Thai Ladies; How Much Different Are They?

[kerryk]

Thai ladies sexual techniques are quite different to English ladies.

(I have no experience of other nationalities)

Thai girls also kiss differently to English women.

They also often prefer to sit cross-legged, and can climb trees to pick fruit.

After 1500 posts you know you can't talk about English women on Thai Visa. Why would you bring it up?

[Upnotover]

Apart from all the sex and money talk I have seen much more important differences in their belief that you can wash clothes better in an upright machine in cold water in 1/4 of the time a typical European machine. And a curious obsession with plastic storage boxes.

[brit1984]

From my experience (which is mostly with middle-class British girls and middle-class Thai girls)...

Appearance wise, Thai girls are generally shorter, slimmer and (obviously) more oriental looking than British girls.

Personality wise, Thai girls are generally more innocent / inexperienced / immature than British girls.

I think many of the differences others have identified (in this thread and others) are more about class than nationality, as many Western guys associate with Thai girls from the uneducated peasant class (which no longer exists in the West).

Edit: I would just like to add this is not meant as a criticism of uneducated Thai peasant girls (or the Western guys who date them) as I think this class difference explains both negative traits (e.g. a penchant for scamming money from men) and (arguably) positive traits (e.g. a willingness / preference to treat their man as their master) as I have not come across either of these (much discussed) traits.

Sent from iPhone; please forgive any typos or violations of forum rules

Edited July 14, 2012 by brit1984

[daftpunker]

A couple of realtionships in 3 different countries

Dont worry your not in any danger of boasting.

[Morakot]

If you can't get a girlfriend in your own country, try Thailand.

Don't try Brazil or Argentina or Spain or Italy. Those girls have standards and salaries and expectations. If you're a loser, you'll get nowhere.

What a generalisation! I'm sure girls in the slums in any country might be welcoming someone from the outside. Usually girls in Southeast Asian countries have very high expectations, in my opinion.

Edited July 14, 2012 by Morakot

[garrya]

Hum, I have had three girlfriends in Thailand and they never demanded money from me. I have tried to focus on "girlfriends", not sex partners.

I was wondering how many posts before this turned into my girlfriend is better than your girlfriend thread. Plus you have thrown in the my girlfriend is not a prostitute (takes money for relationship) what a new refreshing twist to threads here on Thai Visa.

It is kind of nice that you have added the anti sex element that appeals to some here. So tell us what the difference between girlfriends and sex partners is? Is it normal? Is there a big difference between girlfriends and sex partners? Do you have to get married to have sex in Thailand? Do you pay the family a lot of money first?

On one hand, it is really difficult to post anything that won't offend people or on the other hand, people tend to feel offended by.

I am not going into any argument concerning to topics such as my lady is better than yours and women who got supported are bad or not. This topic was meant to describe and compare Thai ladies we have had experience with. I was only interested in their day to day attitude, habits, hobbies etc. I can't answer your questions as those are n/a to me.

As for your second sentence, I am only stating facts. What's wrong with it? Why shouldn't I?

I. I posed a number of questions that you chose not to deal with. 2. When you said my girlfriend is not my sex partner you enter into another realm of anti sex in relationships. Implying that your girlfriend is better than a girlfriend who is a sex partner. That is the old Thai Visa song about not dating prostitutes and anyone who pays for sex is a bad or not moral person.

It is the same old stuff. An anti hooker thread caged in slightly language.

Unless you want to deal with the sex questions don't bring them up. You posted, " I have tried to focus on "girlfriends", not sex partners." OK what does that mean? It means you are a good moral person who does not focus on sex. Good for you but what does that say about people who do focus on sex partners (99% of the men in the world who don't post on Thai Visa).

Wow, not sure why you are reading topics, to contribute or conflict. You are totally wrong with your conception. n/a, means non applicable so that I can't deal with. Please, If you had read the topic carefully, you might have realized this is NOT the topic has been discussed over and over, this meant to be another approach. There was nothing insinuating in my post however you keep trying to get a grip on something not existed. No offence aimed, no attempt to bash anybody. I apologize if my words have seemed to be equivocal. Thanks for your understanding

[kerryk]

I was wondering how many posts before this turned into my girlfriend is better than your girlfriend thread. Plus you have thrown in the my girlfriend is not a prostitute (takes money for relationship) what a new refreshing twist to threads here on Thai Visa.

It is kind of nice that you have added the anti sex element that appeals to some here. So tell us what the difference between girlfriends and sex partners is? Is it normal? Is there a big difference between girlfriends and sex partners? Do you have to get married to have sex in Thailand? Do you pay the family a lot of money first?

