, type this out, proof read it and then send it to a bunch of strangers on a web forum honestly expecting some positive feedback.

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What do you think it should be write in a public forum to a bunch of strangers?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

plausible questions from genuine people i would hope

Oh god... ok im outta here... dunno why youre taking a swipe at me - ive not said anything different to anyone else who said this guys a troll.

enjoy your thread - im obviously not exclusive enough to comment

happy new year Glauka

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what have I said ? Was I too harsh?. I didn´t mean to...

happy new year rio666uk to you!

I think everybody is exlusive...

I AM CONFUSED

[Patsycat]

I'm confused too!! So many different characters - the hubby, the wife/ladyboy (?!!), the relative, the thai boyfriend... Or is it just the festive overindulgence eventually getting to my brain?

[caledonia]

Oh dear.....this little story does not sound good!!

WHo is going to Oz?

How long have you known your wife?

Hopefully long enough to have some idea of when she is lying to you!

Does she speak good English? Maybe all these little inconsistincies could be attributed to the language barrier?

When is your next trip? You will get a much better idea of things then!

I hope this is all just your mind working over time!

[TizMe]

Its the relative thats going to Oz, but how come her relative is white skinned 48 year old man from Melbourne?

[billd766]

And you people thought I was a troll? bah.gif whistling.gif

you are.... and now we seem to have a troll a day....

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Personally I don't think that the original OP above who was actually on a different post is a troll.

I have been wrong before and no doubt I will be again but to me his post is genuine. On the other hand I am not a person who makes an instant judgement but I did read all the posts about it before I made my own.

And if Augustus is a troll (which I doubt) he made a ###### good post and gathered a lot of replies and reads, many more than I ever get, and probably more than you do.

Edited December 29, 2005 by billd766