Popular Post addy77 Posted January 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 27, 2014 I've met dozens of Pattaya girls on dating sites. 99% were enjoyable. I'm sensitive that some are current or ex bar girls. To be on the safe side, I'll either ask what they want for compensation and/or tell them straight out that I cannot give them any money. It's a case by case basis.Tonight's girl wanted payment even though her dating profile is all about wanting love, marriage, etc.I put her purse, phone, and shoes in the stair case knowing she would leave my room to retrieve them. I then try closing the door and she grabs the door frame to prevent the closure. I didn't see this in the dark and closed the door on her hand! Oh no!She freed her hand and finally left, sobbing. 90 minutes, she came back with taxi boys who were pounding on my door. They all left and that's how it ended. If you meet girls online, it may seem awkward but it's best to ask what they are looking for. I think it's up to the girl to say she wants compensation today. That's our contract for me to agree or disagree with before sex. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post marstons Posted January 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 27, 2014 most of the ones i met have been bad from Pattaya, spread your search and stick to Bankok girls, maybe ask them to send copy of ID so they are who they say they are. Transfer bus fare and some phone credit job done. No kids and a degree, tour of walking street and bobs your uncle.. Pattaya ones seem to have photos in luxury hotels or in bikini's in nice pools. Even guys shoes in the picture or a watch. not to bright but BKK different class and can hold a conversation. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JLCrab Posted January 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 27, 2014 Sorry OP but nobody anymore wants to hear about dozens-- scores or hundreds required before your opinion carries much around these parts anymore. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jackr Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rct99q Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Yes, well, there you go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bernard Flint Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Precisely!! Very well put. This is Thailand; "good girls" do NOT go back to your room with you on a first date. Or any date, for that matter. The OP is just too cheap (or too conceited and full of himself) to pay for it. Nothing wrong with paying for it, nothing at all. Good girls rarely go back with a stranger,whether thai or not 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post geriatrickid Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Well, based upon the Pattaya online news sites, it seems taking ladyboys back is far more dangerous. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernard Flint Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Taken dozens???? is that 2 or more dozens???? Do u live here or a very quick worker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Berkshire Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. 23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umbanda Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. Contrary what people say here...Very many good girls will go to your place on the first date to have sex....even just hours after meeting, very many, but good girls will feel insulted if you ask how much its want for sex....If you need to ask, it is just because you are not very sure about what kind of woman are you dealing to. In that case, and if you are looking for free sex, do not ask, do not take to your place, and let it go. Most of the times Thai women do not understand English well, but will make you believe the opposite, and that is a recipe for wrong interpretation and problems. Again.....Women and men have the same sex drive, just with different approach. Bar girls and prostitutes have other interest attached with that, and sex drive doesn't count, to fake it well counts. It is part of the "job". With so many good girls in Thailand looking in have a good time...why take risk with bad girls? Sorry..I do not get it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Berkshire Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. Contrary what people say here...Very many good girls will go to your place on the first date to have sex....even just hours after meeting, very many, but good girls will feel insulted if you ask how much its want for sex....If you need to ask, it is just because you are not very sure about what kind of woman are you dealing to. In that case, and if you are looking for free sex, do not ask, do not take to your place, and let it go. Most of the times Thai women do not understand English well, but will make you believe the opposite, and that is a recipe for wrong interpretation and problems. Again.....Women and men have the same sex drive, just with different approach. Bar girls and prostitutes have other interest attached with that, and sex drive doesn't count, to fake it well counts. It is part of the "job". With so many good girls in Thailand looking in have a good time...why take risk with bad girls? Sorry..I do not get it. Boy, I disagree with so many of your statements here. Firstly, "good girls" do not go to your place on the first date to have sex. If they do, they are not "good girls." Not in Thailand. And men and women absolutely do not have the same sex drive. There are exceptions, of course. Anyways, we can agree to disagree. 