giddyup Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 OMG, old men giving money to pretty young women....now that NEVER happens in farang land lmao All the guys I've met who send money regularly to bar girls when they get back home, are in fact young, or at least younger than 40. The older guys are smarter and wiser and their peckers don't rule their brains. Met an English guy last year in an expat wateringhole in Buriram the guy was already living there six years on a retirement visa and could just not believe he could buy a car and motorbike in his own name after being told so by many expats,apparently he was complaining about his wifes gambling habits and things with engines and wheels would dissappear from time to time.true story so age has nothing to do with it. I agree, stupid is as stupid does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Jesus Christ, this thread is like watching an episode of Lost....I've totally lost the plot! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 So just because a girl has a sponsor sending her money, she has to be monogamous? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheSpade Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 (edited) Why would some guy in England send money to a massage girl every month when he could find a great girl at home and sleep together every night. The thing is he obviously cannot find a great girl at home. I'd wager he is unable to find ANY girl at home hence him being a hopeless sad case who's sending money to massage girls just so he can secure sex with her once a year when he's on holiday. Just think if he wasn't sending 20k baht once a month to her he could spend more time in Thailand. Instead he sponsors a hooker who thinks he is a mug and sleeps with loads of men. In Chiang Mai I have another friend...she is young, beautiful and married with a farang. She owns a hair shop in Tha Pae Road, always full of women.....paying 300thb for her each time she writes and translates e-mails they send and receive from farangs outside Thailand...Looooong love letters in English. All those women are low class, uneducated women, speaking only Thai. Nice little business model there. Clever girl. Edited September 26, 2013 by TheSpade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyTwo Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 I know a 20YO Canadian guy sending a 30YO Thai lady 20k a month. If it makes him happy, why not? Cheaper than getting married in the UK, and no risk to your house and pension. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 In Chiang Mai I have another friend...she is young, beautiful and married with a farang. She owns a hair shop in Tha Pae Road, always full of women.....paying 300thb for her each time she writes and translates e-mails they send and receive from farangs outside Thailand I'm liking the Entrepreneurship of this lady ... Diversification of her business and providing her client base with 2 services. She's a winner ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 What were we supposed to do, tell him to stop sending the money? alt=coffee1.gif> Ahh well he stopped now anyway. Well, yes actually. If you had any pride or self-respect, of course. <deleted>. The money was sent to the girl not to him. She made the decision to share it with him. Ok, personally, I wouldn't have taken it but not out of some sense of fairplay to a tool who was dumb enough to send money to a girl he hardly ever saw. The indignation of some of the outraged on this complete non-issue is staggering. I can only deduce that some them have been sponsors themselves. What I find naive is thinking that a girl who will openly disrespect and scam a sponsor, will somehow treat you any differently when a better catch comes along. You know, monkey branching. Or do you think that you are so special that a girl who has no qualms about scamming will not leave you in the dust later on? Several years on, I don't find these things funny or intriguing anymore, I find it straight up repulsive. I disagree with that. I'm in a gikship with a woman right now who has two sponsors - one a fellow Brit, the other a German. Both knew exactly what she did when they met her. The Brit knows she still "works" but doesn't really give a toss (smart guy) but he likes her so pays her rent. The German sends ฿60,000 every month and pleads with her to get a "proper" job. She tells him she has a job at a marketing company but, in reality, she's out on the lash 3 or 4 times a week using his stipend to buy bottles of Jack Daniels with her friends at some of the more upmarket joints and one or two times a week at my place for the "HardenedSoul Sessions". No disrespect towards me whatsoever; no scamming; no demands for money. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 I'm in a gikship with a woman right now who has two sponsors - one a fellow Brit, the other a German. Both knew exactly what she did when they met her. The Brit knows she still "works" but doesn't really give a toss (smart guy) but he likes her so pays her rent. The German sends ฿60,000 every month and pleads with her to get a "proper" job. She tells him she has a job at a marketing company but, in reality, she's out on the lash 3 or 4 times a week using his stipend to buy bottles of Jack Daniels with her friends at some of the more upmarket joints and one or two times a week at my place for the "HardenedSoul Sessions". No disrespect towards me whatsoever; no scamming; no demands for money. "HardenedSoul Sessions" ... I have a new expression to add to the vernacular. Cheers HC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 If it makes him happy, why not? Agreed ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 I know a 20YO Canadian guy sending a 30YO Thai lady 20k a month. If it makes him happy, why not? Cheaper than getting married in the UK, and no risk to your house and pension. Because it's NOT making him happy, is it? Contrary to what the "losers-in-love" would have us believe, paying a woman not to take portions off other men is NOT a recipe for happiness. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paangjang Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 What were we supposed to do, tell him to stop sending the money? alt=coffee1.gif> Ahh well he stopped now anyway. Well, yes actually. If you had any pride or self-respect, of course. <deleted>. The money was sent to the girl not to him. She made the decision to share it with him. Ok, personally, I wouldn't have taken it but not out of some sense of fairplay to a tool who was dumb enough to send money to a girl he hardly ever saw. The indignation of some of the outraged on this complete non-issue is staggering. I can only deduce that some them have been sponsors themselves. What I find naive is thinking that a girl who will openly disrespect and scam a sponsor, will somehow treat you any differently when a better catch comes along. You know, monkey branching. Or do you think that you are so special that a girl who has no qualms about scamming will not leave you in the dust later on? Several years on, I don't find these things funny or intriguing anymore, I find it straight up repulsive. I disagree with that. I'm in a gikship with a woman right now who has two sponsors - one a fellow Brit, the other a German. Both knew exactly what she did when they met her. The Brit knows she still "works" but doesn't really give a toss (smart guy) but he likes her so pays her rent. The German sends ฿60,000 every month and pleads with her to get a "proper" job. She tells him she has a job at a marketing company but, in reality, she's out on the lash 3 or 4 times a week using his stipend to buy bottles of Jack Daniels with her friends at some of the more upmarket joints and one or two times a week at my place for the "HardenedSoul Sessions". No disrespect towards me whatsoever; no scamming; no demands for money. Gikship has to be word of the day. Obviously at first i didn't like someone else sending her money. I said it had to stop or we had to stop. She came up with the idea of 50/50. Her mother explained to me how Marjorie doesn't give a damn about him as he's over 50! (Younger than her parents) They had no respect for him and said it was sex tourism. We were both 23/24 years old. She hadn't seen him in nearly a year and he had a good job, so anyway she talked me round. I agreed a 50/50 split on the $2000 per month sounded sweet. We enjoyed the extra money as did her family. They knew what was going on as did everyone else in the resort we worked at. Everone thought it was funny, it was dragged up at nearly every outing or party we were having. Not a scam at all. He sent money to her, she accepted it. If she decided to give half to me to keep me happy then that was fine an dandy with me. Can't see how i was "pimping her out" as someone mentioned. He was in his 50s for gawd sake, did he think they had a future? She was younger than his own kids and less than half his age. Silly o'le bugger. More money than sense. That was years ago anyway, Marjorie is now studying in Shanghai and i'm working here. That old silver fox has probably popped his clogs by now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amykat Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 What were we supposed to do, tell him to stop sending the money? alt=coffee1.gif> Ahh well he stopped now anyway. Well, yes actually. If you had any pride or self-respect, of course. <deleted>. The money was sent to the girl not to him. She made the decision to share it with him. Ok, personally, I wouldn't have taken it but not out of some sense of fairplay to a tool who was dumb enough to send money to a girl he hardly ever saw. The indignation of some of the outraged on this complete non-issue is staggering. I can only deduce that some them have been sponsors themselves. What I find naive is thinking that a girl who will openly disrespect and scam a sponsor, will somehow treat you any differently when a better catch comes along. You know, monkey branching. Or do you think that you are so special that a girl who has no qualms about scamming will not leave you in the dust later on? Several years on, I don't find these things funny or intriguing anymore, I find it straight up repulsive. I disagree with that. I'm in a gikship with a woman right now who has two sponsors - one a fellow Brit, the other a German. Both knew exactly what she did when they met her. The Brit knows she still "works" but doesn't really give a toss (smart guy) but he likes her so pays her rent. The German sends ฿60,000 every month and pleads with her to get a "proper" job. She tells him she has a job at a marketing company but, in reality, she's out on the lash 3 or 4 times a week using his stipend to buy bottles of Jack Daniels