On one hand, it is really difficult to post anything that won't offend people or on the other hand, people tend to feel offended by.

I am not going into any argument concerning to topics such as my lady is better than yours and women who got supported are bad or not. This topic was meant to describe and compare Thai ladies we have had experience with. I was only interested in their day to day attitude, habits, hobbies etc. I can't answer your questions as those are n/a to me.

As for your second sentence, I am only stating facts. What's wrong with it? Why shouldn't I?

I. I posed a number of questions that you chose not to deal with. 2. When you said my girlfriend is not my sex partner you enter into another realm of anti sex in relationships. Implying that your girlfriend is better than a girlfriend who is a sex partner. That is the old Thai Visa song about not dating prostitutes and anyone who pays for sex is a bad or not moral person.

It is the same old stuff. An anti hooker thread caged in slightly language.

Unless you want to deal with the sex questions don't bring them up. You posted, " I have tried to focus on "girlfriends", not sex partners." OK what does that mean? It means you are a good moral person who does not focus on sex. Good for you but what does that say about people who do focus on sex partners (99% of the men in the world who don't post on Thai Visa).

Wow, not sure why you are reading topics, to contribute or conflict. You are totally wrong with your conception. n/a, means non applicable so that I can't deal with. Please, If you had read the topic carefully, you might have realized this is NOT the topic has been discussed over and over, this meant to be another approach. There was nothing insinuating in my post however you keep trying to get a grip on something not existed. No offence aimed, no attempt to bash anybody. I apologize if my words have seemed to be equivocal. Thanks for your understanding

Gary forgive me but did you say, 1. Thai women kiss different, 2. Thai women are overly lazy and, 3. I am not looking for a sex partner? That's pretty weird dude.

[Morakot]

Thai girls also kiss differently to English women.

They also often prefer to sit cross-legged, and can climb trees to pick fruit.

I agree.

Sometimes, they appear to do some quite difficult stuff such as tree climbing in your example, but on the other hand they tend to be overly lazy.

That's impressive! I've only see those who know how to "climb" aboard a Taxi or know how to board a plane. Lazy that would be my ultimate dream, as everyone of them seems to be doing overtime and rush from one board meeting to the next. I must be doing something wrong.

Edited July 14, 2012 by Morakot

[Gary A]

I see mostly generalizations here. Yes, I have heard the old story, "My wife/girlfriend is different". It appears the most Thai Visa posters have married HiSo Chinese Thai women who have university educations and come from wealthy families.

Maybe my wife IS different. She is a common farm girl who works her little butt off in the fields. She certainly doesn't have to work in the fields but I have not been able to stop her. She plants and harvests rice, plants and cuts sugar cane herself. Maybe she does it to get away from me. I am not easy to live with. She is independent and is not jealous at all. She doesn't tell me how much she earns farming and I don't ask her. I didn't have to marry her family when I married her and none of her family lives with us. She doesn't use makeup and doesn't own a dress but at 45 years of age and 45 Kilograms she fills out her jeans quite well. She is tighter than the bark on a tree and doesn't need me financially. She does ask my advice about major financial decisions but then does exactly what she wants to do.

[garrya]

Thai girls also kiss differently to English women.

They also often prefer to sit cross-legged, and can climb trees to pick fruit.

I agree.

Sometimes, they appear to do some quite difficult stuff such as tree climbing in your example, but on the other hand they tend to be overly lazy.

That's impressive! I've only see those who know how to "climb" aboard a Taxi or know how to board a plane. Lazy that would be my ultimate dream, as everyone of them seems to be doing overtime and rush from one board meeting to the next. I must be doing something wrong.

This is a good point again on how much different they are, you hit the nail and proved there are different kinds of ladies so generalizations have no place. Thank you

[garrya]

On one hand, it is really difficult to post anything that won't offend people or on the other hand, people tend to feel offended by.

I am not going into any argument concerning to topics such as my lady is better than yours and women who got supported are bad or not. This topic was meant to describe and compare Thai ladies we have had experience with. I was only interested in their day to day attitude, habits, hobbies etc. I can't answer your questions as those are n/a to me.

As for your second sentence, I am only stating facts. What's wrong with it? Why shouldn't I?

I. I posed a number of questions that you chose not to deal with. 2. When you said my girlfriend is not my sex partner you enter into another realm of anti sex in relationships. Implying that your girlfriend is better than a girlfriend who is a sex partner. That is the old Thai Visa song about not dating prostitutes and anyone who pays for sex is a bad or not moral person.

