webfact Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 EDITORIALWhen children kill their parentsThe NationTwo recent cases have sparked widespread horror and revulsion, with many asking what has gone wrong with the institution of the family in ThailandBANGKOK: -- In the last few weeks Thailand has witnessed two murder cases in which young men have apparently slain their parents and siblings.On March 8 a couple in Pathum Thani and their son were shot dead in their home by the eldest son, aged 19. On April 3 in Bangkok, a husband and wife and their elder son were killed in their home by two gunmen who the police say were hired by the couple's younger son, 22.Police say the accused in the first case had confessed to murdering his parents and younger brother in a fit of anger at being continuously scolded by his mother. He said she also broke a promise to buy him a car and, on the night of the murders, refused to let him use the family car to pick up his girlfriend because he was drinking.In the second case, police say, the slain couple's younger son and his close friend arranged the contract killing of his family. Police say the son, who had left home to live with a close friend, felt slighted by and angry with his parents for frequently comparing him to his successful elder brother, a police officer. His parents also owned land worth over Bt100 million and had bank deposits of more than Bt10 million, fuelling suspicion that a lust for inheritance was also a motive.The multiple murders have caused shock and dismay across the country. People are wondering what has gone wrong with the institution of the family. The possible motives of the perpetrators are being widely discussed on the social media. Expressions of disgust and horror have been coupled with disbelief as users ask who in their right mind would kill their own parents. Many are calling the crime unforgivable and demanding that the perpetrators be sentenced to death.Psychiatrists and experts on adolescent behaviour have attempted to shed light on the factors that lead young people to kill. Dr Panpimon Vipulakorn of the Mental Health Department has said the way some children are raised can drive them to use violence to try and solve problems. She said domineering parents who encourage competition among their children might cause rivalry that spills over into violence. Anchulee Thirawongpaisan of the Police Hospital said too much parental pressure and high expectations can spark aggression in their kids. Educator Sompong Jitradab of Chulalongkorn University pinpointed increasing materialism as a potential source of adolescent crime. Ticha Na Nakorn of the Kanchanaphisek Remand Home in Nakhon Pathom said lack of self-awareness and self-control were key factors behind murders committed by youngsters.American criminologist Kathleen Heide, who has studied patricide and matricide, believes most perpetrators had been abused or neglected and lacked any emotional attachment to their parents. Others, she says, were overindulged and had never established personal boundaries or respect for others. Either way, they had not learned ways to cope with anger and emotional distress and had resorted to murderous violence.Cases in which people kill their parents form part of the larger problem of domestic violence, which includes the murder of a spouse or partner, a sibling and even a child.Shocking though they are, such cases provide lessons we can use to lower the incidence of violence within the home. Parents should guide their children in how to deal with conflict in constructive rather than violent ways. Kids also need to be guarded from the toxic mental side effects of a diet of parental pressure and materialistic desires. The consequences of violence within the home are terrible for all involved. We can help reduce the frequency of such tragedies by becoming more aware of the deeper causes and tackling them before they explode into life-ending violence. -- The Nation 2014-04-10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MaxLee Posted April 10, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 10, 2014 (edited) "Two recent cases have sparked widespread horror and revulsion, with many asking what has gone wrong with the institution of the family in Thailand" And the answer is $$$$$$$$MONEY and GREED$$$$$$$ Edited April 10, 2014 by MaxLee 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rooney860 Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 100% True!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post espinoza Posted April 10, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 10, 2014 The answers are found in the value of life in Thailand. They barely make any soap opera without a lot of shooting and killing. If somebody gets killed, by crime, in the roads or any other place the reaction from the Thai society is "mai pen rai". 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puyai Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 Spoiled brats not getting what they want. That's what it seems like to me. When this happens in western countries the perpetrator it is usually classified with some sort of mental disorder. In the USA they say there is almost one parent killed by their child everyday. Must be their great gun laws... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lucjoker Posted April 10, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 10, 2014 Many Thai are cold blooded ,they don't feel remorse,never apologize,are never thankful,never satisfied,lazy,jealous,......,they also don't give *s......* about their own life and show this by driving around like idiots ,allow their 8 year old kids to drive a motorcycle without helmet ......totally lack of responsibility. The reason ? They still live in the "under the tree" age.The last 20 years brought so much development and the can't follow nor cope with this . It all went too fast ,their minds can not adapt .They want what they see on TV,Big C........don't have the money and they become unhappy and jealous to people who have more than them . Wonder why they dislike "farang"? Luckily it's not all of them ,but this class surely exist ,watch out for them on the roads ! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOOD Robin Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 Spoiled brats not getting what they want. That's what it seems like to me. When this happens in western countries the perpetrator it is usually classified with some sort of mental disorder. In the USA they say there is almost one parent killed by their child everyday. Must be their great gun laws... oh so true......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOOD Robin Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 Spoiled brats not getting what they want. That's what it seems like to me. When this happens in western countries the perpetrator it is usually classified with some sort of mental disorder. In the USA they say there is almost one parent killed by their child everyday. Must be their great gun laws... oh so true......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
