Older Guys, Younger Ladies, An Alternative View......"Maybe You Die"

[rayongchelsea]

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man

What planet are you living on?

I know many women that have married to broken men ,stayed married , have bore him childrens, payed for everything the guy needed and even consented him to hav lovers and not only here in Thailand, but in Japan, Spain, US,Costarica, and Itally if you don't know some guys like this this that proves once more the huge lack of culture, and history of many of the members of this forum

Many? what social - economic class is this..so a lot of the guys you hang out with are freeloaders..

Give me a break..

[Om85]

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man

What planet are you living on?

I know many women that have married to broken men ,stayed married , have bore him childrens, payed for everything the guy needed and even consented him to hav lovers and not only here in Thailand, but in Japan, Spain, US,Costarica, and Itally if you don't know some guys like this this that proves once more the huge lack of culture, and history of many of the members of this forum

Many? what social - economic class is this..so a lot of the guys you hang out with are freeloaders..

Give me a break.

Problem is that not all the people need to pay for sex, and not all the women are poor an ignorant country girls, these are to facts that many in this forum seem to miss over and over

[GreenSnapper]

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man

What planet are you living on?

I know many women that have married to broken men ,stayed married , have bore him childrens, payed for everything the guy needed and even consented him to hav lovers and not only here in Thailand, but in Japan, Spain, US,Costarica, and Itally if you don't know some guys like this this that proves once more the huge lack of culture, and history of many of the members of this forum

Many? what social - economic class is this..so a lot of the guys you hang out with are freeloaders..

Give me a break..

Women have utter contempt for a broke beta male. Why is he broke, if he is not beta?

There are exceptions, though. If the broke male has the right alpha attitudes, he can still keep her interested, even get her to pay for him. In the extreme case he is a thug or even a mass killer in prison - it doesn't matter, women will still love him because of his "bad boy" attitude.

Most Western men don't fall into this category and then it is game over when you are broke. Asian men, who are generally more macho than Western men, have better chances to keep a woman even if they have no money.

[transam]

When you see an older guy with a much younger girl, you know he sliding down a slippery slope.

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man, regardless of how nice or good looking he was. NO.

Yet a woman will put up with a older rich guy at least for a little while.

Women love money, men love sex. Its just a balancing act, get it right and you have a long and happy marriage.

My uncle is 90, his wife is 93, they have been married for 67 years. They have never had any money, just worked.

Your ''theory'' is crap.

You sound like a 15 year old that hasn't a clue about INDIVIDUAL folks thoughts on their lives, just what's in your trousers.

[rayongchelsea]

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man

What planet are you living on?

I know many women that have married to broken men ,stayed married , have bore him childrens, payed for everything the guy needed and even consented him to hav lovers and not only here in Thailand, but in Japan, Spain, US,Costarica, and Itally if you don't know some guys like this this that proves once more the huge lack of culture, and history of many of the members of this forum

Many? what social - economic class is this..so a lot of the guys you hang out with are freeloaders..

Give me a break.

Problem is that not all the people need to pay for sex, and not all the women are poor an ignorant country girls, these are to facts that many in this forum seem to miss over and over

What the hell as that got to do with guys who are freeloaders..the mind boggles..

Guys who want to pay for sex with "ignorant country girls" ( don't underestimate them)

are way higher in the pecking order than some guy who is defendant on a women has kids and then shelves his responsibilities towards them.

[Om85]

I know many women that have married to broken men ,stayed married , have bore him childrens, payed for everything the guy needed and even consented him to hav lovers and not only here in Thailand, but in Japan, Spain, US,Costarica, and Itally if you don't know some guys like this this that proves once more the huge lack of culture, and history of many of the members of this forum

Many? what social - economic class is this..so a lot of the guys you hang out with are freeloaders..

Give me a break..

Women have utter contempt for a broke beta male. Why is he broke, if he is not beta?

There are exceptions, though. If the broke male has the right alpha attitudes, he can still keep her interested, even get her to pay for him. In the extreme case he is a thug or even a mass killer in prison - it doesn't matter, women will still love him because of his "bad boy" attitude.

Most Western men don't fall into this category and then it is game over when you are broke. Asian men, who are generally more macho than Western men, have better chances to keep a woman even if they have no money.

Asian men more macho???Maybe that's compared to nonlatin, cuz mostly asian men are very weak wid women.The talk about beta and alfa , well I dont know what you mean, we ain't wolves or dogs.

[robblok]

When you see an older guy with a much younger girl, you know he sliding down a slippery slope.

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man, regardless of how nice or good looking he was. NO.

Yet a woman will put up with a older rich guy at least for a little while.

Women love money, men love sex. Its just a balancing act, get it right and you have a long and happy marriage.

its not just women who love money,, why do you think i work away from my home for 6 months of the year,,??

funny i love sex too

I thought you left home because you loved the English climate.. damm was I mistaken.

[pigeonjake]

rob,its freezing here in scotland now,

but as we all know money makes the world go round,,lol

[NoshowJones]

Sometimes the older guy is INSECURE about his body, and uses money to offset that insecurity.

Sometimes the older guy is insecure about his intelligence, and uses money...