It is the same old stuff. An anti hooker thread caged in slightly language.

Unless you want to deal with the sex questions don't bring them up. You posted, " I have tried to focus on "girlfriends", not sex partners." OK what does that mean? It means you are a good moral person who does not focus on sex. Good for you but what does that say about people who do focus on sex partners (99% of the men in the world who don't post on Thai Visa).

Wow, not sure why you are reading topics, to contribute or conflict. You are totally wrong with your conception. n/a, means non applicable so that I can't deal with. Please, If you had read the topic carefully, you might have realized this is NOT the topic has been discussed over and over, this meant to be another approach. There was nothing insinuating in my post however you keep trying to get a grip on something not existed. No offence aimed, no attempt to bash anybody. I apologize if my words have seemed to be equivocal. Thanks for your understanding

Gary forgive me but did you say, 1. Thai women kiss different, 2. Thai women are overly lazy and, 3. I am not looking for a sex partner? That's pretty weird dude.

1. I can compare the three I kissed, were different 2. Again, my experience with only three ladies, and sometimes they all tended to be lazyish, no offence intended again (I am lazy sometimes, too) 3. haven't said that, but again, if you think my words are weird I let you start reading through other topics then you will find really weird comments. You ought to relax mate, I am not going to play this game with you as you take words out of context therefore the meaning gets distorted. Please, and thanks again for your thoughts.

Are you testing my patience? Or Are you getting paid after number of posts?

[Morakot]

Sometimes, they appear to do some quite difficult stuff such as tree climbing in your example, but on the other hand they tend to be overly lazy.

That's impressive! I've only see those who know how to "climb" aboard a Taxi or know how to board a plane. Lazy that would be my ultimate dream, as everyone of them seems to be doing overtime and rush from one board meeting to the next. I must be doing something wrong.

This is a good point again on how much different they are, you hit the nail and proved there are different kinds of ladies so generalizations have no place. Thank you

Thank you kindly. Yes, I have seen this very often here on this forum, this strange assumption that Thailand is one homogeneous society and in it everybody is the same.

[Bangkokhatter]

I don't understand the obsession on here with Thai ladies. They're bloody women , some good, some bad, but i must admit do look good in a pair of denim shorts

[Morakot]

I don't understand the obsession on here with Thai ladies. They're bloody women , some good, some bad, but i must admit do look good in a pair of denim shorts

In British English, the term lady sometimes really just means woman.

Edited July 14, 2012 by Morakot

[travelmann]

Thai girls also kiss differently to English women.

They also often prefer to sit cross-legged, and can climb trees to pick fruit.

I agree.

Sometimes, they appear to do some quite difficult stuff such as tree climbing in your example, but on the other hand they tend to be overly lazy.

That's impressive! I've only see those who know how to "climb" aboard a Taxi or know how to board a plane. Lazy that would be my ultimate dream, as everyone of them seems to be doing overtime and rush from one board meeting to the next. I must be doing something wrong.

Must be the tea and biscuits at the board meeting?

[travelmann]

Apart from all the sex and money talk I have seen much more important differences in their belief that you can wash clothes better in an upright machine in cold water in 1/4 of the time a typical European machine. And a curious obsession with plastic storage boxes.

Too right, washing machines here are crap, never get my clothes clean..............well at least those awful upright things that leave half a ton of undissolved powder on your clothes etc ...................... sorry I digress

Hm see someone cant take a 3 holed joke then!!! Thai women have a better sense of humour

Edited July 14, 2012 by travelmann

[Geekfreaklover]

Thai women seem to be more loyal than western women. They are like cats, you feed them once, they keep coming back.

And I'm not talking about hookers, although the same rules probably apply.

Thai women don't like to argue, are generally hard working, and are almost always the head of the household.

[arthurwait]

And as we learnt on the other thread from experts on women; Thai-Chinese women are even more different.

Oh for gods sake. A woman is a woman. It's her individual personality that makes her what she is not what nationality she is or what her bloodline is. Same with men..

[brit1984]

And as we learnt on the other thread from experts on women; Thai-Chinese women are even more different.

Oh for gods sake. A woman is a woman. It's her individual personality that makes her what she is not what nationality she is or what her bloodline is. Same with men..

I agree... except that British men are all good... except the bad ones.

Sent from iPhone; please forgive any typos or violations of forum rules

[connda]

That UK "mature" woman, if visiting Chiang Mai, would make herself totally unavailable to men. Hence, we go with the flow. Thai women it is.

