Thongkorn Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 "But if she needs 2000b then I'm willing to pay her 1000b a day for helping me in the garden for two days. More than a fair rate. Should have seen her face drop." This is an amazing litmus test that's gone unappreciated in this thread so far. probably after seeing her knickers drop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudRight Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , Absolute rubbish I should introduce you to my 'friends' you would be very popular. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Av8or Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , Absolute rubbish Absolute truth... I've made the same mistakes too, almost never got the money back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eddie61 Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 You should have asked for 2 quickies in return, one on the spot. At least you would only have lost 1000... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donnie Brasco Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 (edited) Only 2000 baht. I said that I don't lend anybody money. But if she needs 2000b then I'm willing to pay her 1000b a day for helping me in the garden for two days. More than a fair rate. Should have seen her face drop. For the split second it was still there before disappearing faster than the Roadrunner. I love Thailand. Your story is SO indicative of the mores and attitudes here.In one or two phrases, your counter-proposal of actual WORK for money lowered this woman's self-conferred status from a "bidnett" woman to that of a common labourer. After all, it IS all about up and down, here. And the less exposure some of these geniuses have had to real business arrangements, the sillier the proposals. Hell, my wife who I assure you does NOT need to work was helping a "friend" of hers out with her *flat-as-pi55-on-a-plate* break- even Pratunam rag-trade stall. This "friend" had begged for her help claiming that anyone who worked "for" her had either cheated her, stolen from her or run off the moment they found a better situation. Wifey stepped in to help. We were soon to learn why no one else, family or friend was ever seen around there. This business-owning "friend" thought part of her role as an entrepreneur was to treat everyone like dirt. This included potential customers and fellow shopkeepers. She even expected her meals to come from everyone else's purchases. When this "friend" immediately turned around at one point and began treat my wife like a servant, my wife reminded her that she didn't need the money and she was just doing her a favour. The "friend's" reply ? "If you don't really need the money you should invest in my business" (the woman not only believed this she sought confirmation of this with anyone in the building who cared to listen by declaring anyone who had money would invest with her rather than work. The mess dragged on for way way longer than it should have because my wife simply felt sorry for the woman. It IS all about up and down here. That's the way Thais conduct themselves in their business dealings. And YOU, Som wat, were supposed to be "bottom" on this one. ;-) Nice play ;-) "Sometimes, 'fuggedabowdit' just means fuggedabowdit. . . . " Edited April 18, 2014 by Donnie Brasco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MobileContent Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 My grandfather in law came last year to see me and asked if he can borrow from me 3000 Baht to get his roof repaired and he will return it to me a week later. I gave it to him and after 6 days he came back and returned the 3000 Baht back. I told him to keep the 3000 Baht but he insisted of returning it to me. Nice family I married into. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ebean001 Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Never loan money to poor or family if you expect it to come back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamhar Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. Thats not Thaispeak, thats humanspeak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taff33 Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , You are 100% correct.Sent from my iPad using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
losworld Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 You will never get it back or rarely if so. Think of it as a gift not a loan because more likely than not that is what will be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 The OP must lead an extremely sad and boring life if all he has to do is create a thread with a few lines of Thai bashing in the hope that he will receive some supporting replies from others like himself of little education and intelligence. My advice to the OP and the ignoramuses that agree with him; is to get a life. There is an obvious disconnect here...from the reality of living in Thailand...obviously another die-hard Thai apologist... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vacuum Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 i claudius, on 17 Apr 2014 - 21:39, said: trainman34014, on 17 Apr 2014 - 21:28, said:In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , This is why you have to demand a 20% interest rate per month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regyai Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Just always explain that you cannot lend money on medical grounds as it always causes amnesia 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrissables Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , Very true, but my ex who borrowed has paid back with interest i did not ask for! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Rule No.1, NEVER lend money in LOS, especially if you a farang millionaire..............Trust me............ . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 My word, can't you tell its Friday Evening and the pubs must be open given some of the risible nonsense posted here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tmymaimee Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 This thread merely illustrates the class of people you associate with. Millions of Thais borrow money for mortgages, cars and so on and pay back every month. Going to an individual to borrow instead of relying on their savings or a bank loan is because they have no savings or no credit. You've never heard...ass, grass, or cash...no one rides for free? Not sure if this would translate into Thai the same. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywais Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 This thread merely illustrates the class of people you associate with. Millions of Thais borrow money for mortgages, cars and so on and pay back every month. Going to an individual to borrow instead of relying on their savings or a bank loan is because they have no savings or no credit. You've never heard...ass, grass, or cash...no one rides for free? Not sure if this would translate into Thai the same. You might want to look into how many default on those payments too, not a trivial number. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyDrinker Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 We've loaned a fair amount over the years and only had one defaulter who we still see regularly and are aware and sympathetic to his situation.. My philosophy and experience is that if someone needs a bit of money then they'll usually get it by fair or foul means. sad fact is that here in Thailand there are enough t foul means of getting a bit of money and it can be very easy for people to fall into the 'poverty trap'. I'm not rich but I appreciate the fact that with my relative wealth I have a certain moral responsibility to those less off around me who so often enrich my life here. I'd rather lose a few thousand than see someone's future or business destroyed by falling in with loan sharks who aren't nice people in ANY country. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amse Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Never Ever lend anyone money, period. Like throwing it in the wind. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Decade ago i lent money to a woman in Patong Beach. 5k. 3 months later after her being in Koh Samui, she came back to Patong Beach. I stayed in touch with her occasionally that time before. When back in Patong i reminded her about 5 k. Wait couple of days she replied. Told this to some friends and had a bet with them about her paying me back. They laughed....no way she is going to pay you back. 3 days later the girl called me and paid me back. Got the money and won the bet. I have lent money to friends, workmates, girlfriends and even family back in Scotland, and only one person, the lead guitarist in my band ever paid me back, so it is not just a Thai thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edwinchester Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , I have lent money to Thai family and GOOD friends. Always been repaid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nielsk Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Come on. 2000 bath. What's the problem. If You can't afford to loose that small amount of money in the end, don't lend money out. Easy choise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfmanjack Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 In Thaispeak 'borrow' means 'give me'. It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , I have about the same luck lending money to people no matter what their skin color was. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wandasloan Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 It is rare to get money back that you lend to a Thai , harsh but true , Of course. This is why there are no banks left in Thailand and there's not a single item in the country you can buy on time payments. Every other country worldwide has a credit system, but Thailand's totally collapsed three weeks after it began in 1952. . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JHenry Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 One could say you asked her for a hand job and she refused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayayay Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Many Thais believes foreigners are made of money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayayay Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Decade ago i lent money to a woman in Patong Beach. 5k. 3 months later after her being in Koh Samui, she came back to Patong Beach. I stayed in touch with her occasionally that time before. When back in Patong i reminded her about 5 k. Wait couple of days she replied. Told this to some friends and had a bet with them about her paying me back. They laughed....no way she is going to pay you back. 3 days later the girl called me and paid me back. Got the money and won the bet. I have lent money to friends, workmates, girlfriends and even family back in Scotland, and only one person, the lead guitarist in my band ever paid me back, so it is not just a Thai thing. Its a lead guitarist thing!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CMBob Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Given we have no idea how the OP knows the person requesting the loan (Mr. OP, you rather neglected that critical information), I can offer only two comments: (1) If the Thai is a stranger or if you hardly knew her, then I'd have to agree that she was being rather cheeky and I'd think your offer of paying her for garden work was rather admirable on your part. (2) If, however, she was a friend of yours, I'd have a totally different opinion about your offer/refusal let alone your posting the story anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phanangpete Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 (edited) I lent a thai guy 5k bht ,some years ago , he had done some paintings for me in the past, he just called out of the blue and asked for it saying he needed it for his wife and new baby. My thai girlfriend basically told me to lend it to him. so i went atm came back told him to write an i o u, which he did. ( don't bother , i know ) I waited, months , years ,,nothing , it makes you, one, angry and two feel a fool, the little prick had got one over on me. I tracked him down as he was doing some paintings on the 2nd road Pattaya, he said he would do another one for me free , yea . Don't do it they see it as a gift mate . Never be a lender or a borrower . Edited April 18, 2014 by phanangpete 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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