antimedia Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 Spoiled brats not getting what they want. That's what it seems like to me. When this happens in western countries the perpetrator it is usually classified with some sort of mental disorder. In the USA they say there is almost one parent killed by their child everyday. Must be their great gun laws... Where have I heard that before, let me recall. Oh! yeah PTP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scully Posted April 10, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 10, 2014 The men and women in Thailand are like chalk and cheese. Girls are raised by a strict set of rules, helping out and doing as they are asked. Boys on the other hand are treated like gods and left a free rein. This is obviously a general statement and not true of all families but its a huge proportion. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tim armstrong Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 No one has mentioned the epidemic of technology addiction. I would guess that in any shopping mall on any given day 80% of people, particularly the young are glued to their I pad or phone. They are not all chatting to friends or taking 'selfies'. Too many are playing killing games where mutilation, blood and guts is normal. Even simple games have zero respect or concern for the types of characters they portray. Children, nuns, disabled people all get in on the killing spree. Is it any wonder then that respect for parents or anyone else is diminishing. Coupled with alcohol we hear daily of random king hits, glassing, and shootings for no reason. Some recent research has suggested that a significant effect of prolonged phone and i pad use is a loss of empathy. Its not just in Thailand. It seems almost that fear of death is no longer an obstacle to trying anything. Yes I am old, but I like that, at least I can still find meaning in everyday things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai at Heart Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 Wring those hands everyone! Hundred of thousands of young girls in the oldest profession, people trafficking and the list goes on. And now they worry about the institution of the family in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patrick Mills Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 I am from the US, retired to Thailand in November, what I have noticed is the total addiction for pretty much everyone, but mostly kids to cell phones, they are on them 24/7 not sure if they sleep. But when am walking in the mall, they always walk into me, they are glued to there phones, in restaurants people don't talk to each other anymore, they just play with there phones, it's like a bunch of Zombies, you are the only sane person, I never use my phone, only carry it with me in case I get lost. I think my wife is getting addicted now, always talking to the family, oh well I still have the dog to talk to. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belg Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 the new thai buddist way, want to get rich ? off your parents ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vogie Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 I am from the US, retired to Thailand in November, what I have noticed is the total addiction for pretty much everyone, but mostly kids to cell phones, they are on them 24/7 not sure if they sleep. But when am walking in the mall, they always walk into me, they are glued to there phones, in restaurants people don't talk to each other anymore, they just play with there phones, it's like a bunch of Zombies, you are the only sane person, I never use my phone, only carry it with me in case I get lost. I think my wife is getting addicted now, always talking to the family, oh well I still have the dog to talk to. No different from anywhere else in the world, walk around any mall in the UK and the youngsters (but not always the youngsters) have their mobiles stuck to their ears, very rude and inconsiderate to others. And even when crossing the road, they seem to lose all sense of reality with these must have accessarys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 I think this ''Thainess'' is coming to fruitation all around us now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hookedondhamma Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 the new thai buddist way, want to get rich ? off your parents ???? Some thai visa members are a special bunch, no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prakhonchai nick Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 One of the main problems is that they are not punished properly when they do break laws. Life is just one big joke to todays youngsters. Driving a motorbike at 9,10,11 years of age is a criminal offence, but the police stop traffic for these kids to enter school. The parents need to be punished,. the schools too, and the police should do their job. Impound the motorbikes, charge the parents a minimum of 5000baht to get them back.. No helmet--100 baht is a farce! No lights and they are never apprehended! Make punishment meaningful, and you will get results. And if anyone thinks my suggestions are harsh, bear in mind that you don't pay if you don't break the law! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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