Me a loser? Phtttth! Bite me. My preference was Asian women as soon I as experienced hormones.

What man in his right mind wouldn't prefer Asian women? Racists perhaps? You and everyone else who think White Women are the end all, are you maybe just exhibiting your own racial biases? Mai?

Edited July 14, 2012 by connda

[arthurwait]

That UK "mature" woman, if visiting Chiang Mai, would make herself totally unavailable to men. Hence, we go with the flow. Thai women it is.

Me a loser? Phtttth! Bite me. My preference was Asian women as soon I as experienced hormones.

What man in his right mind wouldn't prefer Asian women? Racists perhaps? You and everyone else who think White Women are the end all, are you maybe just exhibiting your own racial biases? Mai?

Nah plenty of racists like Asian women. Just drink in any bar on lower Sukhumvit or Pattaya and you'll soon meet one.

Plenty of farang women up for it as well on holiday here. With mature women being the most forward and up for it.

[TommoPhysicist]

Thai women can ride pillion side saddle on a m/c while playing a game on their mobile phones (not holding on)

I've not met a British lady who can do that (yet).

C'mon Eek ........ tell me you can do that!

Edited July 14, 2012 by TommoPhysicist

[thedivezone]

Very few men are interested in Thai girls.

But lots of men are interested in AVAILABLE girls.

If you can't get a girlfriend in your own country, try Thailand.

Don't try Brazil or Argentina or Spain or Italy. Those girls have standards and salaries and expectations. If you're a loser, you'll get nowhere.

Try Thailand instead. You'll find something.

To answer your question, all Thai women are the same. They all have a Thai ID card. They all speak Thai. And they all eat rice.

Gets my vote for stupidest post of the year !

[thedivezone]

Very few men are interested in Thai girls.

But lots of men are interested in AVAILABLE girls.

If you can't get a girlfriend in your own country, try Thailand.

Don't try Brazil or Argentina or Spain or Italy. Those girls have standards and salaries and expectations. If you're a loser, you'll get nowhere.

Try Thailand instead. You'll find something.

To answer your question, all Thai women are the same. They all have a Thai ID card. They all speak Thai. And they all eat rice.

Huh. They're all after our money. How can anybody seriously deny it?

Well, just by traveling here you're beating the system. Cheaper wages equal more women in the sack. ChaChing! We win.

Hum, I have had three girlfriends in Thailand and they never demanded money from me. I have tried to focus on "girlfriends", not sex partners.

I was wondering how many posts before this turned into my girlfriend is better than your girlfriend thread. Plus you have thrown in the my girlfriend is not a prostitute (takes money for relationship) what a new refreshing twist to threads here on Thai Visa.

It is kind of nice that you have added the anti sex element that appeals to some here. So tell us what the difference between girlfriends and sex partners is? Is it normal? Is there a big difference between girlfriends and sex partners? Do you have to get married to have sex in Thailand? Do you pay the family a lot of money first?

I think he's saying that he hasn't had sex with his "girlfriends".

[Jessi]

The trolls are sure out in full force today.

[how241]

I think Thai women are the same as western women in many ways

They want to man to give them security, both financially and love and thoughtfullness

Then again this might have changed now back in the west as I have not had a

relationship with a non asian woman in over 10 years.

+1

[Cornichon88]

Apart from all the sex and money talk I have seen much more important differences in their belief that you can wash clothes better in an upright machine in cold water in 1/4 of the time a typical European machine. And a curious obsession with plastic storage boxes.

Ha ha, that's well said. My wife like plastic boxes so much that I think she have an obsession with russian puppets. Same about washing machine, it will change soon as I'll buy something that actually wash the clothes, not only wet and perfume them.

[aneliane]

I think their way to come on men is different.

Hookers and other alike wait to get plastered and start a weird punching/slapping (not strong) the guy, taking a super annoying whiny tone like child with a nasal dis-function that would make a tantrum.

Looks embarrassing to me, but may be that turn you gentlemen on

Also the other techniques are quite childish too and remind me of my early teens dates, like - I light your cigarette and take that opportunity to touch your arm and stay and bit longer- or - I pretend accidentally to bump into you and take that opportunity to brush your arm.

I guess it's all part of the "woman-child fantasy" which porn industry emphasis on when it comes to Asian women ?

[SJN]

Good to know how you guys think about thai girls.

[mauGR1]

Good to know how you guys think about thai girls.

I assume you are Thai, welcome !

Please don't assume that most people here have a negative attitude towards Thais, just some have negative experiences, and it seems they are the ones who scream louder