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rayongchelsea Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. Contrary what people say here...Very many good girls will go to your place on the first date to have sex....even just hours after meeting, very many, but good girls will feel insulted if you ask how much its want for sex....If you need to ask, it is just because you are not very sure about what kind of woman are you dealing to. In that case, and if you are looking for free sex, do not ask, do not take to your place, and let it go. Most of the times Thai women do not understand English well, but will make you believe the opposite, and that is a recipe for wrong interpretation and problems. Again.....Women and men have the same sex drive, just with different approach. Bar girls and prostitutes have other interest attached with that, and sex drive doesn't count, to fake it well counts. It is part of the "job". With so many good girls in Thailand looking in have a good time...why take risk with bad girls? Sorry..I do not get it. That is complete and utter nonsense. I have a half Thai daughter, she and her friends are conservative, have long term boyfriends..this is the norm.. Sent from my iPad using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnniey Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Why are you in Pattaya? If you do not want a prostitute do not live in a brothel and do not do online dating. Find a normal girl the normal way if you can but why are you in Pattaya if you do not need to pay for sex? Sent from my GT-I9152 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post brewsterbudgen Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 Why not just stick to bargirls? They are far less complicated, generally sexier and very good at what they do. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tmymaimee Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Did you not ask her about her work? Its easy to find beautiful, non hooker girls in Pattaya provided you're single, you live there and are looking for someone in your own age bracket. Ask her what she likes to do in her free time. I've met a stunning girl in Pattaya and she had no intent of coming to my room until she knew me better. A girl that wants a serious relationship will never ask about money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kirstymelb101 Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Why are you in Pattaya? If you do not want a prostitute do not live in a brothel and do not do online dating. Find a normal girl the normal way if you can but why are you in Pattaya if you do not need to pay for sex? Sent from my GT-I9152 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Exactly what I was thinking. If the OP is so afraid of meeting x-bars online, why the hell does he reside in Pattaya? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kirstymelb101 Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 Why not just stick to bargirls? They are far less complicated, generally sexier and very good at what they do. Maybe because humans seek real love and compassion......... 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upnotover Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Why not just stick to bargirls? They are far less complicated, generally sexier and very good at what they do. Maybe because humans seek real love and compassion......... ....but that doesn't seem to be what the OP is seeking. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Showbags Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Just pay the ones that want it, no biggy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackr Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Well, based upon the Pattaya online news sites, it seems taking ladyboys back is far more dangerous. Indeed, I deleted '/boys', didn't want to wind the poor lad up. Op: but good girl or no, is it really worth the risk, even taking one back to your hotel, and esp' in that town? Once they know where you live, game over! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celso Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 (edited)   Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Agreed - at least - don't take girls you met on the internet to your home on the first night! I think your 99% rate is wrong... there are a lot of crazies and damaged goods on those sites. You have to tread carefully.... scope them out before taking them back. What is to stop her coming back again? Or even if it goes well, what if she is a clinger, falls in love, and starts turning up at your room unannounced? If you really cant wait to have a shag, at least do it at theirs. Edited January 28, 2014 by celso Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. Contrary what people say here...Very many good girls will go to your place on the first date to have sex....even just hours after meeting, very many, but good girls will feel insulted if you ask how much its want for sex....If you need to ask, it is just because you are not very sure about what kind of woman are you dealing to. In that case, and if you are looking for free sex, do not ask, do not take to your place, and let it go. Most of the times Thai women do not understand English well, but will make you believe the opposite, and that is a recipe for wrong interpretation and problems. Again.....Women and men have the same sex drive, just with different approach. Bar girls and prostitutes have other interest attached with that, and sex drive doesn't count, to fake it well counts. It is part of the "job". With so many good girls in Thailand looking in have a good time...why take risk with bad girls? Sorry..I do not get it. Boy, I disagree with so many of your statements here. Firstly, "good girls" do not go to your place on the first date to have sex. If they do, they are not "good girls." Not in Thailand. And men and women absolutely do not have the same sex drive. There are exceptions, of course. Anyways, we can agree to disagree. Maybe one day, someone will provide an irrefutable definition of what constitutes a "good girl". 