Sometimes the older guy is insecure about his life, and wants to re-live it with a younger girl.

Sometimes the older guy uses money on the insecurity of the girl.

and sometimes none of the above is true.

So it's case-by-case. Of course it can work.

I do think if the guy is 30-lbs overweight and can't find Thailand on a map.......well, the 25-year old girl will watch her internet shows and dream of the younger guy with the 6-pack.

How many young guys have you seen with a six pack. ? .......... ..............Not many.

I wouldn't know, I don't look at guys.

[jocko]

When you see an older guy with a much younger girl, you know he sliding down a slippery slope.

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man, regardless of how nice or good looking he was. NO.

Yet a woman will put up with a older rich guy at least for a little while.

Women love money, men love sex. Its just a balancing act, get it right and you have a long and happy marriage.

My uncle is 90, his wife is 93, they have been married for 67 years. They have never had any money, just worked.

Your ''theory'' is crap.

You sound like a 15 year old that hasn't a clue about INDIVIDUAL folks thoughts on their lives, just what's in your trousers.

A great deal of the worlds population are broke compared to us.

I wonder how they manage.

[itchybum]

Interesting topic. I hope all these positives about may-december relationships is true. Funny how the western women I know become most angry when they see the older men with a younger foreign women. Quite angry at times...

Recently with several weeks in Indonesia, I saw more foreign women with local Indo guys than the other way around...some older, some similar ages.

Funniest was in a restaurant we were in and a hot young blonde girl dating her probable surf teacher with a six pack and just sitting there, not talking, him drinking soda and she beer....staring out into space all night, awkward silences much......but bet the sex was good.

[NoshowJones]

@rayongchelsea

I am not sure it will always fail, sometimes love grows from these relations based on his income. I don't think its that rare.. on the other hand i also don't think its rare for it to fail. But its certainly not impossible to work.

It's rarer than you think.

There's a difference between love and sincere gratitude.

A Thai woman may utter the word "love" to her elderly husband/partner but in most cases - NOT ALL - that's a euphemism for thanks.

Thanks for enabling me to pay my bills; putting my kids through school, giving money to my parents etc, etc. It is, I suppose, a form of love but it's not the form a lot of these men want it to be.

The last professional band I played in before I came to Thailand, my girlfriend was twenty years younger than me. I was always OK financially, but not rich, I gave her a good social life, and took her to America on holiday. But I know she would never have been with me if I was not a musician. My Thai wife today is twenty years younger than me, and she has her money and I have mine.

[BookMan]

Interesting topic. I hope all these positives about may-december relationships is true. Funny how the western women I know become most angry when they see the older men with a younger foreign women. Quite angry at times...

Recently with several weeks in Indonesia, I saw more foreign women with local Indo guys than the other way around...some older, some similar ages.

Funniest was in a restaurant we were in and a hot young blonde girl dating her probable surf teacher with a six pack and just sitting there, not talking, him drinking soda and she beer....staring out into space all night, awkward silences much......but bet the sex was good.

I expect this trend will keep on growing.

[somchaiyatt]

Thai women like older Thai men because they age much better than Western men. No suntan and not bald. In Japan they rent old men (Ossan) because the women like them. It's the same in Thailand. And Shigeo Tokuda has made 200 movies and is 75 years old. It is a cultural thing. Don't worry if you not understand.

[itchybum]

Interesting topic. I hope all these positives about may-december relationships is true. Funny how the western women I know become most angry when they see the older men with a younger foreign women. Quite angry at times...

Recently with several weeks in Indonesia, I saw more foreign women with local Indo guys than the other way around...some older, some similar ages.

Funniest was in a restaurant we were in and a hot young blonde girl dating her probable surf teacher with a six pack and just sitting there, not talking, him drinking soda and she beer....staring out into space all night, awkward silences much......but bet the sex was good.

I expect this trend will keep on growing.

female sex tourists...well I never

[TheSpade]

When a women goes abroad and sleeps with local men it was a romantic getaway or holiday romance. There's no talk of her taking advantage of him because he's less well off financially or talk of him being a gold digger or hooker.

When a man goes abroad and sleeps with local girls he's a sex tourist, she's a poor abused hooker, he's taking advantage of him and using his money to buy her.

[Munger]

When you see an older guy with a much younger girl, you know he sliding down a slippery slope.

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man, regardless of how nice or good looking he was. NO.

Yet a woman will put up with a older rich guy at least for a little while.

Women love money, men love sex. Its just a balancing act, get it right and you have a long and happy marriage.

My uncle is 90, his wife is 93, they have been married for 67 years. They have never had any money, just worked.

Your ''theory'' is crap.

You sound like a 15 year old that hasn't a clue about INDIVIDUAL folks thoughts on their lives, just what's in your trousers.

You need to take a chill pill "transam". this raw nerve of yours. Are you the same age as your thai wife ? NO

[Munger]

Thai women like older Thai men because they age much better than Western men. No suntan and not bald.

I hope bm "transam", does not read this.

[transam]

When you see an older guy with a much younger girl, you know he sliding down a slippery slope.

