radfem Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 I was informed by the Head of English that I should be wearing colors of mourning for the next month. Of course, today, I chose my bright pink skirt and sweater for the occasion. should I have been aware of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 Are you aware that the Supreme Patriarch passed away on Thursday evening? For your info: Palace extends court mourning for the Supreme Patriarch Thailand in Mourning Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radfem Posted October 28, 2013 Author Share Posted October 28, 2013 Thank you. I was aware. I was just unaware of the requirements for clothing. I am the brightest color on my campus today and feel I am somehow being disrespectful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richardjm65 Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 I'd suggest that somewhat more sober-coloured clothes might be more appropriate during the mourning period. Or, I noticed this morning, that the Tesco Lotus staff are wearing a small, discreet black ribbon bow on their sleeve. That should show your sympathy quite well, without plunging yourself into an all-black outfit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evadgib Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 (edited) ....or something that passes as a black armband just above your left elbow. Edited October 28, 2013 by evadgib Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kikoman Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 Whether you are Buddhist or not, the fact that you are a government employee it would be respectful to follow the customs of the country at this time! Good Luck, Cheers: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayned Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 White or black are the normal colors. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jasun Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 Black is the colour for funerals and mourning. It was all black for a long time when Srinagarinda (Somdet Ya) passed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluetongue Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 I'm struggling a bit with this. The OP who is an English teacher thought that wearing bright pink was suitable for mourning, but on arrival found out her attire was the brightest colour around and she feels disrespectful. Should she have known?. Well she could have asked the Head of English when she was informed about the requirement or she could have a tad of intelligence and realised that perhaps bright pink might not be the colour of mourning. And then join the forum to flaunt this stupidity. Hmm. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radfem Posted October 30, 2013 Author Share Posted October 30, 2013 No, I did not think that pink was an appropriate color for mourning. Having just returned to school from break, I was unaware of any 30 day mourning and that it impacted how one would dress for school. I was simply wondering if this was something I should have picked up on without it having to be told to me. Thank you very much for your productive response. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeijoshinCool Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 No, I did not think that pink was an appropriate color for mourning. Having just returned to school from break, I was unaware of any 30 day mourning and that it impacted how one would dress for school. I was simply wondering if this was something I should have picked up on without it having to be told to me. Thank you very much for your productive response. Don't think so, presuming your neither Thai, nor Buddhist. Don't worry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellodolly Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 No, I did not think that pink was an appropriate color for mourning. Having just returned to school from break, I was unaware of any 30 day mourning and that it impacted how one would dress for school. I was simply wondering if this was something I should have picked up on without it having to be told to me. Thank you very much for your productive response. Don't think so, presuming your neither Thai, nor Buddhist. Don't worry about it. I have heard nothing about special clothing. Trust me if there was my wife would see to it that I was wearing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 Black is the usual colour worn at Thai funerals or as a mark of respect for a deceased. Although there are some who may vary the colours, wearing bright pink in respect to the dead would definitely classify someone as the ignoramus of the decade, even in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayned Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I was teaching when the last Princess died. I was asked by the school to wear black trousers with either a white or black shirt. Had to go buy a couple as I hate black in a hot country! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 No, I did not think that pink was an appropriate color for mourning. Having just returned to school from break, I was unaware of any 30 day mourning and that it impacted how one would dress for school. I was simply wondering if this was something I should have picked up on without it having to be told to me. Thank you very much for your productive response. Don't think so, presuming your neither Thai, nor Buddhist. Don't worry about it. Actually, on this point I have to disagree. He's employed as a Teacher, thus employed by a Thai school. Accordingly he should respect the wishes of the school ... irrelevant of his personal religious beliefs. Once he's home, he can run around naked ... but while representing the Thai Education system, he should show proper respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I was teaching when the last Princess died. I was asked by the school to wear black trousers with either a white or black shirt. Had to go buy a couple as I hate black in a hot country! I have to agree. The mix of black and white is perfectly acceptable. Most likely why you seldom see Thais in the white shirt is that it emphases their dark skin. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somtamnication Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I wore yellow on Monday, first day of school. All teachers wore black. Ran home at lunch and changed to black polo shirt. Farang jaidee!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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