Why Are You Still Living With Her?

[Costas2008]

A few years ago I met Mr A. (that’s what I will be calling him), through a friend.

A nice, not complicated farang, about 70yo, that liked to make sausages and spaghetti sauce that he sometimes used to offer to me without any pay.

Mr A. used to have a Thai wife, that at that time she was suffering from cancer of the liver.

He had been married for about 6 -7 years.

With my wife used to visit them and try to offer some comfort to the dying wife and to Mr A.

Last time we visited them, he told me that he had met another woman, in the hospital he was taking his wife and he was thinking of leaving her.

I remember saying to him then, that his wife had not much time left in this world.

10 days later we heard that he’s left the dying wife and had moved with the other woman in another province.

The only thing we heard is that the woman was married or looking after (I can’t be sure here as to the relationship), with another farang with a disability and the 3 of them were living together.

That is how they met in the hospital.

Anyway, we kept visiting the wife, till she died 2 months later.

Never heard of Mr A, for 2 years now, till yesterday.

He appeared in my house with the new wife, asking for a loan.

The explanation he gave me that his new wife had lost about 2.2 million Baht for the last 2 years playing on the lottery.

Some of the money he paid for, some she borrowed from others.

The problem was that if they didn’t pay the money by next Monday, these “other” people would not be very nice to them.

Although I was shocked and I wanted to open my mouth and say a lot to him, I politely declined to give them any money, but I couldn’t resist asking him.

Why are you still with her?

I got no answer and they left 5 minutes later.

I don’t know if Mr A. reads TVF but if he does, I would like to ask you again.

Why are you still with her?

[BKKSnowBird]

I say mind your own business.

[ttthailand]

Karma at its best

[arthurwait]

And what is her age ?

[Costas2008]

I say mind your own business.

His business became my business too the moment he asked me for a loan.

[arthurwait]

[David48]

"Why am I still with her"?

She is collectively both my best friend and the (current) love of my life ...

Simples ...

.

[Costas2008]

"Why am I still with her"?

She is collectively both my best friend and the (current) love of my life ...

Simples ...

.

David, did you just wake up?

Did you have your coffee?

You better read the OP again and not just the title

[N47HAN]

She owns my home , cars , buisiness , and basically him.

Lol troll intended :-)

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Edited December 4, 2014 by N47HAN

[edit]

Thai girls who gamble are dangerous companions, Have met one who lost her house and car,

He had a nerve to ask you for money,

Leaving his wife while she was dying is a poor thing to do

[frollywolly]

How much of a loan was he asking for?

Edited December 4, 2014 by frollywolly

[Costas2008]

She owns my home , cars , buisiness , and basically him.

Lol troll intended :-)

Sent from my GT-N7100 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app

Hey, I see your 4 Aces and I'm all in.

Sorry.......flash royal for me..................you loose.

[Costas2008]

How much of a loan was he asking for?

I wouldn't like to go into that.

As I said, may be, he is reading this.

And I hope he is.......................

[Honkie]

Incredible sex ??? (30 seconds of it ,maybe ).

Costas , did you meet this friend through TV ? Sure he is member of this esteemed forum ?

[Costas2008]

Incredible sex ??? (30 seconds of it ,maybe ).

Costas , did you meet this friend through TV ? Sure he is member of this esteemed forum ?

No, and I quote from my OP.

"A few years ago I met Mr A. (that’s what I will be calling him), through a friend."

Don't know if he is a TVF member.

I hope he is, so he can read what I wrote.

[BritManToo]

Thai girls who gamble are dangerous companions, Have met one who lost her house and car,

He had a nerve to ask you for money,

Leaving his wife while she was dying is a poor thing to do

Yeah, but dying wives aren't a lot of fun.

And at 70+, he doesn't have much time to waste.

I agree,

Bad thing to do, but in a way understandable.

[CharlieH]

An inflammatory remark has been removed.

[Jdiddy]

Would love for you to start a Khon Kaen Blog complete with pictures Costas, would subscribe

[ezzra]

By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." - Socrates

[catman20]

the mans a fool

[kinmaew]

Some people never learn and the only answer is "No answer" because they seem to not understand basic logic. God I love it Thais and their debts I couldn't give a RA, let the "Others" come and give them what they deserve. How likely would a Thai pay a farang debt 0%?

[SOTIRIOS]

.....a typical scam...

...a wife...a gf....or a friend......is in urgent need......

....yeah, right......

[thejcb]

I say mind your own business.

His business became my business too the moment he asked me for a loan.

............. and the moment you said "NO" it STOPPED being your business.

Don't you have anything else to do but play and write silly articles on thaivisa all and every day ?

It's very boring for the rest of us to constantly see your name.

I only sign in briefly but your name is ubiquitous on this website.

Try doing something else for a change !

[SOTIRIOS]

....as for guys that trusted a woman....

...everything was put into the wife's name.....as advised......

...and with children in the middle.....

...once you are cleaned out.....you have not much choice in anything....

...you know the laws are stacked against the foreign man....

...that includes custody of children......

[Docno]

Incredible sex ??? (30 seconds of it ,maybe ).

Costas , did you meet this friend through TV ? Sure he is member of this esteemed forum ?

No, and I quote from my OP.

"A few years ago I met Mr A. (that’s what I will be calling him), through a friend."

Don't know if he is a TVF member.

I hope he is, so he can read what I wrote.

And after the details you shared about his life, do you really think he's going to identify himself here (if he is a TV reader), even if he uses an avatar? Why would he or anyone feel a need to justify decisions--however questionable they may be--to you?

[Costas2008]

I say mind your own business.

His business became my business too the moment he asked me for a loan.

............. and the moment you said "NO" it STOPPED being your business.

Don't you have anything else to do but play and write silly articles on thaivisa all and every day ?

It's very boring for the rest of us to constantly see your name.

I only sign in briefly but your name is ubiquitous on this website.

Try doing something else for a change !

I'm very glad to see you reading my posts and answering them.

Hope I hear from you soon on my next thread

[Phoenix1312]

Shaking my head again. 70 year old man leaves dying wife for another. <deleted>.

[Suradit69]

"Why am I still with her"?

She is collectively both my best friend and the (current) love of my life ...

Simples ...

.

As usual, David thinks all threads are about him. Or maybe he's admitting that he is Mr. A .

I don’t know if Mr A. reads TVF but if he does, I would like to ask you again.

Why are you still with her?

Edited December 5, 2014 by Suradit69

[mrtoad]

I'd have told him to F Off, cheeky <deleted> asking to borrow 2.2 million.

[csabo]

Thai girls who gamble are dangerous companions, Have met one who lost her house and car,

He had a nerve to ask you for money,

Leaving his wife while she was dying is a poor thing to do

Yeah, but dying wives aren't a lot of fun.

And at 70+, he doesn't have much time to waste.

I agree,

Bad thing to do, but in a way understandable.

"dying wives aren't a lot of fun" That's the quote of the week!!

The wives that never die are even less fun....

Tongue in cheek guys...don't freak out.