Let me ask you this, regardless of culture or religion, have you ever known a woman marry and stay married to a broke man, regardless of how nice or good looking he was. NO.

Yet a woman will put up with a older rich guy at least for a little while.

Women love money, men love sex. Its just a balancing act, get it right and you have a long and happy marriage.

My uncle is 90, his wife is 93, they have been married for 67 years. They have never had any money, just worked.

Your ''theory'' is crap.

You sound like a 15 year old that hasn't a clue about INDIVIDUAL folks thoughts on their lives, just what's in your trousers.

You need to take a chill pill "transam". this raw nerve of yours. Are you the same age as your thai wife ? NO

No , she's older than me.

[somchaiyatt]

Thai women like older Thai men because they age much better than Western men. No suntan and not bald.

I hope bm "transam", does not read this.

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

[transam]

Thai women like older Thai men because they age much better than Western men. No suntan and not bald.

I hope bm "transam", does not read this.

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

Rubbish................

[JLCrab]

Advice from Col Saito in Bridge Over The River Kwai to the (mostly) English labor camp prisoners: Be Happy In Your Work

Collective advice to those older gents on Thai Visa: Be Happy in Your Delusion, or, whatever you think you've got, that ain't it.

[somchaiyatt]

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

Rubbish................

I am very factual person. Google good for some things like culture trend. You type Thai Male movie star, in google. Type Thai male TV star. Type Thai male superstar. Return will be men with very much hair. I think I am correct. Movie star mirror what culture thinks is sexy and handsome. What do Thai girls dream about? Korean male superstar. Google that one.

[JLCrab]

For Kuhn Possum -- from the movie The Last Waltz Robbie Robertson describing the job offer he got in about 1960:

Robbie Robertson He called me up, and I said, "Sure I'd like a job. What does it mean? What do I do?" And he said, "Well, son, you won't make much money, but you'll get more p-ssy than Frank Sinatra."

[Rob8891]

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

Rubbish................

I am very factual person. Google good for some things like culture trend. You type Thai Male movie star, in google. Type Thai male TV star. Type Thai male superstar. Return will be men with very much hair. I think I am correct. Movie star mirror what culture thinks is sexy and handsome. What do Thai girls dream about? Korean male superstar. Google that one.

Thanks, Somchaiyatt, you've just give my lady and I the best laugh of the day. What utter borax you posted........alternatively, what Transam said.

[transam]

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

Rubbish................

I am very factual person. Google good for some things like culture trend. You type Thai Male movie star, in google. Type Thai male TV star. Type Thai male superstar. Return will be men with very much hair. I think I am correct. Movie star mirror what culture thinks is sexy and handsome. What do Thai girls dream about? Korean male superstar. Google that one.

Thanks, Somchaiyatt, you've just give my lady and I the best laugh of the day. What utter borax you posted........alternatively, what Transam said.

The guy doesn't believe movie stars wear wigs either................

[somchaiyatt]

I am very factual person. Google good for some things like culture trend. You type Thai Male movie star, in google. Type Thai male TV star. Type Thai male superstar. Return will be men with very much hair. I think I am correct. Movie star mirror what culture thinks is sexy and handsome. What do Thai girls dream about? Korean male superstar. Google that one.

Thanks, Somchaiyatt, you've just give my lady and I the best laugh of the day. What utter borax you posted........alternatively, what Transam said.

What movie stars look like and what they wear is what a society thinks is handsome or beautiful. If long hair is in then they wear a wig if they have short hair because that is what people pay to see.

Once upon a time chubby women were in hence Marlyn Monroe later it was skinny women. It is a fashion trend or a look. Now in Asia the look is K pop. I'm not making anything up. I gave you facts on google the first 100 guys had full heads of hair. It is what Thai women like.

Google Thai female superstar not one of them is built like Marylyn Monroe. Now don't give me some flame or anecdotal two people you know. If you don't agree OK back it up. I give you good facts and you call me rubbish. That is not nice. I give you fact not emotion. You give me fact not emotion.

Do you debate the fact that movie stars appearance reflect the fashion trends and current likes and dislikes of society?

Take a look at "Thunder Atlas." It is the Asian GQ and what Asian woman find handsome in a man today. Take a look and tell me how many shaved heads you see?

[Munger]

Thai women like older Thai men because they age much better than Western men. No suntan and not bald.

I hope bm "transam", does not read this.

Thai people are taught from childhood to think of bald to mean Monk. When a Thai woman sees bald she think of the Wat and not men and sex.

You want to know what turns on Thai women look at K pop. Monks are bald and lady should not sit next to Monk on the bus, Lady should not touch bald Monk. Bald in Thailand means no no sex.

Rubbish................

Not rubbish, thai woman do not like bald men, period. Again "transam" that raw nerve of yours.

[transam]

@Fishmunger.

When I came to LOS I had some hair, decided to shave it all off. Guess what, wife and l have a kiss cuddle ever morning. Hmmmmmmmm, wonder why. Whats inside does not change.

OH, how old are you Mr.Hairy ?

[cornishcarlos]

Mr Munga, my wife likes baldies..... I will let her know that you say she doesn't like them, period