Raesum Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Recently I helped some foreigners and in return they bought me a plate on which there was assorted items and wrapped in orange cellophane. When they gave it to me they said "We don't know what it is but we wanted to say thank you for your help" As they were on their way to the airport I just accepted it in good faith. now I'm not sure what I should with it. Should I somehow try to give it to the local temple? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktm jeff Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Its a nice gift and can contain candles and incense and other items a monk may find useful(even a torch)!To pass on good KARMA you should pass it on (or 7 tons of gold) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautifulthailand99 Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Yes but try to find a good temple with good monks - there's your challenge. Some clues they won't be on mobile phones , smoking or sitting around indolently/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raesum Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 Thanks folks.Although why karma has to be in capital letters I don't know-after all it was partly to do with karma as to why I received this gift in the first place. The other thing I guess is protocol. I do know some good monks at a temple across the way(not the beetel chewing ones at my local temple).I am even on speaking terms with a couple of them as my (husbands)Thai family uses this temple a lot for ceremonies .However, as a woman , I can't just front up to the temple and give this offering to the first monk I see.Maybe I'd better wait for hubby to come home in a few weeks time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SantiSuk Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 80% of the people going to temple around here are women. Cant see the problem - go early when there is a service going on and put your gift in along with the food that will be offered to the monks (by a man) or if you want to give it direct, find an opportunity where one is sitting and push the offer towards him along the floor with outstretched arms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bung Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 Don't touch it! It contains holy items such as soap, toothpaste and tooth picks. It must be given to a temple with great reverence! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikebell Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 If you choose the right temple to donate to, you could get a luxury car in return. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 It was a gift to you, just keep it. No bad karma involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raesum Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 Yes AnotherOneAmerican-I could do that. Actually when you said that it bought to mind the image of one of the monks from the temple that we use(the one that always asks me when we are going to give them T-bone steaks!instead of the normal food offerings) Anyway occasionally he gives my sister-in-law things that he's been given but doesn't want/use eg several first aid kits, glass bowls, glass plates etc.He seems to store them in a box and when he sees her he gives them to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raesum Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 Just spoke to my husband(due to his location in a remote mining site)and he was like "Whats the problem? It was given as a gift so accept it as a gift" So I shall unwrap it and see whats in there and not worry about luxury cars, Rolexes or karma.And if I don't know what something is I can always pass it on to the family! Thanks for all your help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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