with her friends at some of the more upmarket joints and one or two times a week at my place for the "HardenedSoul Sessions". No disrespect towards me whatsoever; no scamming; no demands for money. Of course she doesn't "scam you, demand money, or disrepect you" you are the "gik" of a hooker, scam artist. I somehow fail to be impressed when men here, brag about how they get sex for "free" from hookers! Or how they think it is fine/great, to be having sex, while the partner is on the phone with her other lovers who pay her! I guess you can't demand full attention, beggars can't be choosers ...and all that, right? I wonder what your male freinds are like ...in the mafia, credit card scanners, or what? I wonder if your real life job could be "financial advisor" and why don't you help your "gik" manage her money for the future, rather than pissing it all away? Oh, right, you don't give a damn about her, live and let live, you are getting what you want and for free, or the "other guys" are paying for it ...how elegant! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paangjang Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Now your starting to make sense Amykat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 It has been my observation in life that people who are truly at peace with the choices they've made/happy with their lives, do not feel a need to brag about or defend it.. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 It has been my observation in life that people who are truly at peace with the choices they've made/happy with their lives, do not feel a need to brag about or defend it.. How true, you are a wise lady. ........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 It looks like some people justify wrongdoing. It seems that some people condemn wrongdoing. Good is good, wrong is wrong. Judging depends on how 1 stands in life. Eye of the beholder. If i would be a man like our Paanjang the mirror would crack everytime everytime i stand in front of it. Naivity and trust is a slim line. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post denby45 Posted September 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted September 26, 2013 There was a time when i lived in the Philippines. Me and my girlfriend were being supported by her ex. We were being western unioned $2000 per month by this fella! Went on for over a year. We split the money 50/50 and saved it up. I was earning a good wage, as we she. Plus we got this $1K per month coming in! We were living really well. He arrived at our house one night.... Poor fella was heartbroken, on the next flight off the island. Shame, we enjoyed the extra cash.... Sucker alt=cheesy.gif width=32 height=20> Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, perhaps you are being suckered in some way too. I think so. alt=whistling.gif width=19 height=18> Not at all. she never cost me a buck. I had my fun then off i went to Thailand. You can look at it like i made $12,000 out of the filipina or the Swedish guy. Either way, i did alright out of it.... WOW congratulation you really are my hero. Well done. Look don't listen to the guys on here who put you down for being an <deleted>. Good luck in Thailand and I hope you can keep up the good work. Here's a tip for you. There are many beggars over there and they always leave a cup in front of them filled with cash. You can grab the cash and run away. They can't do a thing because they have no legs and stuff or they have a baby with them and can't run after you at all. Easy pickings for a bloke like you Hahahah Good luck Den . 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post amykat Posted September 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted September 26, 2013 (edited) Back to the OP ...regarding the sponsors who are stupid, or other derogatory names ... personally I consider those men probably very nice men, for the most part, who are probably naive, but naive because they don't have massive experience with sex workers, 3rd world countries, and sex workers in 3rd world countries, and IF you DO have a lot of experience in those areas, it really isn't something to brag about, so how can you insult a person who doesn't have this experience and is trying to be helpful, etc?? But anyway, IF you are a guy who insists on insulting and denigrating those men, who are not as "experienced as you" as in "they don't even know how to come to the poorest countries in the world like PI, and get sex for FREE from those very same girls" ..or even get PAID from those hookers/poor girls trying to improve their lives ...than what does that say about you? If you think these guys are pathetic, as you seem to, yet you are eating up their SCRAPS. You are in their trash can so-to-speak ...picking up what is left over, and paid for by them. That to me is pretty pathetic! And you also are "naive" enough to BRAG about it!!! So really, who are the idiots, can someone remind me please? Edited September 26, 2013 by amykat 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 OK this thread, which was on shaky ground from the get-go, seems to have fallen into people bashing each other. Some warnings have been given, some people are now on a (deserved) holiday, and to avoid there having to be more of same, thread is closed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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