As soon as I arrived to meet my Issan "Lady" money "was" on the table  

 

She had land and asked me to build a house. When I told her not a problem but she have to sign an agreement just in case we split. All I asked to be pay back full amount plus bank loan interest. Things changed fast... No more happy nights   no more breakfasts .

 

She wanted everything but I am not stupid. Yes, I paid for food drinks and few other things. I am not a cheap 

 

Oh, Yes we went to Lao and at Friendship bridge immigration toured us back because her car was not in her name. We hired a driver and a car and I have learned few thing 

 

So please tell, Just Issan or all Thai girls 

 

 

 

You met her on the Internet.

 

Now you just met me on the Internet, how about you give me some money? 

 

Go outside? 

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

MikeRR,

 

Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons!

As they say, you get what you pay for.

The answer to OP is  HUGE BIG no

 

My question is

 

How long did you know her, no signs of greed??? leave brain at airport???/

 

You have a problem with a THAI lady, who happens to live in ISSAN,and your question is are all Issan girls like that???

 

troll????

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

Farm land rents for about 2000bht/per rai/per year or less.

HI MikeRR, what a great title to your thread.

I wish that I had thought of this, I could have used it if I wanted to go trolling.

 

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

Farm land rents for about 2000bht/per rai/per year or less.

 

he's not living on farm land

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

 

Not my land

 but i would have to pay for all upkeep 

 

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

 

Not my land

 but i would have to pay for all upkeep 

 

only while you lived there. 

MikeRR,

 

Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons!

Thank you for off topic comet

 

english is not my first language  

 

 

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

 

Not my land

 but i would have to pay for all upkeep 

 

only while you lived there. 

 

 

Where's that video that shows the last guy that bought/built the farm/house/ranch....he was not a sympathetic type but the the message is great.......

 

 

 

just your girl. and why would she pay you back past payments if you lived in the house on free land? are you going to pay her rent on the land the house sat on?

 

Not my land

 but i would have to pay for all upkeep 

 

only while you lived there. 

 

 

 

 

The problem here is the difference between the ideas and obligations of Romantic Love by Thais and Westerners.

In the west, each partner is perceived to be equal. Decisions and costs are shared. This is becoming more prevalent in Thailand, but, really only in the larger cities.

 

The traditional Thai concept is that the man is the bread-winner and chief decision maker. He has to "take-care" of the wife and in return the domestic decisions and tasks are taken care of for him.

 

Thais do not say "I love you" to each other nearly so much as Western couples do. When I asked a Thai about this, they said that each partner knows if they are genuinely loved, or not by watching the actions of the other. Words were just words.

Eminently practical, I think.

 

MikeRR,

 

Mostly i think they are looking for grammar lessons!

Thank you for off topic comet

 

english is not my first language  

 

 

But it is your first lady.........?

The problem here is the difference between the ideas and obligations of Romantic Love by Thais and Westerners.

In the west, each partner is perceived to be equal. Decisions and costs are shared. This is becoming more prevalent in Thailand, but, really only in the larger cities.

 

The traditional Thai concept is that the man is the bread-winner and chief decision maker. He has to "take-care" of the wife and in return the domestic decisions and tasks are taken care of for him.

 

Thais do not say "I love you" to each other nearly so much as Western couples do. When I asked a Thai about this, they said that each partner knows if they are genuinely loved, or not by watching the actions of the other. Words were just words.

Eminently practical, I think.

Thank You very much for an intelligent reply 

 

My mam was a house wife so I full understand responsibilities 

OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension.

To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners.

They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners .

OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension.

To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners.

They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners .

Well, I sold my business and retired at almost 50

 

Room at your coffee table?

 

... 
 

OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women

 

I thought that most esteemed TV members were married to Thai-Chinese wives who are doctors and lawyers with a degree from Chulalongkorn and were definitely not ex-bar girls.

Topic moved to the Farang Pub.

OP, sadly you would be mocked because most if not all esteem Thai visa members are married to hard working , upper class Thai women , because Thai women just love retired foreign pensioners living off their pension.

To answer your original post, sadly vast majority are looking for "better and easier " life by being with foreigners.

They expect financial support for them and entire family , because they simply do not grasp the concept that money does not fall from the trees for foreigners .

vast majority? lol

Yes all Thai girls are money hungry harpies desperate for land and money, all tattooed people are violent thugs, all Muslims are terrorists, all Irish people are drunks and all expats living in Thailand are old, overweight pensioners preying on young girls....  NEXT

Meanwhile, there's a Thai lady on an Issan forum asking:

"These loser Farangs--is it true that all they want is free sex with a woman half their age?"

T

Theres some hot issarn girls-they dont seem to want houses- just short time...................lol.

Pretend you are a dairy cow....pretend your man bits are the utters....pretend milk is money..........what happens to dairy cows when the milk runs out? They get shipped off for ground beef....not even quality steaks...just ground beef.