Candyflip Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Hi there, When I was younger, I thought the "threesome" activity is something ridicurious. How could somebody let another person kiss or xxxx their boy/girlfriends. I 've grown up and learned that for some people love and sex can be something separated and threesome is kinda final fantacy fun for open minded people. Now I am confused. I have not done it myself yet coz I m worried about the morning after that I would feel guity. I have been raised in Thailand, I guess the certain cultural framework still hold me back. My fantacy and curiousity are growing. Is it worth trying? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the gentleman Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 it seems that by many of your posts, you are always on the hunt for "something new", but are held back by your Thai morals - at the end of the day honey, you and the two other people, would be the only ones who knew - I am sure there is a lot of people here that would take you up on your offer. If you do do it, please let us know how you get on. P.S. I have tried it (only women though) and I have also had "fivesomes", but that was too many, there seems to be always, one on the bench until "halftime" - but that was a long time ago - could come out of retirement for one more round Good luck Candyflip - please keep us posted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Just say when Candy...Georgie and I could be starters Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrentoul Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 I 've grown up and learned that for some people love and sex can be something separated If you are married they are almost always separate - because you hardly ever get any! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 I 've grown up and learned that for some people love and sex can be something separated If you are married they are almost always separate - because you hardly ever get any! They always said that if you wanted to stop 'em doing it you only had to marry 'em Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisP Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 I think it all depends on the chemistry and "Lust factor" of those involved.. You HAVE to make sure that all 3 are totally into each other....!! Sometimes it's really only about 2 people.. and the third gets left out. (Shame...! ) ChrisP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 I think it all depends on the chemistry and "Lust factor" of those involved..You HAVE to make sure that all 3 are totally into each other....!! Sometimes it's really only about 2 people.. and the third gets left out. (Shame...! ) ChrisP " totally into each other " .... I love it Chris ...berst one liner for awhile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chingy Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 one guy and two girl (yes, yes) two guy and one girl (no, no) girl and girl and girl (good to view) a guy and a guy and guy (difinitely no, no) guy, girl and an animal (difinitely totaly no, no never in your right mind) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Judge Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Chingy you are essentially a very sick puppy... (still not sure about animals) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuky Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Well, I guess it does depend on whether the animal is wagging it's tail and "looking sexy" hehehe that may well be the funniest thing I have ever heard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuky Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 By the way, candy what is your phone umber? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nat Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 My fantacy and curiousity are growing. Is it worth trying? Hi Candy You're the only person that can answer that. As you mentioned love and sex are separate things (however not always mutually exclusive). There's nothing wrong in experimentation, esp if this is an urge. However, if one of the people involved in the threesome is someone you love, well then just be careful the green eyed monster doesn't join the party. There are also the feelings or shame and guilt that may follow. Guess it depends on you emotionally, but if you're curious then why not? Curiosity may have killed the cat, but at least it died satisfied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IT Manager Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Yes if you are sure of your own feet before you take a step.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markt Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Candyflip, you'll find plenty of potential "friends" at bangkoktonight.com You'll be all their dreams come true, and some more...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zendesigner Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 You brave men realise that you are talking in ...Gay People in Thailand....forum??? so i wouldn't bet that candy is a female hottie :~) B Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuky Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Candy? are you a female hottie?????? WE NEED TO KNOW!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuky Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 teerak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 You brave men realise that you are talking in ...Gay People in Thailand....forum???so i wouldn't bet that candy is a female hottie :~) B Ooooops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candyflip Posted February 15, 2004 Author Share Posted February 15, 2004 Ahhhh I think I made my name famous overnight by putting this thread. Nat, I love your post Curiosity may have killed the cat, but at least it died satisfiedI am not sure I am a cat or chicken! ( probably chicken otherwise I would not have asked it in here )Candy is a single young girl who trys to learn about herself to break though the moral freamwork in order to reach the free spirit. ( ######, how many people understand this line I am talking about? -- I am confusing myself) So , more input is still welcome. I wanna hear from those who have done, pro and con, and things to be concerned, etc. Candy?are you a female hottie?????? Am I a hottie? ask georgie or doctor pat Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Ahhhh I think I made my name famous overnight by putting this thread. Nat, I love your post Curiosity may have killed the cat, but at least it died satisfied I am not sure I am a cat or chicken! ( probably chicken otherwise I would not have asked it in here ) Candy is a single young girl who trys to learn about herself to break though the moral freamwork in order to reach the free spirit. ( ######, how many people understand this line I am talking about? -- I am confusing myself) So , more input is still welcome. I wanna hear from those who have done, pro and con, and things to be concerned, etc. Candy?are you a female hottie?????? Am I a hottie? ask georgie or doctor pat Cheers! As hot as hades...and into experimentation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chingy Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Candy is a single young girl we got our answer people, she a single young girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IT Manager Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 You brave men realise that you are talking in ...Gay People in Thailand....forum???so i wouldn't bet that candy is a female hottie :~) B One of the joys af administration, is the chat room on a Sunday.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 and some of us know H E R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 and some of us know H E Rin the biblical senseYou heading for a bi-pass Doc, keep the pressure down da dup, da dup. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrentoul Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 You brave men realise that you are talking in ...Gay People in Thailand....forum??? Human beings come in just two sexes: male and female. If you're having a threesome, then the third person will have to be one of the above, a man or a woman. So there's a same sex couple in the room...even if they don't have sex with one another, they are still there. That's probably why it's on the gay board. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 But which one is Gay? the giver or the taker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JemJem Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Candy, As you had written that you live in Amsterdam (possibly the most ''open'' atmosphere in the world), I think there would be no problem in finding the 'third person' . Just weigh the pros and cons in your mind and decide. But I agree with some others that 'jaelousy' and 'feelings of guilt afterwards' are the major cons ! Of course there is also the increased risk of catching a sexual disease but I am sure you are a sensible person to know what to do regarding that. Let us know (if/when you have one) your feelings/thoughts afterwards Regards, Jem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_Pat_Pong Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 You brave men realise that you are talking in ...Gay People in Thailand....forum??? Human beings come in just two sexes: male and female. If you're having a threesome, then the third person will have to be one of the above, a man or a woman. So there's a same sex couple in the room...even if they don't have sex with one another, they are still there. That's probably why it's on the gay board. Surely there are three genders...male....female.....and hairdressers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boNita aPPlebuM Posted February 17, 2004 Share Posted February 17, 2004 uh?!?! the morning after?!?! you can still be friends with them ... sure ... why not?!?! friends with benefits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dave69rock Posted February 18, 2004 Share Posted February 18, 2004 hi candy Threesomes should only be done with strangers( they are great fun and no green eyed monster) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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