LtttleMissy Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Hey guys, I been reading through Thai visa forum for quite a long while. I guess I will need some suggestion and advice from you guys. I'm a 27 year Thai woman. I work in a company on Wireless rd., and in the past few months, I have met one cute farang guy. I don't know where he is working but every evening, I would see him walking down the wireless road to catch the train. Sometimes, I eye-contact him and he smile back and my heart pound with excitement. (it might sound like a thai soap opera :p but it's actually true.) My point is I don't know how to start. Should I approach him and start a conversation? One time, we standing so close in the train but I found myself speechless and too nervous to talk. I never date farang guy. I got only one Thai bf and broke up 5 year ago. My date experience is not much profession. What should I talk to him? Or.. well, I will appreciate your advice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkjames Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 I saw you as well everyday, but was too shy to ask you out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ozsamurai Posted July 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted July 30, 2014 Oh this is a new bottom to the barrel...... Oz 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post willyumiii Posted July 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted July 30, 2014 You could start a conversation by telling him :" Thai women usually do not start a conversation with men they do not know, but since you see each other so often, you thought it may be o.k. to say hello". If he's not gay or married, you have a great chance. Choke dee! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 I would start some simple conversation that doesn't sound too stupid..... "Where do you come from" is too stupid. Something about the weather? (attention from the handsum farangs: 45% are gay and 45% are already married.....so the chances aren't too good) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 (edited) The OP alleges to be a Thai woman, and according to her OP, appears to speak, read and write perfect English and yet she claims has no idea how to approach a farang guy for a date. Very easy. Just start chatting to him in your perfect English similar to how you come across in your OP, just to break the ice, and than as they say; see how the land lies. Edited July 30, 2014 by Beetlejuice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 You could start a conversation by telling him :" Thai women usually do not start a conversation with men they do not know, but since you see each other so often, you thought it may be o.k. to say hello". If he's not gay or married, you have a great chance. Choke dee! Sounds a bit complicate. Maybe just say "hello" and smile? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Interesting ... A coffee maybe ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 The OP alleges to be a Thai woman, and according to her OP, appears to speak, read and write perfect English and yet she claims has no idea how to approach a farang guy for a date. Very easy. Just start chatting to him in your perfect English similar to how you come across in your OP, just to break the ice, and than as they say; see how the land lies. There are lots of Thais who write English very perfect but aren't good in speaking it. And there are lots of Farangs who aren't easy to understand (Canada, Australia, some parts of USA....) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 You ask for a cola. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inzman Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Haven't had a boyfriend in 5 years? Maybe you should look into having some beauty work done if men are not attracted to you. I don't think it wold be wise to approach him. If he was attracted to you, most men would simply ask you out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirtycash Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 (edited) just say the simplest thing in the world " hello " every time you see him. your thai so you allready have the smile which comes easy to you . by the way, im available 555 Edited July 30, 2014 by dirtycash Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gsxrnz Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 (edited) Can you say "I go wid you" ? Footnote: I don't think this OP will win the award for Troll of the Year, but nice try anyway. Edited July 30, 2014 by Gsxrnz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 (edited) Say....hello - do you read Thai Visa Forum?------ there's a thread there that makes me think of you....... Pick up some som tam or sweets and ask if he would like to share..... Mention - I see you every day - where do you work? - - - I work ______________ Stumble into him and drop something so there is contact and eye contact....... Edited July 30, 2014 by pgrahmm 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samuibeachcomber Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Can you say "I go wid you" ? Footnote: I don't think this OP will win the award for Troll of the Year, but nice try anyway. Agree pretty weak attempt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunpa Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Just bar-fine him! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted July 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted July 30, 2014 The OP alleges to be a Thai woman, and according to her OP, appears to speak, read and write perfect English and yet she claims has no idea how to approach a farang guy for a date. Very easy. Just start chatting to him in your perfect English similar to how you come across in your OP, just to break the ice, and than as they say; see how the land lies. There are lots of Thais who write English very perfect but aren't good in speaking it. And there are lots of Farangs who aren't easy to understand (Canada, Australia, some parts of USA....) This maybe true, but the OP aint one of them... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkkden Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Just say Hi, introduce yourself and chat for while. See if he is a decent guy, ask him what he does and tell him about yourself. Simple. He will very happy to meet you! Best of luck to you:) Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samuibeachcomber Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Come on guy's this topic is a wind up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post HeijoshinCool Posted July 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted July 30, 2014 Come on guy's this topic is a wind up! . Probably. But it won't wind down anytime soon because it's (in their minds) a beautiful, lonely, sexy, heart-thudding Thai girl asking old farts how to talk to a young guy. The stream of advice will be endless. Having said that, my advice is she should immediately stop using the F word. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morakot Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 You could start a conversation by telling him :" Thai women usually do not start a conversation with men they do not know, but since you see each other so often, you thought it may be o.k. to say hello". Sounds a bit complicate. Maybe just say "hello" and smile? Yes, you say hello first and then go for the full willyumii: I usually do not start a conversation with men I do not know, but since we see each other so often, you thought it may be o.k. to say "hello". From here you'll proceed with a short introduction, unless of course Mr Cute has announced that he resides under a bridge or expressed displeasures otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LtttleMissy Posted July 30, 2014 Author Share Posted July 30, 2014 Various answers, several has inspired and encourages me so much. Somehow, I will try to work it out. :) Ps. I learn English in university, but never go abroad. Additional English knowledge are from loads of media I consumes such as American series and programs. :p Thanks for all your comments and advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATF Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Just tell him you haven't had a s*** for five years and you like the cut of his jib. Guaranteed he will rip your bodice off on the SkyTrain. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeanpierre Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 tell him you have ATM i lost mine.I invite you for diner if you pay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisinth Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> Oh this is a new bottom to the barrel...... Oz This is shovel out and keep digging material.......................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deacon Bell Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Stop him, ask if he'd like to go for a drink sometime, and if so to send you a message, then give him your business card or whatever. Simple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dagobert Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Hey little missy, dont you consumes to much of that America series and programes. They are realy fatening " you know" Sent from my GT-P3100 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loppylugs1 Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 I think it is me you are referring too. yes I love you long time,now get in the queue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 (edited) The usual way seems to go something like,"You hansum man, you buy me drink?" Edited July 30, 2014 by AnotherOneAmerican Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunpa Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 A Thai-girl in love with a YOUNG farang.... LOL! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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