evadgib Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 The ex brass that are married & living in UK far more obvious than they are here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The Deerhunter Posted November 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 24, 2014 I'm no expert but, an indicator might be ... If the Lady speaks reasonable English ... but has little or no written English. Plus has a reasonable grasp of slang or swearing words. . I agree with u on this one A friend of mine got in with a girl she could speak Russian English and a few otter languages . She was working in pattaya bit as far as he was concerned she was not a bar girl but after I meet her I sad she was for shue , she had a nice car motor bike etc And later he did find out she was a bar girl Yeah. In my country the massage parlour girls all work reception, So they say. OK. Not every Bar girl is "damaged goods" & an unsuitable mate, but if they have been in it long enough and the assets around the family home seem out of sync with the family vocational history then be suspicious. Also if you start catching her out on lies, that is a totally bad sign for various reasons. They live in a fantasy world & make up much of what they say as they go along, "telling him what he wants to hear." The old saying "you can take the girl out of the bar but you may never get the bar out of the girl" unfortunately applies. I know at least two close friends who have struck it lucky with real good catches, ex-bar. But I suspect they are more the exception that the rule, especially as the individual girl's period of time in the game increases. Good playmates don't necessarily make good life mates. Remember that & try to tell the difference 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Do you think generally, it's relatively easy to 'spot' (identify) an ex-Bar girl when she's dressed, though not working. The dead give away is the foreigner with them. followed by English language bar talk (good heart talk etc), then ugly tattoos, exposed shoulders in public. There's a million different giveaways. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baa_Mango Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 24, 2014 Author Share Posted November 24, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry. How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa. In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Munger Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa. In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question. Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoiBiker Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd. I think you have that the wrong way round. It seems to be those who're involved in that world who cloak it in euphemism - 'naughty nightlife', 'entertainment area', 'bar girls'. You rarely hear anyone describe what they do using more blunt terms like prostitute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Good playmates don't necessarily make good life mates. Remember that & try to tell the difference No likes left ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd. I think you have that the wrong way round. It seems to be those who're involved in that world who cloak it in euphemism - 'naughty nightlife', 'entertainment area', 'bar girls'. You rarely hear anyone describe what they do using more blunt terms like prostitute. SoiBiker ... I'm trying to keep an open mind about you. But start agreeing with Munger's* comments will make my mind up quickly. I'm comfortable with the term 'Bar Girls'. Agreed, a cousin of what we refer, in the West as prostitution ... but not the same. ... and I'm not a PC man. Diplomacy and tact, sure ... PC ... never. * Munger, a miss-spelling of the term Monger. A sex or whore Monger is often referred to as a sex tourist. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoiBiker Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 How is it not the same as prostitution? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoiBiker Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Incidentally, you might want to re-read those posts. I'm not agreeing with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Incidentally, you might want to re-read those posts. I'm not agreeing with them. Fair enough ... I'm always happy to apologise if I <deleted> up. I did misread your post ... warmest apologies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 How is it not the same as prostitution? I would be happy to discuss the relative merits, but, on this Forum, we aren't allowed to (not going to write a huge post, only to have it deleted later by the Mods doing their job). So, it's a mute point really. Maybe over a beer one day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In Search of Space Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 It's all down to the person itself, everyone is different. I bet there are some not so nice girls who never worked in a bar & some lovely ones who did 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 How is it not the same as prostitution? Only when it`s in Thailand, apparently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa. In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question. Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd. If you the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua and you called a bar girl who is a prostitute II-dtuua she would put a knife in your back you see thais who work the bars think it is all ok till you tell them they are prostitute , but some I know have to work selling they self because no work in thailand 3rd world country . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daoyai Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry. How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 What does it matter if they worked the bars or not, it's what they are and do now that counts. If I found out now that my wife was a bargirl, it would not make any difference to me. What she did before she met me is none of my business, and vice versa. In Thailand the description bar girl is a another form of the the term, prostitute. In 99.99% of cases, western guys are not referring to woman that just work in bars serving drinks, but meaning those who work in bars and go with men for money, women of ill repute and the term bar girl is just a means of making the reality, women of ill repute sound better. That`s my answer to the OP`s question. Correct, the word "prostitute" is too harsh for the slobbering PC crowd. If you the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua and you called a bar girl who is a prostitute II-dtuua she would put a knife in your back you see thais who work the bars think it is all ok till you tell them they are prostitute , but some I know have to work selling they self because no work in thailand 3rd world country . Sorry , I mean if you know the word prostitute in thai , ii-dtuua . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry. How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution. What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malt25 Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution. What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY. Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts. Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts. Reply at your peril. Cheers..... Mal. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umbanda Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 (edited) I'm no expert but, an indicator might be ... If the Lady speaks reasonable English ... but has little or no written English. Plus has a reasonable grasp of slang or swearing words. . And overly friendly and not shy away from the affection. Adding: like to dress provocative and have beauty enhancement such as boobs job, nose jobs, and lips injection. Right and cultured answer from a local. Edited November 25, 2014 by umbanda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 I'm not certain I understand the question, but I think the term 'bar-girl' is used to hide, somewhat, what is going on. I have never understood the fascination some have with bragging about paying for sex. It's a pretty boring subject to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution. What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY. Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts. Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts. Reply at your peril. Cheers..... Mal. You would have to be a little Pom with no money lives here because you have know one back home who care about your smart ass ways Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 What's a Thai mole? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 The amount of women that work in bars is is very very low when contrasted with the population of the country. Many western men here have a skewed perspective of this country and its citizens. I would consider the domestic sex trade, which is probably much more brothel based, and stocked with just part time people to make up more of the sex industry.How long have you been coming to thailand , not long sound like it you are joking are you about sex in thailand it is the 2nd biggest sex trade in the world look it up , the place is full of thai moles at one time here there could be at less mills of thai moles all over the place come and going in the sex trade so get it wright before you get on here and go on about thai moles . George, get a grip man. As english is obviously not your native lingo i will explain, the farang oriented lady bar scene is a very small part of the Thai pay for play industry, the number of women involved in the karaoke, escort, student sponsorship, barbershop, hairdressor, office worker freelance mia noi and brothel scene far exceeds the farang oriented beer bars. Because farangs often like the exotic look of a small brown lao babe, they can find employment and possibly marriage through the bar scene.... education and social graces not required as their customers are often of similar style. Often these farm girls are bright yet earthy and bring a nasty sweetness that is irresistable ... proceed with caution. What you think I don't know all of that I do , and your are the one that needs to have a look at your self you are the one that lives here full time not sure if you but if you do you could be one that sell all back home comes here been ripe off and can't go back home no MONEY. Oh, Little Georgie, you are at it again. Winding up anyone that will read your troll posts. Members, our Little Georgie gets his jollies from illiterate & nonsense posts. Reply at your peril. Cheers..... Mal. You would have to be a little Pom with no money lives here because you have know one back home who care about your smart ass ways And one more thing you like to read my post and a lot more do here and you not like it I can get on here and talk the truth little man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 Georgie did you get out the wrong side of bed today? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 I'm not certain I understand the question, but I think the term 'bar-girl' is used to hide, somewhat, what is going on. I have never understood the fascination some have with bragging about paying for sex. It's a pretty boring subject to me. You should try it. Not much chance of doing it in the UK, and the girls selling it in the UK ..... yuck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 What's a Thai mole? I have no idea either.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted November 25, 2014 Author Share Posted November 25, 2014 Georgie did you get out the wrong side of bed today? Not at all I can go back home and have a home to live in not one but 4 so I am going great but love coming and seeing how stupid some western man are here when it comes to thai moles Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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