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belg Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 tip: go to HER place and sneak out when ur done, pretending you are out to buy sigarettes, or some other sob story 555 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prestburypark Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Sounds like a cheap charlie scamming working girls for their (small) consideration. The marriage proposal wasn't expected on the first night sunshine, some dollar for her time was. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metapod Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Precisely!! Very well put. This is Thailand; "good girls" do NOT go back to your room with you on a first date. Or any date, for that matter. The OP is just too cheap (or too conceited and full of himself) to pay for it. Nothing wrong with paying for it, nothing at all. Good girls rarely go back with a stranger,whether thai or not Nonsense. You old farts know nothing about girls. I always get a laugh at all these old blokes giving their advice on girls in Thailand. Specially the old "good girls" moniker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loles Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Sounds like a cheap charlie scamming working girls for their (small) consideration. The marriage proposal wasn't expected on the first night sunshine, some dollar for her time was. + 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenSnapper Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 Here's an idea, op; avoid taking girls you just met back to your room. Precisely!! Very well put. This is Thailand; "good girls" do NOT go back to your room with you on a first date. Or any date, for that matter. The OP is just too cheap (or too conceited and full of himself) to pay for it. Nothing wrong with paying for it, nothing at all. Good girls rarely go back with a stranger,whether thai or not Nonsense. You old farts know nothing about girls. I always get a laugh at all these old blokes giving their advice on girls in Thailand. Specially the old "good girls" moniker. Has nothing to do with age. Just the common beta males without much experience with women, often barfine experts and white knights. I just don't understand why these types always give dating advice when they obviously have no clues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Berkshire Posted January 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2014 OP, if you want the girl to be honest about compensation, then you should be equally honest as well. Meaning, you should tell her from the outset that you're only interested in free sex. Contrary what people say here...Very many good girls will go to your place on the first date to have sex....even just hours after meeting, very many, but good girls will feel insulted if you ask how much its want for sex....If you need to ask, it is just because you are not very sure about what kind of woman are you dealing to. In that case, and if you are looking for free sex, do not ask, do not take to your place, and let it go. Most of the times Thai women do not understand English well, but will make you believe the opposite, and that is a recipe for wrong interpretation and problems. Again.....Women and men have the same sex drive, just with different approach. Bar girls and prostitutes have other interest attached with that, and sex drive doesn't count, to fake it well counts. It is part of the "job". With so many good girls in Thailand looking in have a good time...why take risk with bad girls? Sorry..I do not get it. Boy, I disagree with so many of your statements here. Firstly, "good girls" do not go to your place on the first date to have sex. If they do, they are not "good girls." Not in Thailand. And men and women absolutely do not have the same sex drive. There are exceptions, of course. Anyways, we can agree to disagree. Maybe one day, someone will provide an irrefutable definition of what constitutes a "good girl". Understand. I'm sure there's differences of opinion in this regard, but I would think that a "good girl" refers to one who is "marriage-material." (not a good definition in Thailand, where many farangs would happily marry a hooker) For starters, I'd say a "good Thai girl" is one that doesn't sleep around. Conservative/traditional Thai girls are less likely to just slide into the sack with some guy she's just met, let alone a foreigner in Pattaya. If said tart was willing to spread her legs on the very first date, you can be relatively certain that she's done that before. That's not marriage-material in my book, although some may disagree. Perhaps I'm a bit old-fashioned. So if others disagree and they meet a Thai girl who would gladly do the nasty within hours of meeting, marry her right away! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recycler Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 It's not internet dating that goes bad, you are bad requiring girls to come to your room for free sex. What do you expect if you date girls by internet in Pattaya, HiSo girls with Chula degrees? You deserve to be beaten up real good if you slam her fingers between the door and don't even take care of what you caused! Pattaya is going bad with lowlife cheap charlies like you walking around! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realenglish1 Posted January 28, 2014 Share Posted January 28, 2014 To resolve any problem before it begins I do internet dating and have a policy never to date a girl that comes from Pattaya or who says she is a massage girl Most are hookers and I want nothing to do with them I have found there are a lot of good girls I have met from good families I always ask where their family lives and the closer the family generally the better the girl is I mean distance from them If a girl lives here and says her family lives in Udon them I want to know where they work and for how long Lots of poor woman looking for banks and a lot that are really looking for a nice guy Hey nice girls also <deleted> 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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