Western Women: Lonely in Bangkok

[warriorbangkok]

Hi.

Over the years I've been here I've noticed that many Western women, who would be considered attractive in their native homelands, are shunned by men in Thailand generally.

I feel sorry for these lonely, desperate women. What advice would you give to help these ladies? Here are some of my tips:

1. Get slim and make sure your hair is long. Look after your skin and make sure you look pretty at all times.

2. Dress nicely. I see so many professional Western women dressing far worse than their Thai counterparts. Wear nice dresses and nice shoes, and don't dress like you're lazily sleeping it out on the couch.

3. Smile more, and be nice. Lose the stuck - up "I'm better than you and you're not good enough for me" attitude. I think this is a kep point at which professional Thai women are far superior to Western women.

4. Speak nicely. Don't swear or use 'common, peasant-type' language. Again, professional Thai women speak far more nicely than their average Western counterparts.

5. Stop being an alcoholic - it looks bad

6. Smell nice - use deodorant and perfume and make sure you shower at least twice a day.

Well, these are my tips. Would anyone like to add some more?

[FalangBaa]

Replace the word "women" with "men" everywhere in your post and it's still equally applicable. What exactly is a "professional Thai woman"? Is that a matter of authenticity, as opposed to an "amateur Thai woman" which would be a ladyboy?

[edwardandtubs]

You seem to be projecting your own feelings of inadequacy onto western women. Maybe you should follow your own advice instead of worrying about them?

[thrilled]

They should post an ad on Craigslist,saying they are A farang female that would like to meet men for conversation,etc etc etc.

[smokie36]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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[Suradit69]

How exactly have you observed them being shunned? Unless you're following them around (super creepy) and actually watching them getting shot down repeatedly?

However you're reaching this conclusion about western women other than those you know well personally, you're spending way too much time investigating their supposedly lonely existences. Either you're a stalker or, as someone else said, you're projecting your own circumstances onto imaginary women you really know nothing about.

You need to find a full time "friend," real or inflatable, and not spend your time doing make-overs for people you have no connection with.

[HardenedSoul]

Attractive Western women in Bangkok are not shunned by men generally.

Ok so men who've just gotten used to paying their way into a woman's pants probably can't be bothered to rely on their personality but those guys who enjoy banter with educated, charming women and a break from pidgin English won't mind.

I know I don't

[sam sen]

dont know which swamp you inhabit but there are plenty of smart, attractive, slim, well dressed and smart western women living in my apartment block and non of them appear lonely!

hope you are not the kind of guy who needs to pay a female to be your friend, lover, gf, wife but i suspect you may be

[Razzler1973]

Haha, I am sure there are plenty of women with plenty of generalisations that apply to farang men in Thailand

[johnbarpic]

Good Job you have chosen the name warriorbangkok.. Because iI think you are going to need to be a very strong warrior. Making comments about ladies like that, lets hope for your sake they do not match your true identity with the TVF name.

Mind you not a bad idea if they did. then we have some good replies of the consequences on here also.!!

My advise is leave the country while you still can with your wedding tackle in tact. or may be it has been removed & this is your revenge I do hope you are a young person because your certainly have a lot to learn!!!!

[smokie36]

Attractive Western women in Bangkok are not shunned by men generally.

Ok so men who've just gotten used to paying their way into a woman's pants probably can't be bothered to rely on their personality but those guys who enjoy banter with educated, charming women and a break from pidgin English won't mind.

I know I don't

My Thai gf doesn't use pidgin English and nor do any of her female Western friends.

I suggest the OP wander down Thonglor or Ekkamai instead of Soi 4 of an evening and perhaps his eyes might widen along with his appendage.....

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[GrantSmith]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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I don't think he OP is Muslim, surely if he were, those pointers would have been A LOT different

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[smokie36]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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I don't think he OP is Muslim, surely if he were, those pointers would have been A LOT different

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I can't think what I must have meant?

[Bender]

the only one, that people avoid is you, OP, except in Thailand where you can rent some female.

[KarenBravo]

What a lot of fish he's caught with only one cast. Congratulations!

[Trickcyclist]

Sheeeesh! This is a wind-up, is it not???

[SantiSuk]

Has to be a troll. Nobody has those kind of attitudes any more - surely?

[MrWorldwide]

What a lot of fish he's caught with only one cast. Congratulations!

Bingo. I never cease to be surprised by how quickly some of us take the bait. Particularly love 'change the women to men' post - I guess I've spent way too long around Thai-based boards. There is always someone eager to yank our chains, and I suspect that he got the chuckle he was looking for.

[ajarnmarc]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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You see, we can learn something new everyday...

I didn't know Shi'ite had a personality?

Go figure.

I'm more of an eyes person,

myself.

[Suradit69]

Has to be a troll. Nobody has those kind of attitudes any more - surely?

I'd ask if you were new to Thai Visa, but with over 5000 posts, obviously you're not.

Most probably a troll, although his post must have certainly taken a disturbing amount of time to put together if only to get a rise out of people, which begs the question when does a troll's attempts to sound weird suggest something genuinely weird lying not too far below the surface?

Aside from that, surely you recognize that a lot of the off-the-wall posts at Thai Visa are pretty much what defines the "normal" thought process of a not insignificant number of contributors.

And this particular poster also wrote about the legality of killing someone ... the sort of premeditation that is anything but trollish.

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/697364-can-i-kill-a-burglar/page-3#entry7312414

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/689443-bangkok-missing-6-year-old-girl-feared-dead/page-2#entry7165927

Edited February 10, 2014 by Suradit69

[spermwhale]

Wow. You really opened up a can of worms with this one. Lots of presumptions on your part I think. Are you said that these women would never bother with a lowlife such as yourself?

Edited February 10, 2014 by spermwhale

[SOTIRIOS]

...if there is consensus about this post...poster...or imposter....why was it posted....???

[jimbeam1]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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+10

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[Mr Brown]

The OP shouldn't consider a change of profession to boxing. Especially after the way he led with his chin with this post.

[laobali]

What a lot of fish he's caught with only one cast. Congratulations!

'He' could also be a farang woman!

[DiamondKing]

What a pathetic piece of Shi'ite...

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HMMMMM after coming back from a recent holiday for a comment way less that the one above I am surprised your still here

[expat888]

Why is it that every time someone refers to the positive aspects of western women they say "if you want want good conversation". Are you saying that is all they are good for? Is that the only source of good conversation?

I personally don't look to western women to get "good conversation" and I'm not looking to banter with someone.

But this topic always reels in quick responses.

Edited February 10, 2014 by expat888

[stickylies]

TV... the joke continues.

[tingtongtingtong]

ThaiVisa the place where trolls are allowed to live

[H1w4yR1da]

It's obvious the OP is on a wind up.

And it appears to have succeeded with the Thonglor/Ekamai, 'my girlfriend's a Thai-Chinese hiso chula-bunny and I never oh to whore bars' crowd.

Well done!